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norzar

@norzar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

i wont compare sinal's love for each other. They has been no love lost between the 2 over these 9yrs.

though i am mad at kc, but one thing i want to point out is that its been 9yrs and we have seen sinal separated and richa around kunal etc, but he NEVER married her nor any other woman. A man who had been married for more than a yr after separating from his wife never thought of getting into a marital relationship with someone else, yes he feels cheated and betrayed by siddhi but he had nothing to stop him from moving on with richa or someone else. he never gave siddh's place to anyone else

anyways no matter how much i detest siddhi's sacrifice mode, i believe it does take alot of guts to make such sacrifices and only someone like siddhi can do them( in parichay). We saw her marry kunal, someone she hates/disliked for Veena/Anand.

But then its not only about love, sinal have love but lack the trust understanding and to some extent respect for one another( from kunal's side )

norzar

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jay_bpm

@jay_bpm

Stunner

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Well personally I do not think love can be measured.

Now claims have been made Siddhi's love is pure and she loves Kunal for what he is. But Kunal loves Siddhi for what she did for his family. Not true. Only parents love their child for what they are without anything in return. Let's look at why both fell for each other?

We saw process of Siddhi falling for Kunal. Siddhi came to know Kunal is such a nice person. He just acts rude but deep inside no one comes close. But with that, also fact how Kunal has helped and supported Siddhi at many steps in her life. remember fb scenes during Raveena's wedding. So Siddhi fell for Kunal for the kind of person he is and how he stood with her when least expected.

Kunal started liking Siddhi for what she has done for his family. But more importantly for how she understands him and has accepted Kunal. Because of Siddhi, Kunal made changes in his behavior to accommodate Siddhi whenever possible. Both Kunal-Siddhi love each toher for the particular effect they have on each other. This so called effect is not after marriage; but from day 1 they met. Somehow both leave some impact on each other no one else does.

If all Kunal needed to love someone was making his family happy; well why isn't Richa his love and wife? For 9 long years that creature comes and tries to cling on him and even his family wants him to do so; but Kunal stood strong. No body just loves someone for what they are, but how does other person's nature affects them. And it makes sense for everyone. Siddhi loves Kunal for being a nice person but also how her life turned out with him. Same goes for Kunal. Kunal did not make any compromise for his family, but here comes Siddhi and what do we have.

Now Siddhi's sacrifice is more for family than Kunal. Well when Kunal was ready to give his innocence and life during rape and murder case; that's because he gives up very easily. But when Siddhi made sacrifice, it is out of her love? Why?

Matter is not about love here. If we talk about trust here, yes Kunal is at fault, but so is Siddhi. If Siddhi trusted Kunal, she would reveal everything to Kunal about how she came to know about Rohit, what happened and why she took the deal. She could've trusted Kunal for handling things for case and his family, especially Veena. Kunal had stood up for Siddhi in front of family and Veena. So here Siddhi also undermined Kunal and made decision on her own. So she too lacks complete trust in Kunal. So many times in past too Siddhi had hid facts from Kunal. During murder case, Siddhi herself convinced Kunal to hate her. Kunal didn't accept it in one moment or even after every single person in family said so. Here Siddhi saw creature trying to cling on Kunal and she believed it, not that she was wrong.

I know Kunal is at fault. But we do not know for sure what took place. I too want to criticize Kunal, but I do not know for what just yet. I am with you for criticizing Kunal but do it properly. Both Siddhi and Kunal's faults should be weighed equally.

Edited by jay_bpm - 13 years ago

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gaya3sp

@gaya3sp

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: hima2012
Siddhi's sacrifice, I will not agree its completely out of love for Kunal.. it is more due to FEAR OF VEENA. She was scared of her MIL and did what she did. I am saying this because she did not have to do what she did.. she could have thought of other options, if not because of Veena. She loves Kunal and wanted him out of jail and with her. I will say Veena pushed her into the deal! And siddhi is the one who suffered the most for 9yrs in jail w/o any loved ones to even see if she is dead or alive.

Kunal.. now, we have said everything there is to say about this guy. He did not suffer as much but is just unhappy. Actually, I say he is having a very laid back life w/o any aim and concern! He has everyone he loves except siddhi!

So, as far as weight of love is concerned, I don't think there is any love lost between the two but just big time MUs created by people around them. I don't even want to get into Richa and her antics but we all know what role she played in separating them! I think both of them love each other and their love cannot be compared.. just different circumstances. Just clearing these MUs will be enough for both to get back to each other like before and may be even stronger! Hope I made sense.

Agree 100 % as far as veena is concerned... she pushed siddhi to do this big sacrifice... else she would have waited for her hubby to come out of jail, had she got the support from her in laws... but in laws are in laws after all...

