A sorry never hurt anyone...

he hadn't realised till now that him marrying her without the rasams would bring her so much trouble...

Originally posted by: sweetmadhuri18

he hadn't realised till now that him marrying her without the rasams would bring her so much trouble...

Aisha🤗

Aisha my lovely,

Res comment on this post until later.

But I have something to add.

Originally posted by: sbk2

Aisha🤗

So glad you made this post!! Good one 😃

I will copy and paste what I wrote elsewhere...

I am so happy after seeing the precap...isn't this what we all were hoping for? We did not want begging and groveling...all we asked for was for him to realize how much his actions hurt and devastated Khushi, and a simple heartfelt apology to her.

I think this was an important step to move past the hate marriage and its consequences on Khushi...I am so glad the CVs finally woke up and showed Arnie doing the needful.

I wrote this elsewhere:

Did it lessen the impact of his personality? NO!! Did it make ASR look mushy or did it look uncharacteristic of him? No!!

He has done it in the past...so why not for the biggest pain he gave her?

I am sure a lot of Arhi fans are happy...this is the one facet of ASR that I absolutely love...

Okay do you want my honest opinion or the one which will be tolerated by the forum? What the heck I will speak up my mind.. 😃

Yes, ASR has apologised yey, let's rejoice 😃... well this is not the first time he has apologised to her.. .. an apology means not doing the same thing twice.. So I am glad to see one coming in tomorrow's episode.. as they say better late than never..by apologising no one be it a man or a woman becomes less of a person.. ... I loved the pre-cap.. so let's see what will be the outcome..

However, let me also say this, his apology has come a bit too late.. He stood there watching Khushi being abused by both families when he forcibly married her...

Khushi was slandered by Shyam when the truth came out... yet he stood there like a mute spectator...

Daadi abused her and called her a cheap woman ... he still stood their watching..

his actions has ruined her reputation.. she was insulted publicly... why can't he render the apology in front of the families in front of whom the entire Tamasha was unfolded?

Why cant he tell them what actually transpired... ? Shyam fiasco is no longer a secret between both the families...

Is he trying to save his back or protect his Di? Di knows that he got married in haste to save her marriage.. that is no secret to DI.. it is another story why his Di was not interested to know more about his marriage.. So why is he hesitant to spill the beans to all.. ?

He is reluctant to give an apology in public as he still wants to protect his Di from pain.. Yes, he feels bad for Khushi today... but does herealise the extent of his damage? I know this is a serial but what he did could be challenged in any court...what he did was unpardonable..He ruined Khushi's reputation, her credibility and her future...

When he found out the truth about Shyam & Khushi he exploded as if there was no tomorrow... yet I didn't see the same ASR exploding when he found that his Khushi was innocent. .. yet he claims to be one of the most important person in his life

why has be not confronted Daadi.? .we have seen the ASR who dared to defy Nani to bring La home .. why is he hesitant to confront Daadi when he knew she had paid a visit to GH and slandered his so called wife?

Just because Khushi is poor and has no father or brother to fight for her, does not mean everyone should take pot shots at her.. Just because Khushi is benevolent and forgives easily does not mean one has to take her for granted..

where were these people when he was openly living with La? No one dared to speak against La.. where was Daadi at that time? Doesn't ASR do what he wants and feels like? Isn't he the one who writes his destiny? So why does he not tell Dadi to mind her own business and behave like a guest..? Instead we see Khushi in pain and being slandered left, right and centre..

I am eagerly waiting to see the episode where Anjali gets caught to ASR while sneaking Shyam into her room.. Now that will be the mother of all episodes.. I would like to see how ASR will handle this betrayal..

Sorry, this sorry does not cut it for me.. I may have come out too strong ... But I will still like to see an apology rendered in public, an apology to the families because it was not Khushi alone even Payal and the Gupta household suffered humiliation at the hands of ASR and his actions... Today I wanted to hug Buaji the way she stood up for Khushi..

Now bring on the brick bats, tomatoes and rotten eggs.. 😆

r

"For. Every. Single. Time" < They had my at this part, Barun nailed it here conveying the difficulty for Arnav to be so blunt and honest about being wrong and wronging someone extensively in the process.

Garima slapping Khushi, whatever her reasons today worked as a trigger for Arnav remembering the wedding night slap and voila this happened:

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOpkhxuib-c&feature=player_embedded[/YOUTUBE]

Call me a sell-out Aisha, but I'm with you, the previous times never did cut and this one did, that reflection of how he forced her into marriage under duress to his realisation that even now, she is hurt because of him yet he is angry at her... it was superb and much needed.

It counts for so. much. more than ASR attempting to "woo" her with channe, gol gappes, Salman Khan posters and his determined antics in getting back into Shantivan whatever way because this time it's not about LAVISH gestures, rose petals etc but a few simple words which can right a wrong and especially with someone who has a big heart like Khushi's.

Maybe I am getting ahead of myself, tomorrow might be a huge let down, but I am counting down hours until tomorrows episodes.

I can mentally make peace with ArHi scenes and enjoy them without taint.

We were write to demand a "sorry" I think as an audience it makes you wonder what kind of character Arnav and Khushi if their relationship can go through so much hell but they're both ALWAYS willing to sweep it under the carpet...

Ideally, I'd want ASR to own up to forcing Khushi so Dadi can shut her trap .. but chalo, I'm taking this and running with it😆