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Posted: 13 years ago
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Indira in her last days want everyone to stand on their own...she don't want anyone to be dependent on her . More than the love rishi needs from indira or sf needs from indira needs it . She is in a condition in which she needs support from all the sides . But she knows if she started loving everyone more ...than it will be difficult for them to be without her . She know sf people just have to stand on their feet...and they just can live after her . They will not cry their whole life for her . But rishi...can you imagine if he didn't stand on his own right now ...where will he go . Do you guys seriously feel that after indira's death he will have the strength to find jobs . It will surely not be easy for him at any circumstance... thus indira wants a job right now for him . She was herself sad with the way she talked to her hubby . But the truth is that it's all for his betterment . Not for her own benefit . If she wants rishi to work than that's for rishi...because she is surely not benefited with the money he will get by working . She will not be there even with him . It's all to benefit rishi...this is the starting i feel...she will also start creating differences between her and him...so that it can be easy for him to forget her . But things will not work...and rishi will get to know someday before her death . The situation will surely be tragic . You know a person actually doesn't blesses a person when he/she say that i will die before you . It actually curse . Because the condition of the person who is left behind will be worse . So by all this she is just showing her love towards rishi .

Moreover it's not easy to tell your loved ones that you are dieing . No person in the world can do that easily . Because the person knows that if the thing isn't told...they will die with her at the death date . But if it is told before a month...they will die everyday with her . And who wants that for their loved ones...can you see rishi crying everyday thinking he has to live without his wife after one month ???...what you feel if rishi will come to know ...will he say i will make this one month memorable for you...let's enjoy . No ...he will be broken ...completely . It is too difficult to see you life going from your hands in front of you . ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ravjot-

I agree with Nikhila on this. She says so herself that she wants everyone to be more independent because they all rely on her. Her behavior towards Rishi will force him to work hard and earn money. It sort of reminds me of that Akki movie Waqt I think, where his dad had cancer and pretended to be rude and means and what not so that Adi (Akki) would be more independent and earn on his own. The reason there was that he knew Adi would just stop everything to be with his dad instead of focusing on being more responsible. If we apply that to HD, would Rishi rather want to find a job and work or spend more time with Indira?

Plus having a tumor and not having long to live, it's not an easy thing to tell others, especially people you care about.

it is so awesome to see something from you here . It's awesome to know you watch the show . TC .
Edited by Surbhi123 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree wid u on point dat more screen space shud be given to indira-rishi rather frm showing silly stuffs on munna-sunaina nd inder-kutumb...
bt i think u shud 1ce start watching frm indira's pov.. I dnt find anythng wrong in scolding,yes was a bit rude bt the reasn behind dis was for sake of rishi nly..n indu was totaly correct once rishi got d job den nly he shud think abt insurance policies n all..
we all knw indira cn nevr leave her family,and after scolding rishi,indira too was hurt..
m so so proud of indira,rather frm gaining sympathy n geting emotional..shez still thinking for d sake of her family
she also get bck to monalisa tours nd travels just for d happiness of her family.!!!!
she is very much family oriented girl
She just has 30 days n indu very well knw dat her family cn do nthng widout her so doing dis z natural fr indu..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Surbhi123

Indira in her last days want everyone to stand on their own...she don't want anyone to be dependent on her . More than the love rishi needs from indira or sf needs from indira needs it . She is in a condition in which she needs support from all the sides . But she knows if she started loving everyone more ...than it will be difficult for them to be without her . She know sf people just have to stand on their feet...and they just can live after her . They will not cry their whole life for her . But rishi...can you imagine if he didn't stand on his own right now ...where will he go . Do you guys seriously feel that after indira's death he will have the strength to find jobs . It will surely not be easy for him at any circumstance... thus indira wants a job right now for him . She was herself sad with the way she talked to her hubby . But the truth is that it's all for his betterment . Not for her own benefit . If she wants rishi to work than that's for rishi...because she is surely not benefited with the money he will get by working . She will not be there even with him . It's all to benefit rishi...this is the starting i feel...she will also start creating differences between her and him...so that it can be easy for him to forget her . But things will not work...and rishi will get to know someday before her death . The situation will surely be tragic . You know a person actually doesn't blesses a person when he/she say that i will die before you . It actually curse . Because the condition of the person who is left behind will be worse . So by all this she is just showing her love towards rishi .

