Where is that Asr ? - Page 3

He is dead RIP
So is the feisty Khushi

Originally posted by: MaddyAddy

My thoughts posted it red.. sorry for the late response Chaitu not getting much time these days. Love the post though!

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

He is dead RIP
So is the feisty Khushi

Originally posted by: Chaituv

At the time of marriage he doesn't have value the marriage , still he tied the mangalsutra and Put the sindoor not because he was scared that Kushi might run away in the middle of the contract but it is because he respected her beliefs. Remember what he said during the marriage, "ye sindoor, mangalsutra tum hare liye mayne rakhte hai na ". Yes, he had to rub that in because at that time he did not respect her or her wishes; he was simply doing what needed to be done to ensure that she does not go back running into Shyams arms. Remember at that stage he saw her in Shyams arms at he lost all respect for her. The way he looked at her from that point onwards was with extreme disgust, till ofcourse the day ended.

He very well know Kushi ll do anything for her family , so he could have asked for a live-in too? A live in relation would not prevent her from having a relation with Shyam too. Remember he is not thinking very well of her at that point. Live in would certainly not prevent Shyam from marrying her either.

He could have made a contract and asked her to sign on the contract for 6mnths. That would have been a better deal for him na? He did not have time for a contract, he had to do something there and then. Thus the only step quarantining results was the marriage

But still As he respected her feelings , her values for marriage ,he married her! Nope that is not why her married her then. If he respected her feelings and values for marriage he would have asked her about Shyam directly rather than marry her like this. At that point she was just another girl who was running his sisters life by having an affair with his brother--in-law. That is all that he saw in her then.

He is loving her n he wanted his married life to take to next level, n he is trying to move a head , which is fine. But the anger and irritation how is it justified? He is a short tempered guy being stopped when emotions were running the way they were.. he had to be irritated. If he was all cool and fine he might not have reacted this way.

He is in love with , he started having feelings for her , everything he and himself , where is Kushi n her feelings here? Since Khushi did not openly voice her feelings, and has just been shying and playing along.. you cannot deny that he is being led on. If that is how she felt she should have said no very clearly when he first put the idea to her. She has been very clear on rituals and requirements always, so why the hesitation? why couldnt she say NO, no suhaagrat till the pheras.

Did u see the way he made her change the dress? Yup I saw that. That was very typical of an impatient man. A quality not many women like, but that is part of his character. He is that harsh feelingless thing at time. Khushi could have said that she wont change like the time she returned the Sari. She is not drawing the lines anywhere. Its like he is walking all over her and she is just letting him

When she already left the house because of contract n the last night when she was talking abt pehras why didn't he take it seriously? He didnt because she didnt reinforce her point. As soon as he highlighted suhagraat she began blushing and was all confused. That reaction to men, comes more as a, ok, rather than an outright NO. Also she should have been furious at such an outrageous suggestion, but she wasnt. why?

Why he should he eagerly wait when he knows it is a contract marriage n when he knows she still thinks it's a contract ? Things changed the night he gave her all the gifts. They both silently agreed that is was more than a contract. If she still considered it a contract why was she hugging him, the other day and many other days. If it were still a contract for her she would not hug him the way she did the past few times, and neither would she be delighted to see him admiring her when she woke up in the morning.
Also note that yesterday included, this is the 2nd time he has said the 3 golden words to her, and she hasnt even once. She is playing along, yet not committing whether to stay in or out. If its a contract, then she certainly isnt drawing the lines ever since her return; and if it isnt then she isnt letting it grow. Its like hanging in mid air.

😆 I know everyone wants a fancy wedding , but the impact will be there, did u see by the time he's lapped Shyam it was too late , it's the same way they r ruining his character.

What is his reason for being angry today? Frm what u said , so that is most imp for him? From the looks of it, it is. Remember 'the kiss' sequence? i wondered/commented then too how in the world THAT is a surety of being a husband. Lousy track.
And technically i think it is important for a married couple; especially when they have been together for so long, and both sides have shown love for each other. So avoiding it just causes MU
He didn't open up his feelings when she left the house too but only now? He understands her better now, and he knows she wants to be with him too, but she wont say it. Remember he has said i love you 2 times now.. where as she hasn't even once.

I don't think so, r they improving his character? Improving, not sure, but growing yes. They are showing the complicated, head strong and at times very selfish traits in his character.

my thoughts red again 😉

Originally posted by: MaddyAddy

my thoughts red again 😉

he doesn't believe in these rituals due to his past. maybe because of his parent's broken marriage or anjali's first marriage being called off. when he married kushi out of anger, he wanted to insult her by putting mangalsutra and sindoor which she values very much. asr is insecure about himself, he doesnt want to be seen weak in front of people. he knows he loves kushi but he didn't say it because he doesn't want to admit his feelings to her as he was insecure about himself. he hates losing people he loves and at that time he used his ASR tactics to get kushi back. truth is he can't live without her. it would be odd if suddenly ASR completrly changes his attitude. he is still in the process of learning and coming out of his past. we will see him develop slowly.

Originally posted by: Diamond_14

he doesn't believe in these rituals due to his past. maybe because of his parent's broken marriage or anjali's first marriage being called off. when he married kushi out of anger, he wanted to insult her by putting mangalsutra and sindoor which she values very much. asr is insecure about himself, he doesnt want to be seen weak in front of people. he knows he loves kushi but he didn't say it because he doesn't want to admit his feelings to her as he was insecure about himself. he hates losing people he loves and at that time he used his ASR tactics to get kushi back. truth is he can't live without her. it would be odd if suddenly ASR completrly changes his attitude. he is still in the process of learning and coming out of his past. we will see him develop slowly.