do we really need to pity ashu? - Page 2

Deepa, when i started reading ur POV, i thought u hv come up with smething different frm wat most are talking bt as i completed reading ur pov.. The main thing u wanted is no baby.. Very sugar coated pov..

Originally posted by: deepa_jd

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wat onslaughts are we talkin abt? as far as i know the only major blow was BB leavin and house .. and now mallu's true colors !

and wat life experiences as well? from my POV he has a secured childhood ever since he was adopted ..

He was clearly not adopted as an infant..so he must have known what it is to be an orphan for a good many years before he was adopted.,...I think you need to factor that in...and then Baba's desertion...that was again a huge factor...am not saying he is an object of pity...but he has not enjoyed the kind of secure family background that many of us have...at least in comparison to Nidhi he certainly has not...so she needs to keep that in mind...that is all...and anyway, this is my pov!

voted for no..why to pitty on him...he has every thinf inlife...more importantly now when nidhi is with him who love him soo much ..and she has never said that she dont want to be mother..she has said that she needs time...which she should be given ...

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

He was clearly not adopted as an infant..so he must have known what it is to be an orphan for a good many years before he was adopted.,...I think you need to factor that in...and then Baba's desertion...that was again a huge factor...am not saying he is an object of pity...but he has not enjoyed the kind of secure family background that many of us have...at least in comparison to Nidhi he certainly has not...so she needs to keep that in mind...that is all...and anyway, this is my pov!

Originally posted by: ithasme

Deepa, when i started reading ur POV, i thought u hv come up with smething different frm wat most are talking bt as i completed reading ur pov.. The main thing u wanted is no baby.. Very sugar coated pov..

Originally posted by: deepa_jd

thats wat d point of the poll is...

all iam tryin 2 say is ,he and we as well ...need to move beyond d past... its gone ..dead.. the fact today is he isnt d child who was abondoned .. infact ,he should be grateful for wat he got from life and thank god for it...

Deepa, your points are perfectly valid...you can't carry the burden of your past forever...you have to learn to let go...but the fact of the matter is that all is right with his world only for the last few months...Baba has come back, he has got Nidhi, he has a family etc...it is all still so new and it does take time for things to sink in...and for you to feel that things are not going to be snatched away again...i agree that he needs to let go of his baggage...it may take a little more time and effort to do that...until then, one has to exercise patience..that is all i am saying...not that he should be treated with kid gloves for the rest of his life...and my response is not specific to the baby issue!

Deepa, i still feel ur pov ws sugar coated.. Bt regarding ashu.. Yes, we want him to be free of being the insecure..

Originally posted by: ithasme

Deepa, i still feel ur pov ws sugar coated.. Bt regarding ashu.. Yes, we want him to be free of being the insecure..

Originally posted by: alkaparmart

deepaji sometimes man like ashu couldn't forgot their old hard days and that become pain of him too.and upto 43 years no one celebrated his birthday like this,so he himself told main anaath hoon naa? so sometimes the pain come out itself.