DOTW:How Many True Friends You Have?

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Sabarnee

@Sabarnee_25

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey friends it is Sabarnee here and it is my turn today to present the topic of the Discussion Of The Week in this forum to make it a little more active.😃

Let me come to the point now. Nowadays in the age of cyber communication we have plenty of friends. We have friends in our classrooms, workplaces, neighborhood, buses, and trains and last but not the least in the internet. A few days ago we could not imagine getting so many people to share our thoughts, problems, complaints against anything, and even the picture of our socks and shoes. OMG, today we can be alone in our homes but can not be left alone in the world. We are in touch with so many persons. Now think of yourself. How many times in a day you tweet or update your status on Facebook? Think of India Forum too. How many times you linger in the forum to get news about your favorite daily soap, telly stars or film stars? The answer will be innumerable. Today having a hectic schedule we all are finding a little space in our life. May it be in India Forum or somewhere else but we always want to share our frustration. It's a kind of finding peace. And we all are choosing this way today.😉

In the show once the lead character Aditya also has 1000+ friends that he told to Pankhuri. 😉

And the question popped up in my mind here. We are oriented with a lot of friends today but how many of them are really true friends?? Are you able to maintain the friendship forever? Is there such any true friend in your life? Or there were some so called "Friends" who were ready to stab you from the back??

Whats your view on the new meaning and way of friendship?? Lets discuss….😃

[I hope there will not be any problem as I'm not discussing about the show directly.]

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Dhanya

@samrudhi.r

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

@sabarnee - very nice DOTW.👏

True friends are hard to find. I would say its harder to maintain too even in this age of communication. Again it would also depend from person to person.

I have read some where a peom which i liked a lot for various reasons and i have save it in my computer ever since i found that. I dont remember the source of this poem and nor do i know the author.

If you can get the inner meanings and also read in between the lines you can understand the complexities and multidimentionalities of any relation ship, be it friendship.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that

person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need

You have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with

Guidance and support,

To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a god send and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an End.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire

Fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has

Come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,

Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional

Foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson,

Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other

Relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Edited by dhanya.r - 13 years ago

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Atharva Dev

@*Dev.*

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

Very nyc Discussion.Yep Its gud to use Internet or any site for leaving ur frustation but its not gud to get Addicted in with them! The friends r not real but they r strangers then also u share almost everything wid them instead of sharing wid a real frnd.Make less frnds but atleast Gud too.More I wil discuss later dear. Dats it regards dev

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anusha.cochin

@anusha.cochin

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

I have lots of friends...
But true friends two or three only...excluding my hubby and sis...they are my best friends..and I think we cant share 100% of ur life 2 any1...

Edited by anusha.cochin - 13 years ago