Moreover it's not easy to tell your loved ones that you are dieing . No person in the world can do that easily . Because the person knows that if the thing isn't told...they will die with her at the death date . But if it is told before a month...they will die everyday with her . And who wants that for their loved ones...can you see rishi crying everyday thinking he has to live without his wife after one month ???...what you feel if rishi will come to know ...will he say i will make this one month memorable for you...let's enjoy . No ...he will be broken ...completely . It is too difficult to see you life going from your hands in front of you . ...




If Rishi comes to know first he will be emotional to his wife but he will not keep crying rather he will force indu to take treatment first and also assured her that he would take care of her family at the time of her treatment. what will happen if comes to know that his wife to whom he luvd unconditionally didn't reveal the truth instead he believe that he will become father. that time indu's aim will not fulfilled. For her ,sn family mght benifitted with her plans. But for Rishi he will completely broke out. if same condition if it is reverse how indu feels? she even left her job when rishi was kidnapped and finally found,Doctor is not god to make anyone's destiny anythng may happend to one. As lottery wala said atleast she has the assurance of 30 days but for others?😕
She would tell the fact to avoid misunderstanding . between husband and wife there should not be any secret


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Posted: 13 years ago
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it's not easy to tell...i just know that sumnal . Her life is ending and she is worried for her family...her husband . That shows her love for me . 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Surbhi123

Indira in her last days want everyone to stand on their own...she don't want anyone to be dependent on her . More than the love rishi needs from indira or sf needs from indira needs it . She is in a condition in which she needs support from all the sides . But she knows if she started loving everyone more ...than it will be difficult for them to be without her . She know sf people just have to stand on their feet...and they just can live after her . They will not cry their whole life for her . But rishi...can you imagine if he didn't stand on his own right now ...where will he go . Do you guys seriously feel that after indira's death he will have the strength to find jobs . It will surely not be easy for him at any circumstance... thus indira wants a job right now for him . She was herself sad with the way she talked to her hubby . But the truth is that it's all for his betterment . Not for her own benefit . If she wants rishi to work than that's for rishi...because she is surely not benefited with the money he will get by working . She will not be there even with him . It's all to benefit rishi...this is the starting i feel...she will also start creating differences between her and him...so that it can be easy for him to forget her . But things will not work...and rishi will get to know someday before her death . The situation will surely be tragic . You know a person actually doesn't blesses a person when he/she say that i will die before you . It actually curse . Because the condition of the person who is left behind will be worse . So by all this she is just showing her love towards rishi .

Moreover it's not easy to tell your loved ones that you are dieing . No person in the world can do that easily . Because the person knows that if the thing isn't told...they will die with her at the death date . But if it is told before a month...they will die everyday with her . And who wants that for their loved ones...can you see rishi crying everyday thinking he has to live without his wife after one month ???...what you feel if rishi will come to know ...will he say i will make this one month memorable for you...let's enjoy . No ...he will be broken ...completely . It is too difficult to see you life going from your hands in front of you . ...


Verry verry well said surbhi...👏
I cmpltly agree with what u have written in bold!!!👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
#37
@Sumnal, u too have very good points!!!👏👏
👏But the prob here is dt d CVs cn run d shw either frm d perspetive of Indira or Rishi n not both...
N since dis shw revolves aronnd Indira n her life,d story is shwn fm Indira' perspective..
N d way d currebt track is moving is cmpltly ryt when we place ourselves in Indira' position n luk at d situation ...😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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For indira everybody are same. uska family usko care nahi kartehai, they dont give damn to her par rishi indira keliye pariwar chod diya, maan maryada sabkuch chod diya fir bi family aur rishi ek hi hai..damn it. i just cant digest this fact that she is hiding from rishi. the person who always thinks about his wife is not getting same kind of treatment from his wife, instead she is least bothered about him. Abh gayi hai usko responsibility padne.
Because of her this character many viewers are not feeling sad or showing sympathy for indira.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39
True Rajini .I completely second u
Edited by sumnal - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumnal

True Rajini .I completely second u

Thanx for agreeing dear par no use..ila maata hamara dard nahi samajtihe & will never care for viewer's emotions😡
Edited by Ranjinikishan - 13 years ago

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