Question for every woman/ girl - Page 2

well it all depends ,......i got married at 24 and i saw my husband on wedding day ... i did not fall in love with him at first sight .. but now i am madly in love with him .. our love growed ..gradually with mutual understanding and support ....and of course more stronger when our daughter was born ...
well getting married to 40 yrs man... if he is hunk like jai walia ......THEN FOR SURE !!!!!! 😆

hi i cannot even imagine what i would do caugt in a situation like that 😊 but hopefully i wont get caught in a situation like that

Well!I think people marry for different reasons and love being the choice for most of the people. I really do not think age difference matters b'coz when a person cares for someone, some amount of love is bound to be there. The only matter is how one shape up this love or care or respect... what ever U define it as. In jai's case he use to see bani as a person much older to her but definately not as her father. That is the reason he even commented to bani --- Abhi to tum bahut young ho, tumhari puri jindagi baaki hai, you should be get the love you want to get...... Though he loves her but he wanted her to be with somebody whom she loves... may be someone of her age (Although it is a seperate issue that he wanted to marry pia who is even youger than bani) If I see bani.... she has gradually started respecting JW and because he is a wonderful man who is also her husban she has translated her respect in love....(though now he is facing another trauma of the fact of her mother's death) .......I think in forced relationship like this, if two persons are honest to their feeling they may turn out to be good friends or .....lovers.

this is a really good question!!! but my answer is that i would only be able to love him if is personality was likeable... or if he was a good looking as ramu!!! otherwise i would commit suicide or demand divorce or run away!!! 😆 but i doubt it would ever happen!!!!

I personally feel that love has nothing to do with age, believe me! And in this case, Jai is 40 and Bani is 17 years younger to him, so that means that in the serial her age is 23. So the age gap is not that big.
But coming back to the main question, love is an emotion that comes from the heart, and the more you try to reason with it, the more you'll get confused. Love just happens, if you want it or not. No compromise in this feeling! But the choice is yours, either you want to make something of it or not.
In Jai and Bani's case, from the beginning there was a deep understanding and respect for each other, but due to circumstances things went wrong. But when they lived together, despite of all the problems, that understanding changed in a much deeper and beautiful emotion: love! At the very beginning, both of them couldn't imagine falling in love with each other, but that's how love is: totally unpredictable. And last but not least: This process of falling in love went much more faster because Jai is a very very goodlooking and handsome man, and basically good at heart. Need to say more...?

well....this is quite hard to answer cause we haven't been in that kind of situation (i think😕)...but as for love....what about arranged marriages?!!..it's not necessary to like the person who you're married to if your marriage is arranged...but a lot of these relationships work...why?!..because people learn to adjust...you can't always have your own way...and once you understand your partners needs love can grow!

As for marryign someoen twenty years older than you....i'm 15 so ic an't really imagin being married to someone like 35....that's a bit to freaky...but sometimes marriages at ten years work quite well if the maturity and understanding is there!