After a long time I am posting something on PR.Though I didn't watch or follow it regularly these days,I was a old Fan of PR and ofcourse as some may know a fan of Old Archu.
I saw the last few epi's because of my friend's sister who told the track was on archu with her daughters.I was a ARMAN lover ,so got interest to see their family story.
On seeing that I would Like to Post something on the ArMan's daughters Teju and Ovi.
To all the Dear ones here, First I would like to clarify and inform that it wasn't a Provoking post or Hate post on any character.
Just wish to put the points and views which I felt like posting on seeing the Last few epi's(Thu,Fri and this Monday). Just views of an old member.
And wish to Post before their characters are butchered more.
So here I go. 😊
A thought came to post Just seeing the Girls from their shoes and POV.
When I analyse the reaction of the daughters ,I couldn't blame them.
We all Know how a Mother love is. How good and Divine it is to feel.
How immensely one need it and what that Warmth, Care and Love can do.
Haven't we seen it in PR on Tue by the first Morning scene. archu with her daughters.
After prayers, entering their room with the smile seeing them sleeping, covering with the Blanket, and the smile while returning back,
How much pleasure archu would have felt it, if it was done to the daughters at beginning stage How much care ,affection and love they would have felt it.
All this were missed ,All this were not there, not for one or two days or months but for 18 years.
I didnt want to go in Detail whose fault is ,How it Happened.
But Just Thinking from the side of Girls,
The day they came to know about their mother, the statements they talked ,the turmoil they went through and the tears of ovi seeing a mom at the roadside with her child ,all tells what they are made of.
I mean its a real outcome or reaction from such a child who has been abandoned Mother's Love.
We Know How it is and How it feel to be under the warmth of mother's love.
Those Girls where are not felt or given that. we the viewers know Savita had a Hand in it, archu's fault is there and so. But the Girls Dont.
For them their mother didnt give that and they are deprived of it. Thast what they have come across and informed.They have been abandoned that and as far they know, their mother Denied it.
Is these reaction from such a child wrong. All they said doesn't seem out of Box. If one were in their shoes, It wont seem Bad at all.
Ovi :
Accept she does talk bluntly. But does this comes just like that. No, its not a Habit, its a inner Hurt that grown and came out that way.
Even Teju said ,she used to control herself and it was Ovi who used to cry a Lot, and missed her mother a Lot.
It was Ovi, who was first crying all the way before seeing her mother. May be they show hate to see their mom, but innerly it shows some where their Hurt, helplessness along with Hatred came as tears.
Seeing the mother with the child on road side also it was Ovi who remembered and cried.
Doesn't all these show that the Girl was Vulnerable ,emotional and easily broken.
Just purely seeing from her Part, Is she wrong fully.
As seeing that from the scenes depicted and dialogues said,It shows she was the one who missed her mother so much,
so emotionally weak and all the times she expected a mother to be on her side. As she asked, all those non-askable ques and answerable by mom were missed by her.
Was that behavior out of Hurt wrong. she has more Hurt which comes as more hatred.
As we seen till now, she hasn't loved a fellow whose belong to someone else. It wasn't a mistake of her.
She loved one person and was given a promise that she will be engaged to him,
The situation ,halat changed after arjun came to India. Is there any fault of Ovi in this.
And some Points from my friends too:
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Ovi Prayed for him ,for his happiness,even though she doesnt know it, done it by learning from archu through phone.
she came even risking her Job , she could had been sued.Just for her love she came here putting all of hers at risk.
Does she seem wrong in all this.
Teju :
Teju tho is ,was and good forever. Her little hatred and angry talks were there.
arrey Teju bhi Human na. She should have had that. and Should have shown that.
Didn't feel her statements were wrong. she started her introspection just after one day only.
she is analysing things and soon she may get to the Bottom. Just after one day ,she could do these things and can behave decently to archu, accepted chai and doesnt talk back much. Then wasnt she a Good one By nature.
Wasn't her anger that day and the turmoil and feelings justified and Normal.
If only this introspection and analysing was there on archu side ,she would have grown and had all the pleasures till now. .
Ok, By saying this, for me this Girls behaviour character look real so far, though they may be Butchered in Upcoming epi's.
Do they Look bad , for me doesn't seem so. They may do something not fully right but understandable is what I felt.
Teju will be the first one But i would say,If only archu would have tried before, then Ovi would have been the Most favorable one for archu. Ovi had that capability ,she is close to her mother's emotional quotient. Both are emotionally weak and vulerable.
Wish to end it Saying that, oh at last they are ArMan Kids, will their Blood have such qualities.
Wouldn't it be good and ofcourse the inbulit,in born would be there.
Then a Few words on Sachin (a note from my friend too) :
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He is and Was wrong. "sachin is Doing Wrong, But He,Ovi and Teju are the the Most Tragic children as they were abandoned by their mother Archu".
He is wrong, doings were like that but as such ,Has he anytime back answered sulo (that day on phone or at their home) or even to archu has he crossed the limits in the way answered back.he remains a silent spectator. He sees archu and feels sometimes her sufferings too.
The parvarish ,the togetherness they(Archu and sachu) spent is still there in his memories. so what stops it,this separation , distance and abandon was the one created all that what they are made of.
The girls havent felt or tasted it.But this fellow felt the warmth and care of archu for years and then abandoned it. Is that what causes this rude behaviour.
So whom to Blame??😕. Definitely the elders and may be not the Kids.
I thought of leaving with the points on Kid, but old habit couldn't finish the essays without the Point on ArMan.(Shys..)
Ok, Now comes on my archu:
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Ok accept savita had a Hand in all these, thats different, a character that had made to have negative shade and negativity will have it.
But if thought,if fought, if determined, archu would have had her daughters with her and the family with her.
Its all were in archu's hands, but she left it without fighting. Now will the crying give back all that.
Yes being a old archu fan, when she cries for her daughters, wa put in a awkward position, I felt bad,oh a mother shouldn't get it .But she as a Mother asked for it, what to do.
When she feel good for her daughters, when she feels happy for her daughter, when she feels pleasure with them, when she is at ease being with her family ,I too feel Glad but the Point stays the same.
Even now she is doing the same. Doesnt wish to fight. Giving it all just for a lame reason saying for sachu's love.
Cant she get it all by being together with her family and making the needful for her absence.
Whose fault is all these. Who had put into all these, is it Own doings too??
Can it be rectified and reverse back???😕
Then Comes Manav:
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I really Pity this man..
How much ever he could do, How much ever He do, does, He will never get the credit or Praise from anyone. Not even from his family members 😕 .
Do good for Mom and daughters, do as they wish, Blamed and Bashed by others (Sulo and group),
Do good for archu -
Blamed and bashed by Savita and crew. all the place he gets Hit.
He tries to keep both the sides happy where he himself goes Unhappy Yet Punished.
He has did a Lot to archu and her Home 18yrs Back, what not he has taken for her and gone through for her .
and in these 18yrs he has done a lot to his mom and daughters but both find fault with this man.
Really Really Pity this man.