Understanding swaron by Balloon!!

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swaron19

@swaron19

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

I was hell lot of confused with swaron's behavior but when I thought deeply I somewhat understood there behavior by balloon.. So here writing what I felt...

I feel swayam was calm all this along cause he know how the things could get worse by all the OVER REACTION of everyone..He believed rey , he believed tani.. so why there is the need to justify everyone that it's not true?? there own people understands them.. and yes I agree with him that all did this justification will everyone make confident on the thing that really they are in relation.. and it did happen..

Sharon's action was wrong by making a site to fight against it.. though her intentions were pure... 😊

The way he was talking to sharon was not right but somewhere I feel he was right cause he was a deep thinker who never used to share his thought and trust me the people who think a lot needs time to adjust with sharing the things with partner..It's like some is trying to enter their territory.. and sharon is opposite to him want to discuss everything with her partner..

I'll explain with the help of balloon, swayam used to enter sharons territory with the flow of air used to fill balloon so she used to get angry and result BURSTING of balloon.. sharon is trying to enter swayam's territory from outside like a pin consistently poking and resulting BURSTING of balloon.. The result is same but it happens when new in relationship..

Sharon's consisting poking and outsiders poking is make swayam burst and he just can't let his feelings out cause he is not of that type..

They are not used to and comfortable with each other's ability to understand (like swayam ) and not to understand (like sharon).. and now they will learn how to fill a balloon with right amount of air and by keeping it at bay from pins..That is called ADJUSTING AND UNDERSTANDING..

Now they'll understand love seems an easy job, but when we come together there are many things required to maintain a relationship then just love... relationships are not that easy as they seems..

I hope I was able to make you understand how swayam and sharon are feeling in relationship..

If confused it's the best way I can present my thought right now..

Hope you all ponder over it..

-Shruti.

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praj

@Gratitude_Me

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

1st positive post after ages...

i have lot to say.

he still have that calm mind ...he even said in convo ye article cheeze aur worse kaega & exact tht thing happened, he just need some tym to think to focus..he is the most level headed person .

he has his own principles & i am glad that he stood for his principles ...even if his lady love sharon whom he love more than any thing else in this world was wrong in his eyes this guy had that courage to say it you are wrong.

he avoided her but that for the best he knows sharon is his prized possession he don't want to do something drastic which will scare her away because of his intensity.

as you said lik a balloon ... i love the way you used this concept of balloon

he need some tym ..even she need some tym...the understanding will grow between thm for sure..

i hope that balloon wont bust this tym.

Edited by prachin10 - 13 years ago

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Sakina

@-Sakina-

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

You explained it very nicely,Shruti.

Indeed...the difference lies in their ideals.Swayam believes in living and letting others live-he doesn't believe in stirring up conflicts..what he thinks best is to ignore the issue,so that after a while,people start ignoring it too.

Sharon,on the other hand,believes in taking prompt action.Whatever she did it,was with a pure heart,and clear intentions.

Both are right and wrong,in their own ways.

The only way they can get over this,is by sharing of feelings,and understanding each other.Talking things through.

But,the creatives haven't planned any such thing.All they want to show us,is misunderstanding after misunderstading.

Aise mein kaise hoga adjust aur compromise?

A lot of people seem divided between "Swayam is right" and "Sharon is right".

I,for one,am still the old SWARON fan...for me..bina Sharon ke Swayam kuch nahi,aur Bin Swayam ka Sharon kuch nahi.

I hate how people seem to be making this ...i dnnoo...a war.

Its SWARON I fell for,since the very beginning...and right now...SWARON doesn't seem right.

Both have their point of views.Both are correct in their own ways.Both are mistaken in their own ways.

Its only through talking and sharing things,and expressing LOVE,that they can avoid misunderstandings.

THAT,the CVs REFUSE to concentrate on.Sad.

Edited by -Sakina- - 13 years ago

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Snowey

@Snowey

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

Shruti nicely explained and awesome post. 👏

Well i think more then a MU between SwaRon as a couple this is just a difference between them as an individual now what we have to wait and see is how they work towards a healthier relationship respecting each their POV's.

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sukanya.

@Lovenarbhi

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

Well said shruti. I agree to what sakina said they are right and wrong in their own way. Sharon and swayam are so different like fire and ice. Yet both wants to help their frnds. Sharon is by nature is firebrand, so just cant take anything calmly. Her reaction is instant. She doesnt weigh the pros and con of a situation but reacts instantly. I still remember rey telling swayam sharon dil ke bure nahi hai. But swayam on the other hand really the most stable person and wants to be peace with himself so that he can tackle the problm with a cool mind. In todays episode i loved the way he vented out his anger thru dance. Hats off to Shan he did an awesome job. Poor swaron the only thing i feel bad about the situation is that they have just started the relationship and have to go thru all these misunderstanding pe misunderstanding. Well that is life, and relationships are not so easy to maintain.

