Anjali- today's episode

I watched the episode again and to be honest I don't feel angry at anjali, I feel sorry for her.

If you think of it from anjalis point of view then I don't really find her in the wrong or out of character. You have to realise that the two most important people in Anjalis life are Arnav and Shyam. From day one Arnav has protected Her and wrapped her in cotton wool and had been like a barrier that has kept out the pain. Shyam in her eyes till this day has been the most loyal husband who has stood by her and her family for years. Arnav and Shyam are like her two pillars and have been for years. She's basically like a house with two pillars. In order for her to keep standing, she is dependant on them. It's not her fault that she's so dependent on others its her family's and it's her brothers. No one has ever let her grow up and be independent so you can hardly blame her for being distraught when both of her pillars, her support are being taken away. She's never learnt how to be independent, relying on someone is all she knows.

She was in love and she was pregnant and they were about to start a family but Suddenly one day her chote marries Khushi without telling her. It hurt her but they were able to move forward from it . She still had her husband and she was pregnant, her chote may have married without telling her but he was still there for her.

Then suddenly one day that same Khushi comes in shouting the odds accusing that same husband who's anjalis been married to for years And is about to have a child with. She begs her to believe her and yet she has no proof to support her claims. Then that same brother who shes loves more than anything chooses to believe that girl over her husband who has been a part of that family for years. Shyam is anjalis happiness and in her eyes arnav chose to throw that away for Khushi.

Arnav chose to believe the love of his life without proof but you've got to remember That anjali too does love Shyam and I don't blame her for believing him. Khushis just this girl she met a year ago and Shyams has been her husband for years.

Arnav loves Khushi and chose to believe her and anjali loves Shyam and I think deep down refused to believe he'd do that. In her eyes Khushi is the reason her husband isn't with her.

Basically Chote kicked her husband out. She was upset and angry but it was okay because she still had her chote, her other pillar. The house isn't as stable and steady on one pillar but it's still standing.

But now it's like he's putting Khushi above her. She doesn't know what Khushi went through or is going through because as far as she knows Arnav and Khushi have been happily married. So if you see it from her point of view, she's basically lost her husband because of Khushi and because of her she losing her brother as well.

After all this has happened to her, her chote is still thinking of Khushi and her feelings. Anjalis lost everything and she's clinging to the one support she has left but it seems to be getting harder because she's not the only one who counts in arnavs life any more. Whilst she wasn't looking its like Khushi crept in and made a place in arnavs heart and now things aren't the same anymore. He brought flowers and she automatically assumed they were for her because before today she didn't think anyone else mattered enough to be gifted flowers. She thought that the only one that chote thinks about or cares about is her. Before today she has been too focused and busy with her husband and even if Arnav did care about Khushi it didn't matter because she had still had her husband but but now that Shyams gone shea realised that Arnavs changed and that she isn't the only one who he loves and cares for anymore.

I felt so sorry for her today. She thought her chotte had got her flowers to cheer her up and despite the fact that she was ill and depressed she went and made him food and went to feed him. I think the only thing that kept her going was the fact that despite the fact that my husbands gone it doesn't matter because I've still got my chote.

But now in her eyes that same Khushi who took Shyam away is taking her only remaining support.. Yes she's his wife but I think deep down anjali always assumed that noone could ever be as important as her.

Anjali has had a big reality check by realising that the same chote who doesn't celebrate birthday is now cutting cakes and buying flowers and gifts. Anjalis life has been completely shook up but still instead of spending time with her he's cutting cakes with Khushi and sending her flowers with notes showing that his main aim is to make Khushi happy. Before Khushi came into there lives Anjalis happiness was the only thing Arnav cared about but now that's changed.

She believes that she lost shyam because of Khushi and now she's slowly losing her brother because of that same girl.

The Arnav that she knew would have destroyed the person who threatened anjalis happiness but now not only is he defending her but he's loving her and caring for her. The Arnav she knew would have probably threw Khushi out of the house and I think she expected Arnav and Khushis marriage to be in tatters but today she found out that not only are they still going strong but arnavs the one who's initiating it.

I don't think Anjalis in the wrong And I feel really sorry for her because she must feel like she's losing everything and everyone.



I think she's slowly losing her support system. She's relied on Arnav and Shyam for years and shes scared she'll come tumbling down without them. But I think this is a good thing because it is hard And she might completely breakdown but I think this is a good thing because it'll teach her how to be a strong and independent.

