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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sashashyam

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">Dear Jyoti,

Very well put, and absolutely and factually correct.👏

Most of the misconceptions about the characters and their motivations for their actions can be cleared from the text, as it were, i.e. from the facts as revealed to us in the different episodes, especially in the conversations, as you have done in this case.

Another example of such misconceptions and the resulting complaints: many wondered as to why Purvi still calls Arjun 'Sir'. But w</font><font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">here
does Purvi call Arjun 'Sir ' in private? She does that only while referring to him in front of DK, and
that is the proper thing for her to do, not to show excessive familiarity
before she is officially engaged to Arjun. That DK puts her at ease and blesses
her is characteristic of him. </font><font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">

Shyamala</font>



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Thanks, shyamala. I seem to be constantly defending Arjun in several threads these days 😊 Poor guy, the injustice of it all ..doesnt deserve it :)

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirvanlove

Arjun bought his frend's friendship too

Nirvan Arjun did not buy his friend's friendship but he paid for the heartbreak he caused to his friend..How disrespectful and callous, cruel and uncaring..
Paying shares as a marham to the heartbreak he caused to Ovi..😳
I am just so shocked and surprised as people judging these two characters Ovi as buying off Purvi's kind and Arjun the innocent naive never meant when he offered his shares to Ovi..Different measuring rods for the two...than again to their own...
Ovi has no need for shares nor money..never asked for them just like Purvi never asked for Ovi's money or Arjun's money ...
If Ovi does not know the meanings of relationships than Arjun does not know either ...I sure would like to know if Purvi finds out abt Arjun giving his shares to Ovi for breaking her heart what would she have to say abt it...Would she still think he knows "Rishton ke maayne" or not.😳

Originally posted by: Soapwatcher1

Ovi she is quite crafty underneath all that helplessness, she knows how to get her own way, she has succeeded in doing that all these years. When she came to see Purvi, she appeared demented but did not appear helpless, when she returned to ask Purvi if she wanted more money, Ovi appeared quite in control of her faculties. I have a feeling Ovi will milk her helplessness to the max

SW1 respectfully disagree with this evalution on Ovi character...Although it reminds me of Archana and not Ovi...But Archana is considered to be loving and unselfish...Just gets herself in the mess kind for no odd reason..
When OVI offered Purvi money she was not out of a character who was hurt or in denial that Arjun loves her..Obviously when person has money that is what they will offer...
There are gold diggers out there who grab sugar daddys or mommas. And Ovi thought Purvi was one of them...Any one would think the same when they are in denial and belive BF loves her and not the other girl..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Dabulls23,

I've never responded on this forum but you have made me... I love that you seem to take the side of the underdog and look at the the hero/heroines in PR from a pretty well rounded place but I have a question for you.
If you met someone with the traits that Ovi has would you want to be her friend and would you really care what the back story is that made her that way?
Because ultimately everyone has a back story but not everyone is worthy of forgiveness or compassion. Ovi's grandmother is a piece of work and has definitely twisted her grandchildren but at what point do they as individuals become responsible for who they are ?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lol, Shyamala,, so true, you can even second guess quite accurately what is going to be spewed out as "expert opinion" once you have been around them long enough!! And then I have aspiring young 'uns at home between whom I act as referee and judge - have learnt to sit on the fence and hold my tongue in fear of being accused of playing favorites.
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SW1 respectfully disagree with this evalution on Ovi character...Although it reminds me of Archana and not Ovi...But Archana is considered to be loving and unselfish...Just gets herself in the mess kind for no odd reason..
When OVI offered Purvi money she was not out of a character who was hurt or in denial that Arjun loves her..Obviously when person has money that is what they will offer...
There are gold diggers out there who grab sugar daddys or mommas. And Ovi thought Purvi was one of them...Any one would think the same when they are in denial and belive BF loves her and not the other girl..
dabulls, I am getting quite disillusioned with Archana, I cannot understand how someone could repeatedly do things so foolishly as to ruin her own life constantly at every turn. But that is another matter.
As far as Ovi is concerned, yes, I am willing to grant that being rich and moneyed, she might have thought buying Purvi off would be the easiest way to get rid of this "nuisance" in her life. But if that is the case then, somewhere in the deep recesses of her mind, she must have realized that Arjun is attracted to Purvi as well.
Okay, maybe Ovi thinks she is the real love in Arjun's life, and that Purvi is a mere fling, there still has to be some admittance to herself at least that if Arjun was not reciprocating Purvi's interest, she, Ovi, has nothing to fear and so does not need to buy Purvi out.

Instead, Ovi tells Arjun when she sees him both times, near his house and in the night, that she does not want to know what majburi he is under and why he said and did what he did. There is a disconnect there to me, she does not want to know, persists in believing he loves her, yet wants to buy Purvi off. Why?
If a girl came after my guy (heaven forbid,for the sake of the girl and him🤣) and if I knew he was not interested, I would not care to buy the girl out, would warn him to be careful of the girl but that would be it. Here, Ovi is not even broaching the subject with Arjun, just merrily insists all is well between them which smacks of either a soon impending mental imbalance or a cunning mind that wants to keep him to herself at all costs.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arjun has never really reciprocated Ovi's love even from the begining, even in Canada although he did agree to marry her under the cirucmstances back then. She herself knows that he doesnt love her as she does to him. She has built this make believe world where everything is the way she wants. Remember, Ovi told Tej once that Arjun calls me everyday...She was lying to herself even back then..
Now, I think Ovi really suspects that Arjun really loves Purvi..which she is finding very hard to accept..because that is a dream that she could never achieve. This is what is causing her more anguish and is having a hard time accepting the facts.
I am sure she will reach a breaking point some time but it has to have a direct impact on her. Just someone talking to her, even Arjun is not going to convince her..she has to see it with her own eyes..
Edited by jdronamraju - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You are violating Rule Number #23

Originally posted by: sohan12345

WORST IS ARCHU WHO WAS SELLING PURVI FOR RS. 10,000. ARJUN IS SAID TO BE AN MBA FROM CANADA. HE CAN GET A WELL PAYING JOB WITH LITTLE EFFORT!


You are violating Rule Number #3

Originally posted by: poas

arjun also paid for ovi's heartbroken by transferring his share to ovi.but we never criticised arjun but all arvi fan after archana bc all jealous of archana .archana is lead and doing PR for 3years and made PR no1 in all channel .ekta has to focus on archana manav more bc if new generation can make PR no1 again then ekta cut the role of manav archana and concentrate on only new generation.its aweful to see every arvi fan ready to criticize archana🤢what type of adjective all using😡

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