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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey friends, it is Sabarnee here to present you the topic of Discussion Of the Week. This week I'm going to present a bitter truth about today's modern society. It is nothing but the affect on a child of the Divorce of his/her parents.

Today we have to go through many problems that sometime make our relationships sour and it is also possible to happen between couples. However the easiest solution found by them is to get divorced. But the solution gives the birth of another problem. The separation of parents affect badly on their child. They usually behave rudely with others, become distracted from studies and sometimes the trust on relationships ends for them. It is really disheartening.

In this show the parents of the lead character also got separated and that event gradually rushed him against wedding. He used to be suspicious about the success about his marriage. Nowadays he keeps regretting if he could get his parents as his friends.

Unfortunately the same happens in the real life and sometimes it shapes worse. So share your thoughts about the shed of separation of the parents on the child.

My intention was not to hurt someone if someone is going through or have gone through such situation. I'm begging my pardon for it.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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👏 actually, I liked your topic...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes, this happens in real life and it gets worst when their parents re-married with new spouse and we wonder how the child gets treated or from whom will they be getting the love and all this contributes to the child's growing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i guess har child ki adi ki jaise condition hoga..
i mean how can they believe on da wedding...
adi potrays so well da character of a child of divorced parents...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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as easy as the question is answer to this is never that simple...
some time divorce can be the reason for the bitterness in kids but then some time it turns out to be blessing in disguise...and the way kids turn out is quit amazing...but if we take the common graph...specialy in country like india...result is always almost bitter...very les case kids turns out to be different and normal...
this is not a ver simple issue..its a very sensetive issue...the thing is soem time elders sees the solution to it as in divorce but later when one realy sits and thinks finds out that was wrong step...a very blunder mistake...and some time when time passes and rrealise if has taken divorce that time situation might have been different...some time even same situation with 2 different couple and outcome of it might be different for them...
for example a couple both loves their kids...but they both dosnt seem to adjust with other...and divorce...just because your thinking dint matched your spouce you sperated but you love kids so both stil in with upbringin with kids life like harish and avantu...kids turns out like adi...confuse soul...and in other situation same...they dint divorce but makes little adjustment here and their in time to time kids turns out normal and like any other... same way...different situation plays role in speration...even when issue are same...and well to see the inner core evry marrige breaks up mainly due to not ahving a matching sence...and their indefferneces...30 04 40% cases comes of voilence...so well the issue is very sensetive and with evryone's pont of view one has to think will find it so differnent...

yes...but kids suffer or not ...well in place like inida kids do suffer mostly...specailly in mid class society...and results is always bad and negative...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lovely topic!
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i will b bk soon!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i know what it is like as my parents split up...

thanks for opening this topic😛

and dont worry thanks for making this thread as you havent offended me😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice Discussion Topic...I will be back after the episode!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah it always has a bad effect on the child as it does on me but you have to manage and my parents are always fighting in fact they dnt talk to each other
There are always different ways it affects children
And dont worry you didnt offend me happy u made this post :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkknd-fan

Yeah it always has a bad effect on the child as it does on me but you have to manage and my parents are always fighting in fact they dnt talk to each other
There are always different ways it affects children
And dont worry you didnt offend me happy u made this post :)


Im sorry to hear you are going through this and im sure hopefully you are strong enough to get through it, its hard and from personal experiences it also affects the childs behaiviour severly and in most cases can cause depression.

i hope that children out there can find there way through the painful stages of there lives without being emotionally harmed.

its a sad world out there and that is why we shouldnt complain about the weather or when we are given homework or even we complain about what we eat, there are people suffering out there induring far worse like being a child and witnessing your parents divorce.

There it goes again my long rant 😆

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