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So let me get this straight. Yash is going to (out of nothing but stubborness and inflated male anger) not break Aarti's fast?
You know, no matter how horribly he treats her in public, she always respects him. In public and in private.
I give up on him. He's so selfish and self-involved, that he really doesn't see the effect his actions have sometimes. He doesn't foresee anything but his own happiness, sadness etc. He takes away Ansh's toy simply because it bothers him. When his feelings are involved, nothing and no one else matters. And you know its true.
So now Aarti is going to become conveniently bedridden and gracefully ill, and Yash is all of a sudden going to get an attack of conscious? It would've been much better if he felt guilt for his actions, rather than the result they had on her. Is PV actually trying to tell me that he can shove and push all he wants. He can yell and publicly disrespect all he wants. But if he breaks her vrat when she regains consciousness (out of guilt and necessity), then that's somehow a beautiful romantic moment? Spare me🤢.
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Sorry guys. I really am sorry for the negativity. But I don't understand what's up with him, and nothing can justify such a complete lack of consideration. Why is he such as ass? Why oh why??? 😆 Please someone tell me.
The thing about Yash that always gets to me, is that he has very little patience for other people's off-moods. The 3 kids and Aarti can never throw a tantrum or just get angry for the sake of it, without having him harp all over them. But god forbid anyone get in the way of his T-Rex sized pity parties featuring lets-release-all-my-agression-on-my-wife-because-that's-what-they're-for.
Is this how he treated Arpita? Is PV actually trying to tell me this is okay? Yes, spouses do release their less attractive emotions on each other all the time. But men can not and should not behave the was Yash is. There's a big difference between yelling at your husband and telling him to go get a bag, and yelling and pushing your wife publicly. And in front of your kids. I can't stress how much it bothers me that Yash feels no reason to hide all this discontent from the children. From the beginning he hasn't understood how his acceptance effects PayPal's. And he doesn't understand how any visible discord between him and Aarti can effect the kids. It is completely lost on him that the kids only started getting along with each other and with their respective step-parent, when ArYa became partners. Because he's so damn self-involved.
You know what his bouts of aggressive anger remind me of? Really spoiled 4-7 year olds who get so angry and red in the face, and end up rolling all over the floor and kicking the air out of anger. Yash reminds me of those little bratty children. Time to grow the hell up buddy boy.
And I do not buy into the argument that a man is justified to push because the woman would push him in the same circumstances. That is very twisted and a complete misinterpretation of what feminism is.
Forget Yash's raised voice and his refusing to break her vrat. I want him to show some guilt for his out of control anger. His family has so stunted emotional growth that he can't even deal with the most normal of emotions. And he always seeks to blame other people. G3 I'm looking at you. For someone who got down really hard on Aarti for spoiling her five year old, you should look at your grown ass son, who still behaves like he's five. He definitely has the emotional growth of one.
Arpita is no longer a satisfactory excuse. I just don't buy it anymore. His pain over loosing her (and feeling guilt) doesn't make his actions and words acceptable. And the reason I can't understand his behaviour anymore is because, surely at this point he understands how toxic it is. And its not like his anger this time is a short burst of temper. He's had more than enough time to cool off. But his anger is still on a slow burn. And he's fostering the growth of it with such care and deliberate calculation. That annoys me to no end. Does he actually feel his actions are justified, upon reflection??😲😲 Anger can be justified, yes. But letting it get away with you is always . Honestly, from personal experience anger is best dealt with by removing yourself from the situation. Not by forcibly putting it another's face and treating them like crap. It only leaves you feeling like crap. True story 😆
He's dealt with the repercussions of his quick, 'i'm-so-sad, im-so-sad' anger more than once. Surely he knows no good can come of this. At the very least he can pretend in front of other people for the sake of his kids and family. He worries his mother for no reason, and doesn't even twitch an eyelash. Actually, forget his parents. He lets his kids see his anger (aggression) and disrespect. So no. No more sympathy. He just needs to get the hell over himself.
He has not once thought about Aarti's past, Aarti's pain, or what issues Aarti had to work through (all alone) and with no empathy from anyone in this house. Vidhi, despite being so encouraging, has not lent one sympathetic ear to Aarti to hear her troubles. For anyone in that house its always "Omg you like Yash? That is so great for him. You should make him very happy". Unspoken is the phrase, "Oh, your happiness? I don't understand😕."
PS: How in the world is Aarti insisting to do the vrat her taking a stand? She's ignoring Yash's and G3's temporary demands, yes. But I'm 100% sure she's insisting (not for herself) but for their long-term happiness. G3 would've regretted such an insistence later on. And Aarti's fighting a battle with Yash for his own happiness, not for her own . She is still doing what G3 and Yash want her to do. Its just that their useless and self-spiting anger is standing in the way. The one person she is not doing all this for, is herself. That's what I believe anyway.