Agreed SINAL love each other a lot... but kunal's way of showing his love is very vague... i am not finding that intensified love for siddhi... Siddhi has shown that jaan bhi dungi type love... but what did kunal do... some FB about his wife...he wanted to get rid of his memories..whereas siddhi she lived with those memories and made it a point to come back to chopra house after she was released... he dint even tell his son about his mom... whatever siddhi taught him he has forgotten and he is in the same state as he was when richa left him... only thing is now he has a son seeing whom he remembers his brother more than his wife...

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Salman

@TheBhai

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Haha... Getting drunk and calling siddhi's name = love.

Siddhi did all the sacrifice for kunal and his family. What more proof do I want to know that he was a drunkard unemployed and siddhi came and put him on national television.

Anyways... Even if he loves siddhi it cannot be more than siddhi as he again trusted the woman who tried I kill his wife. This is unpardonable.

What justification Kunal have of trusting Richard again aur ek hi incident main your wife turned your enemy who wants to kill your own child??

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Shehnaz Khan

@Shehnaz.K

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Frankly if u ask me 2 choose btwn 2,it's siddhi nd i dnt want to go into details as i wil end up ranting as im still mad at kc for being lenient 2 witcha b it 4 whatevr n whoevr.

Edited by Shehnaz.K - 13 years ago

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stuti

@stuti123

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

i dont want to take any sides...coz i am a sinal fan ...nd i love both kunal nd siddhi equally...

but yes ...this is also a fact dat i can never forgive kunal for trusting dat witcha named richa ...allowing him entry in his house nd bedroom...even buying her crap story dat siddhi tried to kill her unborn baby...

though siddhi is at fault too ...coz she signed da deal with richa nd dint confide in kunal ...

but at dat point of time she only thought of as a wife ...who was desperate to save her husband ..could go to any extent to free him from jail...

i can never believe dat siddhi only did soo much of sacrifice just for chopra family ...

no , all her sacrifices were only for kunal...its only thru him ...dat her she is related to the whole chopra famlly...it was her love for kunal dat made her behave this way ...

if only kunal wouldnt have believed richa ...

then i would never ever have doubted his love for siddhi...

blame it on the cvs who have butuched kunal 's character soo badly...

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gaya3sp

@gaya3sp

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: jay_bpm
Well personally I do not think love can be measured.

Now claims have been made Siddhi's love is pure and she loves Kunal for what he is. But Kunal loves Siddhi for what she did for his family. Not true. Only parents love their child for what they are without anything in return. Let's look at why both fell for each other?

We saw process of Siddhi falling for Kunal. Siddhi came to know Kunal is such a nice person. He just acts rude but deep inside no one comes close. But with that, also fact how Kunal has helped and supported Siddhi at many steps in her life. remember fb scenes during Raveena's wedding. So Siddhi fell for Kunal for the kind of person he is and how he stood with her when least expected.

Kunal started liking Siddhi for what she has done for his family. But more importantly for how she understands him and has accepted Kunal. Because of Siddhi, Kunal made changes in his behavior to accommodate Siddhi whenever possible. Both Kunal-Siddhi love each toher for the particular effect they have on each other. This so called effect is not after marriage; but from day 1 they met. Somehow both leave some impact on each other no one else does.

If all Kunal needed to love someone was making his family happy; well why isn't Richa his love and wife? For 9 long years that creature comes and tries to cling on him and even his family wants him to do so; but Kunal stood strong. No body just loves someone for what they are, but how does other person's nature affects them. And it makes sense for everyone. Siddhi loves Kunal for being a nice person but also how her life turned out with him. Same goes for Kunal. Kunal did not make any compromise for his family, but here comes Siddhi and what do we have.

Now Siddhi's sacrifice is more for family than Kunal. Well when Kunal was ready to give his innocence and life during rape and murder case; that's because he gives up very easily. But when Siddhi made sacrifice, it is out of her love? Why?

Matter is not about love here. If we talk about trust here, yes Kunal is at fault, but so is Siddhi. If Siddhi trusted Kunal, she would reveal everything to Kunal about how she came to know about Rohit, what happened and why she took the deal. She could've trusted Kunal for handling things for case and his family, especially Veena. Kunal had stood up for Siddhi in front of family and Veena. So here Siddhi also undermined Kunal and made decision on her own. So she too lacks complete trust in Kunal. So many times in past too Siddhi had hid facts from Kunal. During murder case, Siddhi herself convinced Kunal to hate her. Kunal didn't accept it in one moment or even after every single person in family said so. Here Siddhi saw creature trying to cling on Kunal and she believed it, not that she was wrong.

I know Kunal is at fault. But we do not know for sure what took place. I too want to criticize Kunal, but I do not know for what just yet. I am with you for criticizing Kunal but do it properly. Both Siddhi and Kunal's faults should be weighed equally.

Now i got the answer... Thanks Jay for explaining things so nicely...
Both are at fault...
The lack of understanding and trust had led to this tragedy...
And it has come from both the ends...

I am more satisfied now... I wanna see kunal show more love towards siddhi...
very much hurt by seeing him behave as though she does not mean anything to him...
He need to tell about siddhi to his son... and thats when his true love will come out...