It is all about the Child for Jai...... - Page 6

Originally posted by: heyitsrupy

You know at the risk of being branded as totally crazy, I'll say this....I am just not too keen to see Jai confessing his love to Bani....I can wait....Its so much more touching to see his concern for her in a myriad ways....Yesterday was really sweet...to see him missing her at every moment...Just showed her importance for him...So much better than him sitting in a corner and crying out that "Bani main tumse bahut pyaar karta hoon"😕...Once he confesses....Well that is it...whts more to be said....I dont want to deride the imp of words...but in the end thats all they are...Words...gestures are more significant....Alrite folks, you can call me mad now😕😳....

Rupy

No No Rupy, Not at all mad. I am not mad at Jai either. I think it was so understanding of him to realise that he is feeling all alone without Bani, and that he wants to ensure a normal childhood for their child and so he wants Bani back. The missing words that he doesn't say are mush better - once he acknowledges her love for him, it will be so dis-interesting to watch the play of emotions reflected wonderfully whenever he thinks of Bani. 😳

Oh God, This forum is hopelessly in love with Jai! 😆 As I said before, even if Jai ended up committing a 100 murders, you guys will still stand up in his defence! 😉 😆

I am not saying that Jai has to actually go and tell Bani that "I Love You".....The very fact that Jai does not put words to his feelings is what makes his love for Bani so special and vice-versa! If Jai was also coming down on his knees and proposing love to Bani, what difference would be there between Jai, Pushkar, Saahil and that Frog-Face? Jai is a 40 year old man, who has with time become cynical, insecure and confused in love and he is not able to give a name for whatever he feels for Bani!

All I said was that he should stop harping on that child all the time and not make Bani feel that he wants her back only for the Kid! Bani is still madly in love with Jai and would definitely end up forgiving him for what happened, when tempers cool down, but she would find it forgiving him easier if he wants her back for herself and not because of the baby....and he will have to prove that to Bani! If Jai keeps talking about "Mera Baccha" all the time, I don't think Bani is going to have a Telepathy that Jai wants her back because he loves her for what she is, as an individual and not just because he wants his Vaaris from her!

Coming back to how Jai will win back Bani, from what Khabari told me that Jai will surely get her back, but in his own unique way, without jumping guns and using any sort of pressure or force......Just the way Jai got Bani out of hiding, he will make Bani come back to Walia House on her own! 😃

I kind of prefer the smart, savvy and intelligent Jai than the forceful, terror machine he was when he had married Bani!

But really, if Jai ever needs a Defence Team, this place would be his best bet! 😉 😆

Even though I adore Jai's character, I still find numerous faults with him and hence express them out!

Cheers,

MT

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Oh God, This forum is hopelessly in love with Jai! 😆 As I said before, even if Jai ended up committing a 100 murders, you guys will still stand up in his defence! 😉 😆

I am not saying that Jai has to actually go and tell Bani that "I Love You".....The very fact that Jai does not put words to his feelings is what makes his love for Bani so special and vice-versa! If Jai was also coming down on his knees and proposing love to Bani, what difference would be there between Jai, Pushkar, Saahil and that Frog-Face? Jai is a 40 year old man, who has with time become cynical, insecure and confused in love and he is not able to give a name for whatever he feels for Bani!

All I said was that he should stop harping on that child all the time and not make Bani feel that he wants her back only for the Kid! Bani is still madly in love with Jai and would definitely end up forgiving him for what happened, when tempers cool down, but she would find it forgiving him easier if he wants her back for herself and not because of the baby....and he will have to prove that to Bani! If Jai keeps talking about "Mera Baccha" all the time, I don't think Bani is going to have a Telepathy that Jai wants her back because he loves her for what she is, as an individual and not just because he wants his Vaaris from her!

Coming back to how Jai will win back Bani, from what Khabari told me that Jai will surely get her back, but in his own unique way, without jumping guns and using any sort of pressure or force......Just the way Jai got Bani out of hiding, he will make Bani come back to Walia House on her own! 😃

I kind of prefer the smart, savvy and intelligent Jai than the forceful, terror machine he was when he had married Bani!