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You know, no matter how horribly he treats her in public, she always respects him. In public and in private.
I give up on him. He's so selfish and self-involved, that he really doesn't see the effect his actions have sometimes. He doesn't foresee anything but his own happiness, sadness etc. He takes away Ansh's toy simply because it bothers him. When his feelings are involved, nothing and no one else matters. And you know its true.
So now Aarti is going to become conveniently bedridden and gracefully ill, and Yash is all of a sudden going to get an attack of conscious? It would've been much better if he felt guilt for his actions, rather than the result they had on her. Is PV actually trying to tell me that he can shove and push all he wants. He can yell and publicly disrespect all he wants. But if he breaks her vrat when she regains consciousness (out of guilt and necessity), then that's somehow a beautiful romantic moment? Spare me🤢.
🤢
Sorry guys. I really am sorry for the negativity. But I don't understand what's up with him, and nothing can justify such a complete lack of consideration. Why is he such as ass? Why oh why??? 😆 Please someone tell me.
The thing about Yash that always gets to me, is that he has very little patience for other people's off-moods. The 3 kids and Aarti can never throw a tantrum or just get angry for the sake of it, without having him harp all over them. But god forbid anyone get in the way of his T-Rex sized pity parties featuring lets-release-all-my-agression-on-my-wife-because-that's-what-they're-for.
Is this how he treated Arpita? Is PV actually trying to tell me this is okay? Yes, spouses do release their less attractive emotions on each other all the time. But men can not and should not behave the was Yash is. There's a big difference between yelling at your husband and telling him to go get a bag, and yelling and pushing your wife publicly. And in front of your kids. I can't stress how much it bothers me that Yash feels no reason to hide all this discontent from the children. From the beginning he hasn't understood how his acceptance effects PayPal's. And he doesn't understand how any visible discord between him and Aarti can effect the kids. It is completely lost on him that the kids only started getting along with each other and with their respective step-parent, when ArYa became partners. Because he's so damn self-involved.
You know what his bouts of aggressive anger remind me of? Really spoiled 4-7 year olds who get so angry and red in the face, and end up rolling all over the floor and kicking the air out of anger. Yash reminds me of those little bratty children. Time to grow the hell up buddy boy.
And I do not buy into the argument that a man is justified to push because the woman would push him in the same circumstances. That is very twisted and a complete misinterpretation of what feminism is.
Forget Yash's raised voice and his refusing to break her vrat. I want him to show some guilt for his out of control anger. His family has so stunted emotional growth that he can't even deal with the most normal of emotions. And he always seeks to blame other people. G3 I'm looking at you. For someone who got down really hard on Aarti for spoiling her five year old, you should look at your grown ass son, who still behaves like he's five. He definitely has the emotional growth of one.
Arpita is no longer a satisfactory excuse. I just don't buy it anymore. His pain over loosing her (and feeling guilt) doesn't make his actions and words acceptable. And the reason I can't understand his behaviour anymore is because, surely at this point he understands how toxic it is. And its not like his anger this time is a short burst of temper. He's had more than enough time to cool off. But his anger is still on a slow burn. And he's fostering the growth of it with such care and deliberate calculation. That annoys me to no end. Does he actually feel his actions are justified, upon reflection??😲😲 Anger can be justified, yes. But letting it get away with you is always . Honestly, from personal experience anger is best dealt with by removing yourself from the situation. Not by forcibly putting it another's face and treating them like crap. It only leaves you feeling like crap. True story 😆
He's dealt with the repercussions of his quick, 'i'm-so-sad, im-so-sad' anger more than once. Surely he knows no good can come of this. At the very least he can pretend in front of other people for the sake of his kids and family. He worries his mother for no reason, and doesn't even twitch an eyelash. Actually, forget his parents. He lets his kids see his anger (aggression) and disrespect. So no. No more sympathy. He just needs to get the hell over himself.
He has not once thought about Aarti's past, Aarti's pain, or what issues Aarti had to work through (all alone) and with no empathy from anyone in this house. Vidhi, despite being so encouraging, has not lent one sympathetic ear to Aarti to hear her troubles. For anyone in that house its always "Omg you like Yash? That is so great for him. You should make him very happy". Unspoken is the phrase, "Oh, your happiness? I don't understand😕."
PS: How in the world is Aarti insisting to do the vrat her taking a stand? She's ignoring Yash's and G3's temporary demands, yes. But I'm 100% sure she's insisting (not for herself) but for their long-term happiness. G3 would've regretted such an insistence later on. And Aarti's fighting a battle with Yash for his own happiness, not for her own . She is still doing what G3 and Yash want her to do. Its just that their useless and self-spiting anger is standing in the way. The one person she is not doing all this for, is herself. That's what I believe anyway.
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