What prevents us from taking action?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I see we all are passionate about issues. We had realisations earlier and the spark is re-ignited again with shows like SJ or like shows on other channels. We read about issues in our textbooks and papers, we ''know everything''.

So what prevents us from taking action in real life? This is something I really wish to explore.

We all agree problem is with people's mindset. But why is it not corrected?

Is it because we ourselves are reluctant to change? Is it pressure from family and society to remain in realms of conformity? Why do we give up on our ideals and revert back to old wrong tendencies thinking if others did not change, then even I do not need to change?

Or do we feel all culture, tradition and religion related beliefs handed over to us are alright and nothing needs to change?

Many of us fill social media and forums with passionate outpourings as reaction to Satyamev Jayate and news stories in media. But why doesn't that outrage translate into effective change?

Do we find it easier to take the comfort zone or lazy route of going with the herd?

Why does any of the gyan in school and college textbooks or statements in Constitution or Declaration of Human Rights fail to stick in our mind and regulate our actions?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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What makes you think that we don't take any action? True we are not slogan-shouting banner holders, but within our own sphere and our daily lives we do take action. Some of us just don't feel compelled to announce it.

I'm sure in our lives we are all quite vociferous. I would be surprised to find anyone of the active members of this forum taking things lying down.

Can you imagine someone telling Zem or Nirvan or even me something and getting away with it?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chitrashi

What makes you think that we don't take any action? True we are not slogan-shouting banner holders, but within our own sphere and our daily lives we do take action. Some of us just don't feel compelled to announce it.

I'm sure in our lives we are all quite vociferous. I would be surprised to find anyone of the active members of this forum taking things lying down.

Can you imagine someone telling Zem or Nirvan or even me something and getting away with it?


This is quite tempting 😆

But yes, I agree with you. We all do things within our own sphere...it's just that for now, the others make up that majority LoL

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Anu,

I feel if someone is so passionate than I would like to beleive that , individually he/she is standing up against these practices in their own ways.If that individual is able to lead his/her life by saying no to these evils and making sure to stop or question his surroundings about the same, I think I would be glad enough. DOnt need candle marches or slogans to drive any point home.

See, to take these issues nationally or at a higher level is a question of someone's ability and his capacity, so as along an Individual code of conduct is followed , he/she is giving a silent lesson to his mohalla, city and family, which to me is everythin.

@Chitrashi,
All hail the ninja power, nup cannot imagine anyone getting away , bet it would be super fun to watch though.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do agree with people here ... whoever is passionate about these issues do stand up to them, but again just in their confide environment. It is not possible for any individual to start a campaign on their own. I think the best one can do is to educate the upcoming generation to fight about them as much as they can. Things like this have to be taught from very young.

I think its very difficult to change the thinking of the adults as they have grown up in a society where these things have always existed and they have already adapted to it thinking its part of society. One instance is the dowry; even if the parents don't have enough to spend they borrow it ... so that they can meet up with the status of the society they are in.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: locopoco

I do agree with people here ... whoever is passionate about these issues do stand up to them, but again just in their confide environment. It is not possible for any individual to start a campaign on their own. I think the best one can do is to educate the upcoming generation to fight about them as much as they can. Things like this have to be taught from very young.


I think its very difficult to change the thinking of the adults as they have grown up in a society where these things have always existed and they have already adapted to it thinking its part of society. One instance is the dowry; even if the parents don't have enough to spend they borrow it ... so that they can meet up with the status of the society they are in.


Actually, you can change an adult's thinking. I know I have...through persistence 😆...changed many aspects of my parents' thinking...and vice versa of course.

Just because you are an adult does not mean that you are not receptive to change.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Chitrashi

You are misinterpreting my post.

I did not specifically mention you, ZEM or Bewafa. I am trying to talk in general - about people's mentality.

People rant here and elsewhere (social networks), but many times, many of them take things silently in real life. Or cease to bother until something hits them.

Even in this forum I noticed some people saying ''Oh I never thought of this before'' or ''Oh I knew but did not do anything at that time'' or ''I wish I could do this etc.'' These are the things I was aiming to discuss.

So need to tell me what you or ZEM do or don't do, or whether you need or need not announce on roof tops about your every day actions.

And I talked of action in terms of individual behaviour only not banner holding or slogan shouting. In fact, banner holding would never have been needed if individuals had made righteous behaviour their way of life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: annika20

@Chitrashi


You are misinterpreting my post.

People rant here and elsewhere (social networks), but many times, many of them take things silently in real life. Or cease to bother until something hits them.

Even in this forum I noticed some people saying ''Oh I never thought of this before'' or ''Oh I knew but did not do anything at that time'' or ''I wish I could do this etc.'' These are the things I was aiming to discuss.



Annika,look at the brighter side-people ARE finally raving and ranting on social fora and becoming aware on this forum-this is EXACTLY what AK was aiming for,wasn't he? To draw attention,to create awareness? Some of the issues are so complex,so all pervasive that most of us become de-sensitized-we need a kick in our derriere to jolt us out of our complacent stupor.
I think most of us posting here have made conscience decisions about WHAT we will NOT accept in our lives & are following our heart to the best of our limited capacity. I for one ,live in a small village after I retired-I don't have the position or power to make sweeping changes,so I do my little bit for women's empowerment and against DV within my limited ambit-it IS the best I can do.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: znursingh



Annika,look at the brighter side-people ARE finally raving and ranting on social fora and becoming aware on this forum-this is EXACTLY what AK was aiming for,wasn't he? To draw attention,to create awareness? Some of the issues are so complex,so all pervasive that most of us become de-sensitized-we need a kick in our derriere to jolt us out of our complacent stupor.
I think most of us posting here have made conscience decisions about WHAT we will NOT accept in our lives & are following our heart to the best of our limited capacity. I for one ,live in a small village after I retired-I don't have the position or power to make sweeping changes,so I do my little bit for women's empowerment and against DV within my limited ambit-it IS the best I can do.


Yeps, I'm one of them...I didn't realise what a lot of things were until I saw some episodes...becoming aware of the problem is the first step...and like Zem said...people are now finally talking about it and becoming aware of issues.

What prevents us from taking any decisive action is our ignorance of the problem (obviously, just my opinion)...we may know something is happening...it is a condition until we stop and realise that WAIT! This is a problem! Creating awareness lets us recognise conditions as problems...and then positive steps can be made.

Edited by bewafa - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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SanRaj - are you sure you don't want to quote that post once again with the comment Exactly exactly exactly?

Personally I prefer Zigackly - it's got more chutzpah


😆 Sowwwy couldn't resist 😉
Edited by Chitrashi - 13 years ago

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