Question for every woman/ girl

After watching KS, this question's been on my mind for a while now. Can you really fall in love with a person who you are forced to marry??? Like in KS. I've never been married so I don't know if that can really happen, so this question is especially for married women.

Its not just KS, but a lotttt of shows infact this is one of maayi's speciality- to get people married who either hate each other or arn't particularly fond of marrying each other. My question is, If you get tied in a relationship, can u really fall for each other like jai n bani have? I'm really curious to know this. I could never get married to someone who i did not want it- whatever the circumstances may be. But does love conquer all???

Also for the girls- what is the maximum age of person that you would want to marry. I'm 22 and the max i would go is 25. I could never marry a 40 yr old, even though Jai is soooo sooo handsome, but still 40 🤢 too old!!

And what would you do, if you got married ( forcefully or however) to a man 20 yrs older than you??? I dont know what I would do. Getting out would probably be my reaction but i duno...

What do you ladies think??

I think i would be able to fall in love with a person i hated because..im the type of person who alwayz forgives everybody..if i waz in the situation i think i would have started to like Jai ALOT 😳 !!..lol...as for marrying sum one 40 i think i would never be able to do it...unless we had a great undstanding...and i noe wut u mean im only 17... 😉

well.. i am also the type to forgive anyone.. but i would not be willing to
marry someone that older to me.. well i am 16 only! but if i did.. then i
guess eventually i probably would fall in love!

well,it is a show.but in real life,i would never want to imagine myself in such a situation.that would be really scary. 🤢

I think in relationship like marriage there are somethings which are important and necessay

Firstly it is mutual undestanding,if both of them understand each other then loves happens automatically

Secondly adjustment,In bani-jai case Bani adjusted to Jai even after so much tortures,insults etc,so Jai was forced to love Bani against his ego.

I always believe that in any married persons life if even one of them won't adjust and both hate each other that relationship can't stand for long time.

So think if i was married to a man who was more older to me than i think i too would have fallen i love with him 😊

I cant even imagine myself in that situation but anways it all depends on adjusting and understanding but Banis character seems unrealistic to me and Jais is real because men are always difficult to adjust specially if the marriage is forced upon them and it will be still more dificult if the age gap is double anyways if love and understanding person can do wonders then they would never be divorces 😆 Though I am a forgiving person by nature but I aint foolish to take insults and taunting day in and day and remain tied in a unhappy forced marriage because this real life not reel life where end is always happy 😆 😆 😆

16/17 yr old marrying 40 yr old..................Hmmm... 😕

first and foremost, doesnt the word paedophile come to mind?

second, it is possible to be a grown up 16 and an immature 40 yr old, so it is possible that the age gap may not be as significant to some as it is to others

thirdly, I believe that in the JB relationship, there is a weird mix of love and respect. Not that love and respect in themselves are weird, but at times Jai's love seems almost paternal towards Bani, and that to me is weird because you cant sleep with someone you have had paternal instincts for! 😆 In some places that would be considered virtually incestuous! How disgusting is that! 🤢

To be honest, the whole concept I think is one deliberately concocted by Ekta mai to ake people question their beliefs upon relationships and the stereotypical way in which we view them - it's got to said that JnBdefy most conventional Indian relationships - dont you think??

u can, if u live with a person in the same house, share the same bedroom and bed and if it is jai walia aka ram then it is for sure, u will fall in love


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good questions...n it all depends!! i think the charming thing about love is its unpredictability...who u love, when u love, these things are not necessarily in ur control n keeping that in mind, then yes i can fall in love wid a person i am forced into marriage with..........and the maximum age gap between me n my hubby must be 5 years!!!

A radio anchor on a fm channel here, quoted a very cute line a few days ago, it goes like " The success of a marriage need not depend on marrying the person you love, but on loving the person you have married". This line says a lot. If there is love and caring between the two persons married then, nothing matters.