Jab rehne lage wo pare, Yeh Dil kya kare?

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Jo acchha lagta hai, jo pyaara lagta haiJab rehne lage voh pareYeh dil kya kare, yeh dil kya kare😭 Jai to Bani….Zindagi meri bin tere kya hai, dil mera jaanta hai Laakh samjhaaoon apne mann ko, deewaana kab maanta haiReh rehke yeh aahein bhareDil kya kare, yeh dil kya kareYeh dil kya kare, yeh dil kya kare Bani to JaiHar ghadi tu khayaalon mein mere, bas tujhe sochti hoonJis taraf bhi nazar ghoomti hai, main tujhe dekhti hoonTere peechhe agar na phireYeh dil kya kare, yeh dil kya kare Jai to BaniJo acchha lagta hai, jo pyaara lagta hai Jab rehne lage voh pareYeh dil kya kare, yeh dil kya kare

Hello!

Hmmm wasnt it an eventful episode! Left me sad at the end and I am sure I am not the only one. But kya Karen… there was nothing to argue for and against Jai or Bani and analysis… U just had to accept it. And like Jai even I realized… that goes around comes back…. And HOW😕! Moral of the story… When someone is genuinely sorry, forgive them, someday u might need to be forgiven aswell.

Rano looked sweet and was even sweeter👏. She has managed to win us over with her campaign for Jai Jeeju! Way to go Rano and Pia… U Get lost😡! Loved the way Rano was all excited to get Bani ready coz Jai will coming and she did mention that Jai wont be able to take his eyes off her if he saw her. See Jai, all ur staring sessions did have an audience and the younger lot are seriously trying to match upto his romantic skills… they are not as half as good as him!

Yeh kiski hai Aahat,

Yeh kiska hai Saaya

Huhi Dil pe Dastak

Yahan kaun aya?😳

Aur kaun hosakta hai. Jai Walia! And wah kya scene tha! Bani's hair flying all over the place and Jai stood mesmerized… Jiya going dhadak dhadak😳! To be very frank… when I saw Jai at the door all alone I was embarrassed to hell. I was like "duffer akela kyun aya hai?😕😡😆' As much as I found it cute… I didn't want him to look like a fool… which he did😕😆! For a minute I did think he left everyone and came alone coz they were taking far too much time😆. When I saw them, I was wondering how did he reach ahead of those people… did sprint up the stairs😕? And funny as it might sound… I was relieved to see the entire Walia clan behind him😕. Btw what happened to the strong wind blowing??? When the others came… Bani's hair was all right and in place. Jai was it your imagination with some special effect😉? Must say Bani looked beautiful with her hair flying all over😃.

I loved the way Jai broke their private moment and stepped aside so that Bani could welcome the family. And the way Bani gave him a last glance gave it such an intimate feel to it😳. Bani and Aditya's scene truly rocked as always. Aditya is far better a father than Mr. Dixit!

After Aditya walked in… Jai and Bani weer still standing at the door… Jai was like 'welcome me', and Bani was like 'u r family'. Btw Jai-Bani cant u ask how u both are doing? Jai is standing with his arms in a sling and Bani is pregnant… if u all had nothing to talk… atleast 'Kaise hain/Ho?' would have been brilliant for starters. Guys cheer up I don't want the Baby to be a mix of his Khadoos baap and his silent mama😕. They stood at the door for what seemed like eternity… when Rano came along disappointed with the fact these two weren't talking. She went and welcomed Jai and took his ashirwad and told him she is glad he came along and took him inside and Bani came in after them.