She might trust Shyam over Arnav and Khushi OK
She might be unhappy with Khushi OK
She is fragile and wants attention OK
but if she has complete trust over Shyam why didn't She walk away with her husband like a woman of dignity
and if she does not have faith on her husband anymore and is heartbroken than what makes her think that Arnav has no right to be happy if she is not
I am not able to get this point why she choose to be with Chhote instead of Shyam ji if she believes that her serpent husband is right.😕

Things would've been a lot better had she been told the truth differently. She'd definitely been more understanding, I believe.

@asmi4you .. reson i think she didnt walked out with her husband bcoz he didnt ask her .. if shaym had asked anjali to trust him and leave the RM i guess she would have

Originally posted by: Beelte003

Things would've been a lot better had she been told the truth differently. She'd definitely been more understanding, I believe.

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I agree

But I think the way she was told kind of reflects how things are now. If she was told in a better way and Arnav and Khushi explained everything Calmly then I think she might have believed them but the way it came out had a massive impact on the future and anjali.

People say that a woman with dignity will move out with Shyam? No I differ it is good she did not because as always honesty has strength so because she is a woman with dignity she did not support a creep, who was a husband she loved, who was the father of her child and go with him when she understood he is a kidnapper and is unfaithful. We have seen her do that with Chote many times. She did not for once support Arnav when he is wrong or Mami, or Nani. And as expected once she understood that that Creepwa is wrong she did not support him.She was crying for a husband whom she thought she had not the one who really he is

Originally posted by: asmi4you

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif"><font color="#990066">She might trust Shyam over Arnav and Khushi OK
She might be unhappy with Khushi OK
She is fragile and wants attention OK
but if she has complete trust over Shyam why didn't She walk away with her husband like a woman of dignity
and if she does not have faith on her husband anymore and is heartbroken than what makes her think that Arnav has no right to be happy if she is not
I am not able to get this point why she choose to be with Chhote instead of Shyam ji if she believes that her serpent husband is right.😕
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I dont think she believes Shyam completely. I just think she's in a very fragile state. I think she's basically indenial and refusing to believe what's pointing her in the face because if she does believe it then it means that the many years of marriage that she has shared with Shyam has been a big farce. That all those precious moments with Shyam have been a big mockery. I think she does know its true but she refuses to acknowledge it.

She didn't walk away with Shyam because I think she knows it's true and that going with Shyam will destroy her life completely but that doesn't mean that she's willing to completely accept that it's true.

Also it's not that she doesn't want him to be happy. It's just she's scared he'll find happiness and completely forget about her. Yes, it's selfish but she thinks in order to survive she needs arnav.

She thinks Khushi took away her happiness. She could have continued to live in a fantasy where she has the perfect husband and A perfect family and about to have a child of her own but Khushi destroyed that fantasy and brought her back to reality and I think that's what Anjali blames Khushi for, not because she believes Shyam but because Khushi brought her back to reality.

And now that same Khushi has become an important part of arnavs life. Anjalis scared and jealous incase she gets pushed out and Arnav forgets about her altogether.

Originally posted by: asmi4you

<font size="2" color="#990066" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">sorry dear you misunderstood me
I said </font><font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif"><font color="#990066"><font size="2" color="#333333">if she has complete trust over Shyam why didn't She walk away with her husband like a woman of dignity</font>
if she does not have trust on him why not try to forget him
ok its difficult for her to forgive Khushi but why is she unhappy with Arnav's happiness
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She can't forget about him because she loves him. Yes, she might not trust him completely but she sure does love him. It's not easy to move on and forget the man you love, despite everything those feelings don't just go away.

Originally posted by: LoveWillPrevail

She can't forget about him because she loves him. Yes, she might not trust him completely but she sure does love him. It's not easy to move on and forget the man you love, despite everything those feelings don't just go away.

I know its difficult to forget but I am not saying that she should forget him at once but she can try
if she lingers to Snakes's thoughts for lifelong it wont hurt anyone else but herself only
Whatever may be her state of mind or condition no one can deny that Anjali has emerged as a selfish individual
whereas Khushi is the most selfless character of IPKKND
I dont hate Anjali neither am I bashing her
if someone in real life also behaves the way Anjali is behaving I will call it wrong
because it is wrong, it is wrong to think that someone who loves you the most is owned by you and there can not be any other relation equally important to him/her.