do we really need to pity ashu?

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do we really need to pity ashu?

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deepa

@jayanti_dj

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Posted: 13 years ago

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u know iam gettin real tired of pity on ashu... come on !

why does ashu need pity? agreed he was an orphan.. but that was like long long back ... he is 43 now ..and he was adopted when he was around 10 (am guessin).. after that BB never ill treated him...always showered him wid all d material comforts a normal child gets and most importantly ,love ! he made ashu a good person ...and one whom d world recognizes and respects..infact in ashu nidhi fights ,more often than not ,BB sides with ashu..rather than his own blood...

agreed BB left him,and that must have been a huge blow to ashu..he was left alone again ..but after 5yrs ,everythin is fine...

today ashu has a successful career,is secure financially and has a family ..a wife who loves him to madness and BB.. friend like arman and a extended family - vermas n solankis ...

he attends d family functions like normal people do..no one makes him feel an outsider ..from my understanding !

I dont think ashu is mad enuf to be insecure despite all this .. and i pity him if he really is !

besides , if u call a handicap a handicap all the time,he wont like it ,would he ?

if he wants a baby coz he loves children,age factor and d other normal reasons,fine..but if he is scared that nidhi will leave him and hence he wants a bond or watever ,i think its high time he let go of his insecurities .

why cant we treat ashu like a normal person.. am sure thats wat he would like !

Edited by deepa_jd - 13 years ago

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Bishal

@SwastikAshNi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Ya Deeps,if Age n Parvarish is d reason, i wd like if Nidhi adjusts little bit on d baby issue but insecurity-Naah,the reason seems full blunt..

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parmarA

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Posted: 13 years ago

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voted for no,agreed he is orphah,and bb gave education to him,but he passed his all examination on his own skill and talent,and his get wish to became dr.nobody forced him for studies.agar apne aap me koi kabiliyat na ho to aadmi zindagi me kuchh nahi kar sakta.his passion for doctory and patient lead him to be good dr.and his concentration leads him to be alone at the age of 42

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koyelbasu

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Posted: 13 years ago

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In this scenario, NO.
Aaj uske paas bangla hae, paisa hae, young biwi hae, mahan career hae, Biwi ke wajah se family hae ab toh mast zindegi hae and last but not the least forum me itne sare uspe mar mitne wali ladies hae of diff age. Ab Ashu ka toh bol bala.

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deepa

@jayanti_dj

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: koyelbasu
In this scenario, NO.
Aaj uske paas bangla hae, paisa hae, young biwi hae, mahan career hae, Biwi ke wajah se family hae ab toh mast zindegi hae and last but not the least forum me itne sare uspe mar mitne wali ladies hae of diff age. Ab Ashu ka toh bol bala.

@bold.. aur kya chahiye..hai na

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Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 13 years ago

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He certainly needs no one's pity...on the contrary, he needs to be admired for the grit and determination with which he has survived life's onlaughts...but yes, one needs to empathize with him on certain grounds...his reasoning and thinking maybe different from the norm on account of his life experiences...so, they need to be factored in while judging him...that is all!

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mudraswathi

@mudraswathi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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A Big NO... NEVER...😳

Ashutosh likes his profession whole heartedly. and I think he learnt piano in London, as it was shown he learnt violin too when he was a surgeon...I mean, no one could force him to do anything.. now baby too is a matter of difference in opinions between husband & biwi... no need to pity😳

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subashni

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Voted for no. Support him in the baby issue( not immediately, after a year) because of his age not his background.

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deepa

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao
He certainly needs no one's pity...on the contrary, he needs to be admired for the grit and determination with which he has survived life's onlaughts...but yes, one needs to empathize with him on certain grounds...his reasoning and thinking maybe different from the norm on account of his life experiences...so, they need to be factored in while judging him...that is all!

@bold...

wat onslaughts are we talkin abt? as far as i know the only major blow was BB leavin and house .. and now mallu's true colors !

and wat life experiences as well? from my POV he has a secured childhood ever since he was adopted ..

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