When I didn't see pushkar around I was convinced he gave this a miss coz Jai was around. Puhskar was being a good host😃… but Pia was asusual never a delight to the JB campers😡. She was back with her illoigical reasoning. Not that I care… what was her problem😕? She sounded confused… she calls the Walia family over and asks why they are all here. She doesn't have a problem with Jai, but what is his entire family doing her? Huh? Kisse problem hai tumhe, Pia? Jai se? and what did she want Puhskar to do? ask them to leave? What a pathetic host she proved to be…not that I had any better hopes from her. My worst fear is that the party isnt yet over🤢! I liked Pushkar today… he very clearly told Pia that if Bani wants to go back to Jai… she will and they shouldn't interfere with her personal life👏. (Swathi, i didnt expect to forgive him so soon.😃 but i did... he was good to JB camp today that is why)

Massi saw Jai and Bani at different ends of the room and Jai totally lost while Bani was trying to be cheerful. She went to pushkar and spoke to him. Pushkar also wants Jai-Bani together and has pledged his support(please this is a secret mission… ur wife cant known! Why am I telling u… u are a pro in keeping secrets😡. Chalo Maaf kiya Pushkar!) Lets see what help Pushkar can be in this situation.

Now for one of the most heart warming scenes. Jai-Pushkar finally managed to break the ice after 6 months! That's been a long long time… Pushkar is no more the kid he was… spoilt and pampered by Jai. He is all grown up and mature now…even Jai must have found it difficult to identify with him. I don't see the old Jai-Pushkar relationship coming back ever! There was plain affection in Jai's eyes… his pride and faith in Pushkar seem to have gone… I hope not for ever.

Btw doesn't Srk's duplicate have anyother job? I am seeing him almost everyday in kasam se. They asked Jai about the party and Jai said the party indeed was different and the other guests concluded Jai would say so coz Pushkar is his protge. Jai-Pushkar were left alone, Jai was about to walk away when Pushkar managed to bring out verey ounce of courage in him to talk to Jai and tell him he is happy that he came and that he is thankful that Jai has forgiven him. Jai remorsefully said 'jab tumne mujhse maafi mangi, tho mujhe ehsaas hua ke har ek ki zindagi mein aisa kuch hota jiss keliye use maafi chahiye hoti hai… main tumse naraz THA kyunki tumne mera barosa thod diya' AS Jai walked away, he left a puhskar who was at peace with himself somewhere… but he seemed to have realized he has to win back the faith of this man… he realized that him betraying Jai had really broken Jai the most. He has to fix it. Btw Pushkar, I would have preferred if u had called Jai, 'Jai sir' the way u used to. Mr. Walia doesn't sound good from you… made it very impersonal. Go Puhskar, win back the trust of Jai. He really misses u… though he wouldn't accept it in the whole wide world… u know him, don't u? Chalo maine bhi maaf kiya tumhe… it has taken u 6 months to ask for forgiveness and more over Jai's point about forgiveness made a lot of sense to me. So… chalo maaf kiya, tu bhi kya yaad rakega.😛 😆

Btw Pushkar, I liked your party… but I wish u had restricted it to only the family. It was a warm cozy family get together compared to the lavish Walia parties we are used to. Pushkar was a real sweet host👏… Pia… never mind, I am glad she disappeared!

Sahil-Rano's romance reminded Bani of her romantic husband…. She just smiled at the two. Btw Rano looked sweet when she blushed… while sahil looked bland🤢! He needs to take classes from his mamu on how to flirt with ur wife in a crowed room.

Bani heard Jai's name being mentioned and she turned around… the waiters were getting a plate for Jai… with oily khana. Ma'am ko gussa agaya😆. 'Mr. Walia ko yeh khana kyun derahe ho… unhe cholesterol ke problem hai. Unhe salads, roti or chawal dedo' Arre bani…wo log walia mansion ke cooks thode hi te…how are they supposed to know what ur husband darling is allowed? Ahem Ahem… look who caught Bani red handed… Jai, of course and there was a glint of happiness that reached this eyes after god knows how many days😳. Bani just walked away and Jai followed.

She didn't want to talk to Jai and god listened to her… WHY😕? Inbetween came seema from somewhere. Pia why did u invite her? Jai looked so irritated when she turned up… but he couldn't do anything. Just waited for the lady's talk to get over. I so wish Aditya had dragged him elsewhere… Jai shouldn't have been there.

