is movies wrong about marriage

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Like in Parineeta he made her wear a necklace & said she is his wife they proceed . in like in Gadar
he placed his blood & said she is mine , was they all wrong .Arnav did put sindoor & Mangalsutar even then he is wrong why so?
totally confused , why their marriage is not right? as in movies they show that ek chutki sindoor and shadi done .


Movies can't be wrong., right now only2 movies came in my mind. they too show culture ,they can't be wrong all the couple has wrong relation
what hurt the most is Dadi comment ,"She was his wife i wish Arnav read holy books & correct Dadi that we right , from heart and soul we accepted the marriage, she was fulfilling her duties and we are not wrong you should apologize her she was not staying with a stranger she was with her husband"
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i too had the same doubts
i mean if we put the fact that it is forced one aside and think
in many movies they show just by filling maang marriage is done
here asr has even put mangalsutra around her neck albeit forcefully
i don't know much about the hindu rituals as i am not hindu
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Posted: 12 years ago
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dat z d difference btw movie n serial...😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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there are different beliefs of diff people...
i mean their caste systems... which is know as "bradari" in hindi...
so the raizadas and maliks believe that a marriage is incomplete with all those rituals...😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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u know dese anjali n dadi have many things in common...foremost is dr rasams...remmbr how anjali irritated us during her numerous rasam during arshi marriage...n dis pheres are so very much necessary but not mandatory...dis was jus dadi's excuse to make khushi out of the house... coz marriage do happen in courts n etc..but u see may b in her family tradition its mandatory...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutelittleangel

there are different beliefs of diff people...

i mean their caste systems... which is know as "bradari" in hindi...
so the raizadas and maliks believe that a marriage is incomplete with all those rituals...😊

actually we follow movies , Dadi word she stayed with a man for 6 month really hurt me , i really want to know why they are saying she is wrong , as many movies had shown this
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i believe in cutelittleangel "there are different beliefs of diff people..."
for me they are married.
I dont want to elaborate on Radha Kishna relationship but they are the biggest example.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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having same doubts 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Appy_Indy

i believe in cutelittleangel "there are different beliefs of diff people..."

for me they are married.
I dont want to elaborate on Radha Kishna relationship but they are the biggest example.

for me the are married too, Dadi should take back her words as it was too harsh ..she should apologize from her, i want Arnav should read holy book & clear them . it is a filth on Khushi character
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Appy_Indy

i believe in cutelittleangel "there are different beliefs of diff people..."

for me they are married.
I dont want to elaborate on Radha Kishna relationship but they are the biggest example.


oh ya that is another point.. they do pooja and believe plus admire Radha Krishna relation so why even after putting sinddor and magalsutra she is like its not right.. every time she says that 6 months she stayed with a man i feel like kicking her out of RM

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