Views on ARMAN FAMILY - From a old member :) - Page 2

oh ummi u come like a breeze of fresh air on this forum i dont know why so much of negativity when it comes to sachin ovi and teju .and i m sure archana will take purvi arjun side in future but how will archana tackel ovi teju ...i believe this will bring archana more close to her daughters but the way ovi character was shown she is very emotional person arjun is her weakness her feelings are sincere towards arjun .but savita silly tactics will create big blunder and ovi will eventually loose arjun is she will follow savita advices.

lastly hello to all old friends here.

Hello Taya🤗...hope you are doing well...yes lot of negativity when it comes to Arman kids..

You know what I think (the underlined) that this will be such a blunder...hope Cvs handle this situation with the sensitivity that it requires...I hope Archu (for god's sakes) stays out of this ... and support no one, in the mess, and I say this not because I don't want Porvi/arjun not to marry (rather I do hope they marry ... and I have my own reasons for this😉), but because as a parent and Mom, when 2 kids fights, it is best for parents to just try to stay out of it. They might reason with each (although, not sure how Cvs can show Archu's interaction with Ovi - it will be a challenge and Archu needs to try and redeem herself as Ovi's mom here/now - an interesting watch will be hopefully), without trying to come in the open saying 'I support this kid, because of this reason' ... such a situation never goes down well between kids and end up inventing and creating more sibling rivalry...

Great posts all of you.

I also hate the characterization of Archana now. She is constantly confusing Manav with her talk about how she wants her family back and then saying a split second later, how she only cares about money. Manav is a little at fault too. He knows inside that Archana is still good that's why he defends her but he's also confused and doesn't try to find out why Archana does what she does.

Amongst all the ARMAN kids I sympathize the most with Sachin, though the CVs hardly use him to the best of the actor's abilities in the show. He's actually lived with Archana for many years and experienced that love. I don't think he hates Archana but holds her responsible for lack of a mother's love he didn't receive during those crucial childhood years. Archana, the fool that she is, wants to sacrifice everything for Sachin showing how much she loves him. She could have made him understand if she tried harder rather than listening to his unreasonable demands and making herself look mahaan. No one likes this mahaan avatar of Archana, not Manav, not Sachin, no one. She just looks more foolish to all of them but Archana doesn't understand that😒.

I also don't want Archana to fight her kids battles for them. The slapping drama on Thursday is to show Archana's Jhansi ki Rani avatar. She can withstand all torture for herself but not for Purvi. I wish she'd speak up more when necessary and clarify everything with Manav. And I hope Archana doesn't say that line I hate the most - "Even if God came down and told me that Purvi did this, I wouldn't believe him." It just irks me to no end. It's good to have faith in your kids but she shouldn't always assume that her child will never make a mistake when it's natural for people to make mistakes and especially when she keeps making mistakes herself.

Hi umi dear🤗 So glad to see you back.😊 Extremely fantastic post loved everything you said and very well written. So nice to see our friends Varsha Di, Kalapi Di, and Taya.😊

I loved your analysis on each character umi. Ovi yes may talk blunt but she is deeply hurt and upset that she was abandoned by her mother. She is nowhere wrong in being upset with Archana same for Teju. Teju's reactions were completely normal she had been living with Archu for 3 months and feeling betrayed is completely justified. Archana has committed so many mistakes and sins and one of the worst deeds of hers was abandoning her daughters and giving her son Soham away disobeying Manav's numerous warnings.

umi I also feel a lot for Manav. He does so much cares so much and he gets nothing in return. He did so much for his in laws(bringing Sulo in his home from the ashram, giving her home back, and many other things he has done) but still Sulo is extremely ungrateful and rude to him.

Also loved your analysis on Savita. Savita is sometimes wrong but this doesn't mean Archu-Sulo were anywhere right. What Savita did was for the benefit of her son, and her grandchildren. Archana had ruined Manav by doing a court case against him just for random people and then giving Soham away despite Manav's warnings and then she abandoned her own daughters and started giving more importance to her adopted daughter. She didn't even ask Manav's permission before adopting Purvi so Purvi is indeed lucky that Manav accepts her as his daughter. umi you are right Archu did ask for all of this from her daughters any child would react like this if their mother abandoned them just for money. I also noticed Archu is starting to be very cold and rude to Savita. Savita may not be perfect but after all she is Archana's mother in law so she needs to respect her.

Umi once again very fantastic post.😊

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not able to like ur post bhalla

so glad to see some of the old members. 😊

Well said Kalapi Di and Salvatore-Nina.😊

Nice posts.😊

Yes,Archu not Taking any sides and giving a indirect support to both of them as a Mom when and as they need would be more better.
Should support, care and Love them both equally and staying out without taking sides would be more better.

Yes ,its quite look forward to track or interesting one to see How archu handle this and handle both her daughters(Ovi and Purvi). already with Ovi ,her equation was not going right, so have to see how it goes.

But couldn't trust the Cvs. they will take in their usual lopsided boring storyline.

Hai Bhalla 😊,
Very nice and happy to see you here Brother. Thanks for the reply.
Good to see you all.