Seema seemed to love Bani's bangles. Apna hero surely knows how to score in this so called 'game' he got massi to give back the bangles Bani left at home. Bani obviously unable to refuse it… wore them. Seema took fancy to the bangles and asked her from where she got them… she gave Jai a look and decided to get back at him… in his own style. She cheerfully smiled and said 'agar tumhe itne pasand aaya ho, to tu raklo' I was like WHAT? I was ok with her not wanting to wear it… completely understandable… but why does she want to give it away. Thank God seema said she will return it after getting a similar bangle made! Jai looked shattered and was looking at Bani with a hope that he heard her wrong. I was hoping bani wouldn't remove the bangles… say it is tight or something or make someother excuse but wont remove it. But she did. Then I hoped she would retain atleast one… Na… she gave away both. She told herself that THINGS don't matter to her, people do… and when Jai is no more hers, nor are his bangles! 😕

Jai watched her slip her bangles off and his heart was bleeding😭 and Massi couldn't bare to see Jai in so much of pain… decided to do something for her munna! Good Massi. Hopefully we should see some positive results.

Bani, If those bangles meant nothing to you… then your mangal sutr means nothing aswell… would u remove it? Bani, yeh kya pagalpan hai😕? No I am not saying this coz I am feeling bad for Jai… I am feeling bad for you. Was that Bangle just another GIFT that Jai gave you? No, it wasn't. Why are you so hard on yourself. It is fine if you love that Man… don't punish yourself like this.

As far as Jai goes… I really have nothing to say… I am feeling as terrible as he is feeling. But I do understand there is no point accusing Bani of being heartless… coz a few days back Jai had done the same… and I must admit I supported almost every action of Jai's then. It is payback time now… and you just pay back! There is definitely no other way out of this but to face & bear Bani's brunt without any self pity and like a man who accepted his mistakes and with dignity. At a point when Jai was being destructive and revengeful, I had said give him time and space to heal and I had also said it is good that Jai releases all his hatred in very way possible… even if it was getting angry at Bani. It is the same situation now… just a role reversal. As much as I would love to make an exception coz it is Jai… I know I will be doing wrong. And moreover I am taking this in a more positive sense… lets square the so called scores that were kept in the beginning. Lets square off Jai's fury with Bani's 'Hatred' This relationship will be more balanced after this phase goes by. Jai-Bani can start afresh as equals… with no baggages from the past.

Having said that, Bani won over Jai by being herself… now Jai will win over Bani by being Jai! So hero get to action and win your love back! She is all set to destroy herself before she hurts you… STOP HER! At stake is not only Bani, But your FAMILY! Get to work, Jai! And your support system is right behind you… Go for it Jai!

The episode was really good today on all front. Direction, acting, dialogues…Everything. Today's star along with Ram is Naman…he was really good today. And Prachi? I am not enjoying her performance…looks like Ekta's pet is taking it easy coz Mai is meherban on her. Arunima was very sweet… only wish Rano's glasses disappear! I was waiting for Jigyasa's nautanki… nothing on that front either. She had disappeared! I really hope the party is over… I cant bear to see Jai around that place for longer with Bani giving him cold shoulders.

That's it from me. Thank u for all ur responses… Luv u all loads for that.

Lots of Luv😃

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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That was lovely...as usual!! 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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lovely.as always.poor jai 😭 ,really felt very very bad for him 😭 .hope massi does something. 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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OMG Anushka that is really an awesome analysis. You touched every character and have been a perfect referee between Jai and Bani. No partiality one way or the other.

I too liked the Jai-Pushkar patch up. It was very well done. Not emotional and no hugging between the two. Pushkar is forgiven but he still has to win back his trust.

Keep them coming. Everyday I watch out for your analysis. It gives an in depth into all that is happening.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: anushka_5

As far as Jai goes… I really have nothing to say… I am feeling as terrible as he is feeling. But I do understand there is no point accusing Bani of being heartless… coz a few days back Jai had done the same… and I must admit I supported almost every action of Jai's then. It is payback time now… and you just pay back! There is definitely no other way out of this but to face & bear Bani's brunt without any self pity and like a man who accepted his mistakes and with dignity. At a point when Jai was being destructive and revengeful, I had said give him time and space to heal and I had also said it is good that Jai releases all his hatred in very way possible… even if it was getting angry at Bani. It is the same situation now… just a role reversal. As much as I would love to make an exception coz it is Jai… I know I will be doing wrong. And moreover I am taking this in a more positive sense… lets square the so called scores that were kept in the beginning. Lets square off Jai's fury with Bani's 'Hatred' This relationship will be more balanced after this phase goes by. Jai-Bani can start afresh as equals… with no baggages from the past.

