My Sincere Request to all Parichay Fans

Hi My dear freinds,

I am back to forum after couple of days... Felt really bad with the posts of forum. I have gone through all the posts. I was the one, who liked forum and joined few months back. really feeling like to disconnect my account by reading few posts.

I dont understand what is happening... Few posts are irrelevant to Parichay. When this forum is specifically made for parichay... let us discuss about parichay only and kunal chopra , siddhi only..
What is samir soni and keerti doing here????? Why should we discuss about their personnel things??? Though they are public celebrities, It doesnt mean they dont have any personnel life and it doesnt mean they should reveal all their personnel matters in front of public. Why are people so interested in their personnel matters. Leave them some space beyond and behind the shows. We all know Samir is a private person. Why will he leave a message for only forum fans. Do you think the whole samir fans are in forum only.. No we r just a part of his fans... If he is really concerned about his fans and he try to pass a message about his feelings towards the show... he will do it publicly.. He never hesitate to do so. He is a straight forward person, What he thinks he says. He doesn't require any private media, he can declare his unhappiness through proper public media only. He already given a public interview saying, He don't like twitter and Facebook. Once he come out of sets, he doesn't want to reveal any of his personnel matters. Then why will he chose private persons as a channel to reach public????

When i talk about parichay... I sincerely request everyone... please stop creating negativity in the forum particularly about parichay.
I accept, everyone does have right to express their views n assumptions. But that should not degrade the charm of show and specially the personalty of characters. Wrong assumptions will have a limit... But here i found so many limitless faulty imaginations and assumptions, which simply degrading the show reputation. I dont want to pinpoint any particular topic. Its applicable to all the negative shows. I request everyone, If you dont find any postivity in the show, or if you dont like the show: please dont comment or try to express in a smooth way, by which it wont degrade the show reputation and personality of characters. Every character's personality and attitude does have a consistency in this show. Why should we think them negative..
By our unrelated or vulnerable views, we ourselves degrading the charm of show and spoiling our forum.

I am very sorry, if i have hurted anyone. My main intention is to bring back the old glory to Parichay forum.

very well said Gayathri .. nd i am glad to see you bak on forum ...nd this post was very much needed here

seriously there is a limit to the bashing and negativity ..which is currently surronding the forum ... even i dont approve of the nonsense we have witnessed in the last two epis but dat doesnt mean ..i turn only negative nd spread soo much of negativity nd worse is dat that some of us are openly discssing abt ther personal lives of Sameer nd Keerti which is not acceptable at all nd i still seesome comments which are very derogatory towards Keerti ..making fun of her ,her acting ..nd all which really frustates me alot if some intend to only spread negativity out here ..or have problem with amost everything related to the show its better they dont comment here at all. again let me make it clear that i am no one to stop anybody from expressing their views its a free forum fully agreed

well said Gayetri..What is happening in their personal life is none of our business, they do have a private life and we should respect their privacy.. yes I wanted to know what was happening internally , just because of Sameer sir's absence from the show, with him it seems the charm of the show is gone too..that is the only reason I want to now if there is any particular reason behind it.
And i totally agree he is a private person and dont think he will rant all this through messages...
hope what ever it is just is sorted out soon and we get back our Kunal in full form

Originally posted by: cooldipika

very well said Gayathri .. nd i am glad to see you bak on forum ...nd this post was very much needed here

seriously there is a limit to the bashing and negativity ..which is currently surronding the forum ... even i dont approve of the nonsense we have witnessed in the last two epis but dat doesnt mean ..i turn only negative nd spread soo much of negativity nd worse is dat that some of us are openly discssing abt ther personal lives of Sameer nd Keerti which is not acceptable at all nd i still some comments which are very derogatory towards Keerti ..making fun of her ,her acting ..nd all which really frustates me alot if some intend to only spread negativity out here ..or have problem with amost everything related to the show its better they dont comment here at all. again let me msake it clear that i am no one to stop anybody from expressing their views its a free forum fully agreed

so i dont mean to offend anybody here

i am just stating my views and i am very much entitled to do so too.

@ red agreed...well said Dipika...👏

Hi Gayatri
Welcome back to d forum and came back with a bang a needed post at this point.


I totally agree with you even I feel y has sameer chosen only forum to convey his unhappiness he can come out with d media nd share his feelings

Y did he chose forum where there r more number of fans outside forum.

Whoever started this pls stop this it is degrading d character of sameer. Pls viewbie look into d matter it is going beyond d limits

My intention is not to hurt. Anyone

Nice to have you back.
I agree with difference between critizing work in specific & bashing. Current state of show is sure very depressing & hard to have positive outlook but we must know our limit. So thanks for the post.
Hey i am nit saying I was always positive & knew what to do. No I too have my share of baggage as I didn't understand what is going on in the show & why the characters are behaving the way they did. I'm still trying to recover from the treatment Kunal & lately how Siddhi is acting. But...

One thing I would say is we have no right to discuss actors personal life & decisions. Our discussions should be limited to Parichay. But not telling anyone what to do.
So just my POV

Akka loved ur post...thnx for posting it
We all want our old forum back...
As of now.. there are no sinal fans here...now there is only sammy fans n keerti fans
I agree some of us have pinpointed KN's acting skilled which myt have hurt her fans...bt instead of reporting those comments to the DT...some members started bashing sammy n his fans...which hurt a majority of us...I'm sorry to say but only when this sammy-keerti's bashing is over...will I rejoin d forum...
Moreover most of our posts are misinterpreted here...so only if ppl are ready to take evrything in d right spirit...will I be active in this forum
I'm sorry if I've offended anyone...

nice post and needed one too gayathri...its too wierd to see some posts like neelams pregnency...its a very sensitive issue and extremely personal...but i m feeling bad that i also commented in that post...then i have decided not to comment that kind of posts.and i m following that too...i m not a serial freak...this is the first show for me like many of our folks...i watched this show one and only for kunal chopra and his unigueness...later i fell in love with this forum...i have addicted to this forum as well as show...every night when the episode ends i came to online just to see ur views...in some extend i couldnt resist myself to join this forum...infact i feared to join here bcoz being a small town girl i always feared about social networks...i have no ac in fb or twitter till date...i also want my old forum back...the forum which made my love for kunal chopra stronger...the forum which make my mind to join here...but for the ranting...its not our forum folks faults...in our rants anyone can understand how much we love kunal chopra and his parichay...