IN defense of ovi- from an arvian :) - Page 4

Originally posted by: serenagirl1005

i can sense ovi's hurt and stuff and that is relatable but the part which makes ovi cruel and obsessive is the fact that she still thinks that arjun will be hers...hating purvi is understandable but thinking that arjun will leave purvi after getting shot for her and still wanting her by his side is bordering psychotic so yeah that is when the "hating ovi" syndrome starts. BTW great writing

Originally posted by: SATHYA88

wonderful post!!!!!!!!!!!! I too love ARVI and I do feel for Ovi but yesterday the way she was crying and carrying on was so unnecessary I loved the flashbacks, which should of been enough to let us know how much she still loves arjun, but the crying and acting like she is the ONLY one is so devastated by arjun condition was too much. Even purvi or DK who have ever right to feel as if their world had ended did not act like that. After everything Arjun has done to show everyone including Ovi how much he loves purvi. Ovi still has blinders on. Someone like Manav or Tej needs to sit that girl down and give her a reality check.

Ok, enough of my rant, LOVED your post. You have a great way of expressing your self thru words...Standing ovation from me👏

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Kesha, beautifully written with so much understanding and maturity of thought. Yes, Ovi has every right to feel bitter and feel betrayed, we all agree. As for the violent streak in all of us, I prefer to call it the animal instinct of survival that is present in all of us.

First of all Thank you for your lovely comment😳.

Unfortunately, for Purvi, Ovi's angst has turned into hatred for the girl who was not consciously responsible for whatever has gone wrong with Ovi's life. While we all have the animal instinct, how we respond or control that instinct is still within our power. Ovi needs help in suppressing her well justified but misplaced hatred towards Purvi.

yes i agree her hatred has gone beyond explanation, and i also said the same thing that indirectly Purvi is the cause of her miseries. As for the animal instinct it depends only on us an individual how we use it and where we use it. Some people use it for their own benefit but ovi is using it to hurt her biggest enemy. Not to forget that she is the pampered child and so for her hurting others to get her ways is the best option.

Let us not forget in our eagerness to empathize with the wronged one that just a few weeks earlier, Purvi was in a similar situation. The love of her life (even if she had not loved Arjun since she was 14, for a girl of her upbringing to step out of her comfort zone and confess her love had been Herculean) who had promised to declare his love and commit to her in front of all ended up getting engaged to someone she did not even know existed in his life until that evening. She had no one to go to, no shoulder to cry on when she saw Ovi indulge in PDA in front of her very eyes. It is to her credit that she did not react violently or meanly, she advised Arjun to return to Ovi, did everything to stay out of their way. Granted she knew he loved her or maybe she had doubts that she had been double crossed but she conducted herself in a way that was beyond reproach.

I completely agree on this part. And here comes the animal instinct bit; Purvi chose to stay calm and let time heal the wound but Ovi's nature is different from Purvi😊.

Yes, Ovi knows Arjun does not love her, unlike Purvi as even while being engaged to Ovi, he kept insisting he felt nothing for anyone other than Purvi, and this knowledge of unrequited love may add to Ovi's grief. Ovi has her family, her aaji, her sister, her dada and above all her baba in her hour of need. The lack of a mother is a not a new thing for her, she has lived without her for 18 years. Yes, it is a void that cannot be filled but time is the biggest healer and while her bitterness is understandable, her haranguing against her Aai is not.

Bang on with this part that ovi should leave matters in the hands of time and try to be with her family because only they can heal her broken heart.

The girl is not 5 to be mollycoddled which is what Manav is doing. They need to sit her down and put sense into her. Not expect it of Arjun anymore, he is out of her life and best friend or not, at fault or not, matters not at this point. It is the responsibility of her immediate famiy to rally around her and not encourage her in this madness, to nip it in the bud so to speak for her own good. You are right, Archana would be the best person to do this, a mother's love tempered with a strong dose of common sense ought to do the trick but in the absence of that hopefully her aaji, sister and baba can work in tandem to get her back on her feet. It would be manna if Savita did put her granddaughter above her hatred for her daughter in law and told the girl the truth about her mother. That would enable the healing of hearts all around.

She is not 5 to be mollycoddled but habits don't die. Her family from the start have pampered her and so going by it what Manav is doing is not wrong. She was told bluntly by tej that arjun does not love her, arjun himself calmly said that he loves Purvi, manav and savita tried to put some sense in the girl, Arvi PDA happened in front of her - all these things were done without any mollycoddling but yet she is unable to accept the fact that ARJUN doesn't love her. For her to get out of the trauma all she needs is love and care and that is what Manav is doing but @bold would be the best thing to do for now.

Originally posted by: TALIRA

if anyone stayed ovis place then she should be away from arjun when one boy told that i dont love you and i love other girl ,,so no way to with this stupidity how much love she that doesnt matter,,,,,,,,,girl love anyone but he dont love her so what can she do ,,,,,,,,,,,and most important think arjun never admitted his love for ovi,,,,,he always admit as a best friend so why this stupidity ,,any self respected girl cant stay with this stupidity like ovi ,,,life is too short ,, if she has any self respect ,,,self respected girl should tell that move on with your life and i also move on in my way ,,,,,,,so plz stop ovi defense ,,,ovi is not worth of it,,,,,,,,,,,,,she is just spoil,,,,,

one sided love is worthless and hopeless love if anyone trust one sided love that is evil thinking

hope ovi back her life and back to the pavillion(canada)and start her barbie doll modelling

ovi stay away from arjun purvi for god sake

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go to hell with your stupidity

Originally posted by: AquaNymph

Ovi is not an animal, she is a human. A human has brain and a good understanding of emotions. Giving a lame excuse of one's stupidity, jealousy and idiotic behavior in the name of the excuse that 'human's are prone to mistakes' is something i disagree.

I dont understand how people can 'understand' her when she doesnt want Manav to help Purvi. For God's sake, Purvi was kidnapped. Is that really a small thing? Anything could have happened to Purvi during that phase. Ovi doesnt have even humanity in her. Atleast Savita was concerned for Purvi but Ovi.. well she better kill herself with so much hatred and that too for valid reasons. This clearly shows why Arjun preferred Purvi over her.

Hope someone in the show points out her mistakes and ill behavior, compare them with Purvi and tell her firmly that this is the reason why Purvi is chosen over her by everyone.