my thoughts on Yash's volcanic anger... by eva..

Hello every one,

I am sure everyone is really upset at Yash I am too but as I love Yash too much I want to look in to his head and see why he is behaving so irrationally...

ok Here are my thoughts...

By looking at two days of episode and remembering the last leaving scene in Mumbai... before sitting in the car he was angry at Aarti and he smack his palms together and said now stop Aartiji you have done enough for my family.. This indicates that he must have read the diary...

Out of blue they showed Aarti keeping the diary and writing about her feelings and about what her MIL told her to do... So it means that this diary has some significant...

If Yash has read the diary he would know that Aarti loves him and he got terrified with that fact. He was starting to come out of Arpita mode thinking that it is safe to come out as Aarti has no expectation from him and he will be able to be a happy son' a happy dad' a happy brother' a happy brother in law' all happy only not happy husband as he has nothing to worry about doing any husbandly duties toward Aarti. He felt safe to come out of Arpita mode as Aarti just want to be a mom and not his wife. But now when he knows the fact that Aarti has fallen in love with him he feels trapped and now he regrets that he let his guard down and came out of his Arpita mode. He was ready to put the aching memories of Arpita in closet and emerge as happy Yash knowing that it is safe and he does not have to do anything but be happy for his family and children. Now knowing that Aarti has fallen for him he is afraid of his own feelings as he might have thought that he has started to like her a lot but now he feels trapped and that is why he is enraged at himself for letting his guard down and let Aarti get under his skin. He feels that he betrayed Arpita's memories as she only can rule his heart but indirectly he has allowed Aarti to be closer to him.

All this anger and rage is actually not at Aarti but at himself. He is feeling confused of his feelings for Aarti. He was totally safe hiding his feelings and letting Aarti pull him out knowing she wants to do it for the sake of children but realizing that she did it because she loves him.. he felt trapped. His security blanket of Arpita's name has started to cracked and he does not like that feeling at all. He thought that he is safe with Aarti as he does not have to give anything in return but he feels that his security blanket is slipping away from him' it is just snatched away from him and he feels betrayed and may be confused and terrified that eventually he will have to break his promise to his dead wife and accept another person in her place. As unconsciously Aarti has made a place in his heart and that realization has put him in the spin of emotions and he does not want to face the facts as he felt safe knowing Aarti does not expects anything in return'. But with all these exposure of the contents of diary he feels Aarti has broken her promise and betrayed him by falling in love with him'. and now he just does not want any connection with Aarti. He does not want to even see her face as by her sugar talk and manipulation he never realized that she has gone under his skin.. He is fighting his own demons of liking or may be loving some other woman other than Arpita but he is not ready to accept those facts and he is fighting it tooth and nails' He is feeling terrible and disgusted at himself for allowing Aarti to get closer to him and he is just too enraged to control all those contracting feelings in him and that is why he cannot bear the sight of Aarti as she is the root cause of brining this turmoil in his heart and he is hating all those facts so he is directing is rage and anger at the root cause of his volcanic emotions' and that is Aarti

My other theory is with Gayatri's high expectation from Aarti'.

Now at the dance Yash was pretty happy and he came and dance on the song galia sangli solachi.. and that time He was totally out of his brooding and Arpita mode.. then while dancing he said thank you Aartiji for pulling me out of my gloomy mood. Now I will live the life as it is supposed to live and I will be happy moving forward...

So now Aarti goes to call MIL and ask her keep her trophy ready.. Now this also is significant as Aarti does not do anything for the reward..

So what I mean to say is Yash thought that what Aarti has done for him was from her own heart and herself and was a genuine act' Yes it was but then may be after reading the diary he must have felt that it was not by herself but she was only doing it to please his mom and getting the good grace from them. He was literally coming out of the Arpita mode and maybe he was little by little falling in love with her but when he realized that it was just a show of and not genuine he got hurt' he felt betrayed and he felt he as did grave mistake in giving a place of a wife' a place which his genuine and loving wife Arpita hold. He felt he did grave mistake in trusting Aarti who was just faking all these affection and attention..

I think the anger he is showing at Aarti is not at Aarti but at himself for leaving behind the memories of his beloved Aarti and trusting this fake person. And he is the person who just abhors lies and fakeness and it just enraged him sooo much that he just cannot bear the sight of Aarti nor can be in one room with her. Her presence reminds him of his foolishness and his betrayal to the memories of Arpita and he went in to rageful mode.

Yes I do believe that in no way a man should be so violently angry and be physically abusing'

But I think all this anger and rage he is directing at Aarti as she is the cause of this change of feelings in him. He did not want to change but she made him change and then he realized that she is doing this not for him but for him mom..

I think once he will realize that he has misjudge Aarti he will do everything in his power to seek the forgiveness and come back to normal

Also I think what Aarti had to do was put him in the spot for him to act and because of her MIL's insistence she could not get enough time to let him know how she felt too so this misunderstanding might have been created in Yash's mind'

So we will have to wait for him to calm down and think rationally and realized that Aarti can never fake any feelings. She is all genuine and she did all that because she absolutely has fallen in love with him and so did he with her'

So let's give Yash a chance to come out his confusion and realized that his rage is not toward Aarti but toward himself and he needs to give himself a chance and live his life again'.

Let me know what you think'..