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Posted: 13 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: IPKKNDForever



I 100% agree with each word you wrote...we have to grow up..not him !! He did nothing wrong, he explained on his tweeter :
"@mrhegde: @Shree06 @vrushalinaik1 I hv nthg against -ve fdbk. It needs 2 b addrssd, nt attckd. Also, it's nt like v r new on ipk n dunno wht v r doin"
By saying that he did nothing wrong he is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT...expressing a point of view, a disapointement, a dislike is acceptable until it stay in the limits of respect.

As so called "fans" should not forget that IPKKND before being our favourite serial, is the BABY of IPKKND TEAM, they are doing a hardwork on it, they try it to make it in the best way..we dont have any right to tell them " you Guys ruin it, you dont deserv to have a
successful serial" i mean what the ?!! Who are we to say something like that ???
So Yes expressing a point of view and a disapointement is normal BUT ONLY UNTIL YOU EXPRESS IT IN THE RIGHT WAY without getting rude, without starting insulting.
Now i don't know about you but i am personnally on Tweeter and M. Hegde the writer of the show is in ma favourite list so i consult his tweeter everyday and seeing that some fans crossed the limits in insulting him and bashing his work i had to react not only as a fan but
also as a person who write storys also and who understand writer's feelings.
As must know, expressing an opinion and bashing are two different things, expressing is allowed until it stay in the limit of respect when limits are crossed and rude language is used its called Bashing and yes PEOPLE ARE BASHING DALJEET just because of her character
as Anjali AND PEOPLE ARE BASHING M.HEGDE because of the turn the story take..i mean thats disgusting...

Yes, M.Hegde has to stay polite and he did it but people take advantage and it crossed the limits more and more thats why he finished by saying that he won't justify himself anymore, if guys want to follow him on tweeter good if not then its ok and same for the serial...after all he is a human..Insaan apni bezati kab tak bardash karsakta hai ?? And i am sure if we were at his place all of us would do or say the same.



If it is his baby then he can keep it in his pocket. If it is a product meant to be shared and judged by TRPs, they have to open up to both extremes of good and bad. This is consumer media, there is no scale for limits. You can't make everyone like something. Standing up for unprofessional behavior also does not make a better fan.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: garima_IPKKND



well if he is behaving like a overly-sensitive lil teenager...then the fans there arent behaving anything LESS !!!!! even i have been disappointed with the epi's...the way they r portraying Anjali and her over-possessive behaviour...but does that mean i go lash out at him publicly?? NO !!! There r better ways to put ur point across...bt we fans tend to forget that !!! Suggestions are always welcome...but in a civilized manner. There is a reason why he is da CREATIVE and not US !!!

n abt making an account on twitter- well he has a life outside ipkknd...n surely he has his set of ppl/frnds to stay connected with just like us. So itz not just for US hes on twitter !!!!!

anyways- no offense to u !!!! just my pov !!!



the only difference being that some of the fans writing to him are ACTUALLY teenagers
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Posted: 13 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: farah007

Hahahahaha please tweet this thread!!! I am sure the next is that he will write a thesis on this and publish it!!!


Oh Thank God!!! Its twitter.. so just tweets!! 😆



Yes, please do it! I am not on Twitter and don't care to interact with someone with not even half my maturity level.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: Marybarton

I can't believe the things the creative of this show is saying to the fans. Yes, people write awful things, it is always accepted and ignored when it is too much in the business of consumer art. You don't tell people to go watch something else or refer to them as these people or laugh at them and call them auntiji in a derogatory manner. Talk about burning bridges. Have they never heard of PR?

Soap writing is not classical writing that you don't have to care about your audience. A daily show runs dependent on people's reactions to it via TRPs. You don't just randomly tell one rude fan to go watch something else. It is a huge turn-off to all the viewers. The overworked creatives think that they are the only ones with a hard job. There are plenty of people in the TV business working equal hours and still plenty more who do much more. Believe me, it really isn't the hardest job in the world.

Being a writer is no excuse for being caustic. He sold off his last whine-y PR disaster of a letter for being creative and emotional and now he's on Twitter arguing with little girls like a 6 year old. I have known many a big writer who did just fine without abusing his/her audience. No, I am not sorry to be rude. If you take the license to be rude just because you are a writer, I take the license to be rude because I am the consumer and a writer.

All these negativity is ruining the impression of a good show that they have clearly worked so hard at.

Mary.


Agree with you completely! I was worried that his comments may turn off viewers, which ironically enough endangers his job if IPKKND gets affected! I saw the twitter drama unfold live and there were so many fans who were trying to calm him down but he just got really riled up due to a few people. If it hadn't been for Akshay and Deepali calming him down things would have gotten worse.

And yes people were being rude, but as you say so aptly, he was the adult and the face of the PH as such so I expected constraint on his side. The 'dekhna hai tu dekho' statement was the one that got to me the most, and left me flabbergasted when i saw it initially ... followed closely by the one on hormones. I haven't raised my feministic outrage at linking hormones to acting crazy (the whole PMSing gamut annoys the heck out of me - as of women are just a bunch of idiots who run around amock when estrogen goes up a few notches)...but we will leave that for another day eh?!

Nevertheless, I was just happy to see him calm down eventually - not for his sake, but I really dont want IPKKND to suffer (anymore) ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: -SmileAway-

Btw, has anyone posted this to him on twitter? If not, I'll do it 😆


I guess you should go ahead.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SmileAway-


I'll have to create a twitter account, so gonna wait to see if anyone comes forward. If not, then I might just make an account and tweet this to him :)



Hi, I am the TM. Do it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#77
ITS HEGDE!!!!!! Not HEDGE as in PLANT HEDGE!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: winiwonka

ITS HEGDE!!!!!! Not HEDGE as in PLANT HEDGE!




Well well well, welcome Gautam Hegde. When you behave like a bristly old bush, you gets called a bush. Now that the attention is drawn, I will change the spelling.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: Marybarton



Well well well, welcome Gautam Hegde. When you behave like a bristly old bush, you gets called a bush. Now that the attention is drawn, I will change the spelling.


ok... good one! 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SmileAway-



🤣
To be fair, he does behave like a Hedge at times.

But yes, the spelling should be changed, otherwise he might have a rant about that too



It's already done 😉

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