Arnav's strange communication issues

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Posted: 13 years ago
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😃Now I don't get this.
He can talk endlessly when he is angry.
Saying things like, 'You are the biggest mistake of my life', 'You have no character' 'You are a liar' etc comes effortlessly.
But an 'I love you' came under pressure.
Sorry came with tremendous practice.
Happy birthday did not come at all.
What kind of communication problem is this?🤣
But before you think I am into the bashing mode, which he does give reasons for...let me explain.
To Arnav being mean comes easily as it makes him less vulnerable to pain and hurt. He is in control then.
But when it comes to saying nice things or humbling himself, he feels he is weak and vulnerable which is why he cannot give in to it.
But then Happy Birthday to banta hai boss, if 'I love you' did not make him weak to Khushi!
Moreover if he has said sorry and I love you, he has to complete the pattern.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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He will say happy birthday when she is asleep. His eyes show his love but he can't be a charmer as that's his character
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazyjotango

He will say happy birthday when she is asleep. His eyes show his love but he can't be a charmer as that's his character

but he can kill her with his words when she is awake? strange. I don;t get that. but then I analyzed why he is like this. so i guess it is fine
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Totally agree that he feels vulnerable.

I always thought that more than not believing in love, he was scared of love and that's why it took him so long to admit his feelings to Khushi.

Admitting that he loves her and expressing it to her, means he is opening himself up, and allowing himself to get hurt. For him life is easier and pain free, if you don't admit you love someone.
If you pretend you don't love them, then it means they can't really hurt you. But the moment you admit that you love them then they have the power to hurt you, as only the actions of those we care about can really hurt us.

I guess that's why he finds it hard to be nice to her lol, as he's scared she might not want him or that he might do something wrong and will lose her, so in his head it's easier not to get too close to her in the first place.

Don't know if I made sense.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In Khushi's words... Arnavji thode ajeeb hain 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lol.yeah... some crazy logic the writers have... moroever GH is on a twitter rampage, instead of looking into all this ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mtazb

Totally agree that he feels vulnerable.

I always thought that more than not believing in love, he was scared of love and that's why it took him so long to admit his feelings to Khushi.

Admitting that he loves her and expressing it to her, means he is opening himself up, and allowing himself to get hurt. For him life is easier and pain free, if you don't admit you love someone.
If you pretend you don't love them, then it means they can't really hurt you. But the moment you admit that you love them then they have the power to hurt you, as only the actions of those we care about can really hurt us.

I guess that's why he finds it hard to be nice to her lol, as he's scared she might not want him or that he might do something wrong and will lose her, so in his head it's easier not to get too close to her in the first place.

Don't know if I made sense.😊

you made sense. arnav is so complex. gosh
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: peepli

lol.yeah... some crazy logic the writers have... moroever GH is on a twitter rampage, instead of looking into all this ..

GH has a complex when accepting criticism
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vellainsaan

In Khushi's words... Arnavji thode ajeeb hain 😆

thode nahi bohut ajeeb hain
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima


GH has a complex when accepting criticism



you bet he does... n not just a complex, complexes..

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