Matured debate 4 all-Y can't women hv dark desires

Hey buddies, this thread has got something which you all will categorize under matured content but I still want teenagers to read and give their own personal opinion without anyone's influence. Why am I saying this because what you all feel exactly from your heart, you have to express it here regarding the debate.

Regarding grown up ladies they know well how to react to this post. Just one thing I want everyone to be honest to the question asked.

Offlate I have been reading about few posts made like how dare he bed her or how can he kiss her or she is going in wrong way etc. etc.

My question is why can't a lady allowed to show her dark desire in society???

If Arnav is kissing Khushi the replies we get is oh! wow!!! he is so manly , not to go far I myself wrote many times. But what if it is shown Khushi initiating for a kiss. Many amongst you all must be feeling she is a lady how can she???? But my question is Why can't she???? She is also a human being having the same feelings and emotions like Arnav has, so why when it comes to romantic sequences it is expected only men to initiate. Why can't khushi bed him???? If Arnav says she is her wife and he has full right to bed her then I say she is a wife and even she has equal rights to bed him. Why it is not expected that a woman should initiate sex with her mate??? Why for us it is shameful to see a lady initiating something seductive and romantic????

If a married man want to kiss or bed a top actress of his choice, it is said he likes her. Even their wives have no qualms with this. But have you ever thought why can't a woman have a dark desire. What if she want to kiss or have sex with the man of her choice. We all are humans and we all are having a dark side. Why is it only man's dark side is permitted in society and if any woman discloses her dark desire, it is awarded with words like cheap.

I know no matter how much men dream they cannot get Katrina Kaif and similarly even ladies won't get Salman Khan. And believe me my question is not this. My question is if men are allowed to express their darkest desire so openly in society then why not women????

** Plz no bashing allowed

** The name of katrina kaif and Salman khan is just used as examples and they are not for discussion purpose.

i agree to each n every word of urs and i thnk we shld grow up now 👍🏼

Omg Rashu

Very nice post!
In Indian Television, women are expected to be coy,humble and self sacrificing, infact even in IPKKND if you noticed there are two or three dialogues from Dadi, she kinda refers to Arnav and says that he is a man and would behave in a certain way but Khushi being a woman should have understood the consequences or something of that sort. That dialogue really irked me up!
Personally, if you ask me , as humans we all have desires (dark included) and there is nothing wrong in being open about it esp with your partner. Infact I have read many articles wherein the authors suggest that women need to take lead and men definitely like it too! I do not know what the CVs will put up on the show, but it would be great to see Khushi initiating something for a change!

Gr8 Post..👏 👏 but i have also seen a post where tey have requestd Khushi to initate the kiss..

Well said Rashmi. I second on u that. I m waiting for the khushi to initiate things. 😉

May be i feel women are alwys tied with so called customs...and blah blah blah...where women are said that whatever they feel,whatever they wish shouldnot be expressed as there stilll exist some men in the society..who think that if women initiate any sort of kiss or initmate thing...he may think that women already have any such experience or sort of..because of which even some women dont wish letout their desires openly..

Awesome post! Yes Girls do have dark desires and there is nothing to be disgusted about it! Only people who think they are inferior to The Men will have such a feeling! I think most of the people in the Forum think and wish Khushi to initiate the kiss which totally includes me! :)

first of all thnx 4 ur pm...& ur pm title was prefect "hey sleeping lady" tat was perfect...

hmm..rashu great post🤗