Anu.

Hi Anu!

Today I get to respond on time! I think for the past week you were posting your analysis at a different time and by the time I would get to it, it would be too late!

I totally agree with what you said up there! The scores need to be settled. Bani needs to release all her anger and frustrations so that they can start all over at the same level. Many members have been saying that Bani has been too harsh on Jai and that she is being unreasonable. Not really. We have to turn back and look at the past too. Jai crossed his limits several times to hurt Bani in his anger...we can't forget the miseries Bani had to endure.

I am completely with you when you say that there is no point in accusing Bani of being stone hearted. She is human, and she is reacting the way many would. Its hardly been a week since Jai disclosed the Raaz to her. A week is nothing....it is not at all enough to get over the harsh truth. The truth is too bitter for her to even get past it. She loves the man she supposedly hates.

Im sure she also hates herself for loving the man she should be hating...and also curses herself for hating the man who has made her experience love.

Like you said, its not reasonable to side with either of them right now, simply because neither is wrong.

We can see her inner conflict expressed in her actions when on one hand she worries about his health instinctively, and on the other, she intentionally crushes his heart by giving away a personal gift to a somebody! She is torn between her heart and her mind.

I hope this couples sorts these things steadily. Im not in a hurry, but I want to see progress, whatever the pace may be!

Have you heard about the possible new track? Something on the line of a new character, fake marriage etc. etc! I dont know what to make of it-whether its a good thing or bad....Just dont want the show to tread the beaten path and go downhill.

Thanks for the remarkable analysis, made a great read. Im really doting on Rano these days! Shes such a cutie...and following her are Sahil and Anu, always siding their Mami!

Luv, Jojo

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Great analysis Anu as usual. And i agree Jai has no other way but to bear Bani's hatred for time being and try and win her back on his own strength and love. Becase nothing else will simply do.

Love reading your analyses. Keep 'em coming 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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wow awesome analysis anu 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: pinky05

OMG Anushka that is really an awesome analysis. You touched every character and have been a perfect referee between Jai and Bani. No partiality one way or the other.

I too liked the Jai-Pushkar patch up. It was very well done. Not emotional and no hugging between the two. Pushkar is forgiven but he still has to win back his trust.

Keep them coming. Everyday I watch out for your analysis. It gives an in depth into all that is happening.

Arre yaar, i am not being impartial... i am very much partial wo kya hai na... After all the 3-4 months of defending Jai... I was made to eat my words.... didnt have one single reason to hold Bani responsible for Jai's broken heart. As i said it was Pay back time... and Jai and Jai's camp ke balaye esi mein te ke we accept it with dignity. Varna even if i had a small tinny winny reason i would have be hard on Bani... No! Jai deserved it so did we... end of story! Our victory is in the fact that Jai-Bani reconcile. Hope that day comes true.

Lots of Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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God, how do u manage to bring in every detail..You never miss a thing 😛 👏 ...Ever since I started posting my analysis, I have realised how tough it is...Just makes me appreciate yours more evday... 😳 ...

Even I was thinking about Jai being the first to come to the door...Was just trying to visualise how he managed to shake off hs entire family and rush to the house first... 😆 ..

Ram looked sort of tired yesterday....It went with Jai's look of course,but u could stilll see the fatigue on his face...And I agree, Prachi is just not moving me these days...I wonder why???...Everythgn seems to be in place..But there's still smthing missing...

Btw, what do u think of this supposed new track of Jai's fake marriage....I hate the idea of it...sounds really pathetic...!!!Hope it doesnt happen...

ok, catch u later...


love
Rupy
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Posted: 19 years ago
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hi,
very nice as usual ....
anu covered each and every bit of scene.. very nicely..
great analysis .....
keep it up
cheers

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