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Ankithate

@Ankithate

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

You said it write ,
but the thing is sharon is not trying to poke inside the baloon or be a pin , what sharon trying is to be a cover of that baloon, cover his boyfriend , bestfriend and for swayam sis.
She dont want any1 to be rude towards any1 of them or bash them... Its just that her way this tym was wrong but as u said not the intentions..

But on the hole u described its very well without bashing any1 , really good.

But all this problem only gonna solved if they both talk to each other and clear there MU. . Comeon cvs bht reh liya swayam akela now to let them interact and clear their MU and give us happy swaron.

Nyc post . Thums up!

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BeulaSwaRon

@BeulaSwaRon

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

very nicely said...

balloon part...FAB job...

i accept swayam's behavior everything related to this cyber war...but before cyber war issue happened swayam wa sODD...swayam shudnt have ignored her or avoid talkn to her...that was unecessary...i still didnt like swayam's rude talkn unecessarily in previous episodes BEFORE CYBER WAR ISSUE...

swayam now is making sensible...but rude talkn????? still unable to digest yaar...no matter how much i try...i mean he is ready to listen to entire world but not sharon...wont be good...lets see what happens...

basically swayam and sharon cannot be blamed completely nor can their stupidity be ignored...perfect balance swayam and sharon...abhi tho dono ki galthi hai...and m happy...

see thats what want...we do not have problms vth the MUs rising provided it makes sense...all we want is the magical swaron to stay...thats it...

swaron when not together wre magical and now that they are together the complications and the complexities mixed vth the expressiveness of their love toward each other will make even more amazing shocking yet swaron style swaron scenes...but cvs sont remember the swaron quality i guess...

this is what we want ...SWARON in SWARON style...always...

but we swaroninans are misinterpreted in what we want...pehle by palki , by newbies and spreading the word that we hate swayam??? sickkk

i want them to talk and solve it all...but cvs mahan dono ko akela khana chodengey that they talk...they need to talk...not on phone plzzz

Edited by luvSwaron4ever - 13 years ago

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BeulaSwaRon

@BeulaSwaRon

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -Sakina-

Both are right and wrong,in their own ways.

The only way they can get over this,is by sharing of feelings,and understanding each other.Talking things through.

But,the creatives haven't planned any such thing.All they want to show us,is misunderstanding after misunderstading.

Aise mein kaise hoga adjust aur compromise?

exactly sakina...

both are right at their places and both are wrong too in their own ways...

basically they need to share feelings and thoughts which we SWARON fans are desperately waiting to see...something mature...

but but but as you said cvs...yess thats the main concern now...they dont have any intention to show swaron...they only want to extend MUs between them...

it wud be beautiful to see them solving out this mess right now...agar ye extend hotha hai tho hum kya paagal dikhh rahein hain jo sirf aisey MUs dekhthey bhaithey hamesha...ye tho balaji couple ka jaisey ho jaayega...

and i really want them to speak out to each other abt their feelings...just showing a happy dance or random romance is not acceptable...esp after this much...why dont they understand...

i guess aisaa swaron private moment of talkngs humein nahin milegaa for vch m and all of us are dying to catch...

aur hamare kehney se kuch nahi hone waala...so m not expecting huge...jo hai usi se analyse karke khush bhaitho...

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Shishir Darsh

@marauder

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

Well difference of opinion over issues was bound to happen. Swayam and Sharon are as different as chalk and cheese. So their way to tackle a situation is way different. Where Sharon is impulsive of the too taking prompt action on the other hand Swayam is more of a person who thinks of pros and cons before taking a step. He never took rash action. Both are right from their pov's. But its just that in long run Swayam is right.

Awesome post by the way. Love the way you used the analogy of balloon. Yes its extremely needed they both learn to adjust. But what is mmost needed is that they need to talk first. They should not hide their emotions, feeling and thoughts about any inssue within themselves. They should learn to trust each other more than they do now.

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BeulaSwaRon

@BeulaSwaRon

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

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well said SAKINA...likewise you...its swaron vc

mere liye na swayam akela and na hi sharon akeli chahiye...kya karungi dono ko akele rakhh karr...i can nvr differentiate between these two...

Its SWARON for me...both swayam and sharon together make swaron magiccal...

dont understand how this divide cropped up...i mean ppl went to the extent of hating????? i mean we can dislike the track and blame it on track or feel bad abt everything but hating one among these two is worse...

swayam vthout sharon and sharon vthout swayam is full on nonsense...