If she only talked about her self respect...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yesterday Khushi was like a sherni in the terrace.I loved her spirit,her attitude.Though for me personally the dialogues were not as powerful as her attitude.How I wished she would open her heart in front of him.

When Arnav burned the chairs and said,"Aab Fire Bhi Hai."And she was like,"Aise Nahin Hoti Hai Shaadi."I wanted her to say,"Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada this is how you also burned my dreams of having a perfect wedding,"
When she said,"In Rasmo Rewaaz O Ko Koi Toh Matlab Hogi."
I wanted her to say,"Just by taking Pheras and fulfilling some marriage rituals one can be a husband but not a Humsafar.Pheras are not rituals for me.They are promises.Do you have the courage to make a promise of not leaving me ever?Do you have the promise to trust me forever?"
When Arnav refused to put her down after seeing Dadi and she said,"Dadi Humse Naraz Ho Jayega"
I wanted her to say,"Just as you refused to put me down will you be always like that?Will you be my side when the whole world point fingers at me.Or will you again leave me alone?"
And when Arnav was saying about his feelings I wanted her to say,"What about my feelings.Do you know how I feel when you blame me,when you blackmail me?I just wanted the assurance from you that you will never blame me."

If only she spoke about her self-respect then Arnav would have a complete different view on her.Now Arnav feels that she is just like some traditional girl and that is what is irritating him.
I so wished CVs will not make her like other SP Bahus who only talks about Roka,Saagai,Mehendi,Saree,Gehna and keeps them above self respect.why can't we have a female lead who has the guts to fight for her self respect?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@TM:- I completely agree with you and if I were in Khushi's position I would have asked the same questions to Arnav. But Khushi here is shown as someone who has already forgiven Arnav for all that he did to her and his declaration of I love you actually makes her happy. For her she just wanted an assurance that Arnav wanted her to be with him not because of the contact but because he loves her. She tried a lot to get him to admit that he loves her during Heer Ranjha sequence but Arnav full on refused it. He did admit ILU when he was kidnapped but then again it was not on face so when he admitted ILU on face to Khushi yesterday she felt happy and complete because that was what she wanted to hear from him. I just so hope some day Arnav and Khushi have a talk about Khushi's self respect but knowing Gul and Co who like to show the lead as a sacrificing person I doubt if Khushi will ever raise the topic of her izzat with Arnav.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What awesome alternativesss! I so wish it had happened that way! <3
That wouldve been one heck of a scene man!! But i still loved every bit of it.
But this girl, shes tooo good. Too good to be true. She has completely forggiven arnav and completely forgotten everything, accepted him. I want a full on intense scene the way u have writtel womder when the cv's will lsiten.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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no matter what yaar I am totally agree with you...
if she said that the it will really awesome...
that what happened to her before Arnav never believed her..
and some more suffering on the way also..
case of Arnav's past...I hope she will open her mouth in future
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Do not have hopes, it's been over a year and GUL & Co have more female degredation and suffering on the cards, just can't understand their thinking, why do they make this show a typical abla naari show? I've been waiting for a descent and sensible conversation between Arnav and Khushi, which hasn't taken place till now, god knows if it will ever take place...?????????????? considering it is their love story and they've been married for 6 months, they haven't had a descent or serious convo on many issues????????????
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know Khushi has forgiven Arnav.I am not asking her to hold grudges against him or take revenge.But why can't she just tell Arnav that even she has some feelings and even she has a respect.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Exactly Aisha! The dialogues were very useless...she kept repeating the same thing about pheras over and over again...it made no sense. All this time they were married, she didn't think about pheras even once and out of the blue, they became so important to her...this was all because they needed a reason to show Arnav's outburst at the end of the episode. They did the same thing with the contract marriage. They never give Khushi any meaningful dialogue to convey her real pain to the viewers, the way they do with Arnav and Anjali. They don't realize that by treating one character so unfairly, fans actually end up "bashing" all 3 characters.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The miscommunication or rather lack of communication between them is a very big problem.

Arnav probably thinks that everything is fine between them and he assumes that she knows she can rely on him through thick and thin. But she doesn't. And neither does she spell out her problems in bold.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

Exactly Aisha! The dialogues were very useless...she kept repeating the same thing about pheras over and over again...it made no sense. All this time they were married, she didn't think about pheras even once and out of the blue, they became so important to her...this was all because they needed a reason to show Arnav's outburst at the end of the episode. They did the same thing with the contract marriage. They never give Khushi any meaningful dialogue to convey her real pain to the viewers, the way they do with Arnav and Anjali. They don't realize that by treating one character so unfairly, fans actually end up "bashing" all 3 characters.



You again nailed it Priyanka.Why is Khushi's feelings always shown as some funny thing?Til date she had no problem with this marriage even though it was forced on her.But suddenly she started to shout about the importance of Pheras.If Pheras were so important then why didnot she think about it before?Why are they showing her someone like Anjali and Payal who feel rituals and customs are the only thing that define a marriage.So does it mean that as Anjali and Payal take crap from their husbands she will also keep on taking them as she had taken Pheras.The confession would have been much more passionate if only Khushi demanded her self respect.

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