But really, if Jai ever needs a Defence Team, this place would be his best bet! 😉 😆

Even though I adore Jai's character, I still find numerous faults with him and hence express them out!

Cheers,

MT

😆😆😆 Defence Team 😆😆😆 U said it best

I agree MT, Jai has a whole lot of faults but it only makes him a humane being and not a Superman (like Pushkar Bana Krishh! Sorry, couldn't forget that Sweetie) 😆😆😆

But yes, I like the fact that Jai will not use force or any terror tactics to get Bani back to his house and yes, I am waiting to see his unique signature in this return scenario too. But, as Raaga says, everytime he opens his mouth, I am like palpitating as to if the duffer says anything stupid and mess it all up.

And yes, I would like Jai to keep his mouth shut and not go on harping 'Mera Bachha' before Bani or wou don't know what Munni will be upto now to take revenge? 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Oh God, This forum is hopelessly in love with Jai! 😆 As I said before, even if Jai ended up committing a 100 murders, you guys will still stand up in his defence! 😉 😆

I am not saying that Jai has to actually go and tell Bani that "I Love You".....The very fact that Jai does not put words to his feelings is what makes his love for Bani so special and vice-versa! If Jai was also coming down on his knees and proposing love to Bani, what difference would be there between Jai, Pushkar, Saahil and that Frog-Face? Jai is a 40 year old man, who has with time become cynical, insecure and confused in love and he is not able to give a name for whatever he feels for Bani!

All I said was that he should stop harping on that child all the time and not make Bani feel that he wants her back only for the Kid! Bani is still madly in love with Jai and would definitely end up forgiving him for what happened, when tempers cool down, but she would find it forgiving him easier if he wants her back for herself and not because of the baby....and he will have to prove that to Bani! If Jai keeps talking about "Mera Baccha" all the time, I don't think Bani is going to have a Telepathy that Jai wants her back because he loves her for what she is, as an individual and not just because he wants his Vaaris from her!

Coming back to how Jai will win back Bani, from what Khabari told me that Jai will surely get her back, but in his own unique way, without jumping guns and using any sort of pressure or force......Just the way Jai got Bani out of hiding, he will make Bani come back to Walia House on her own! 😃

I kind of prefer the smart, savvy and intelligent Jai than the forceful, terror machine he was when he had married Bani!

But really, if Jai ever needs a Defence Team, this place would be his best bet! 😉 😆

Even though I adore Jai's character, I still find numerous faults with him and hence express them out!

Cheers,

MT

😆😆....Defence team is rite...!!!....Arre, I throw my hands up in despair at his pig-headedness ev single day....But the min I read smthing against him here, I manage to justify him to myself and others and make him out as this angel...😳...Thats cuddles' charm actually...he's HOPELESSLY flawed...so he cn lead us on 24*7 and make us break our heads over him!!!....

I am glad too that he's not going to be the proverbial cave-man with Bani to get her back...Is he going to emotionally blackmail her into coming???....If he had had any sense, he would have used the accident opportunity by now by fainting away in pain in front of her and then murmuring her name brokenly in order to melt her heart...What a waste!!!....(Er...ok, there goes turncoat me again...I was denouncing him as being unethical and uscrupulous the other day, and here I am aidiing and abetting his schemes....Jai...You are having a terrible effect on me...😆😳)...

love

Rupy

Well said Sangita,me too feel hes not going to force her as he doent wanna stress his darling preg wife 😉 but still he'll be the Jai Wallia in making things happen and ensure his wife and child are safe under his roof,unless he utters some craps as you and Raaga says he really scares me with his uncanny craps.

Munna is not that rude and selfish he cannot be, when i love my aragant munna in the beginning why not this lost in love man 😳 Yes MT im and always stand for my Munna 😳 😳 😳

defence team hi,
😆
well ... it is natural when some come to know that they are becoming parents then it all about child .......
then it's not about .. love or something else...the centre of attraction or point of discussion is always BACHA ...then any thing else in their lives .. as through this lovely gift of god their love is bonded and becomes more stonger .. so talking about baby is actually is talking about love that two souls share with each other and the result is in form of lovely child that god gift you and that child makes you marriage and love sronger then any thing in the world....
so jai being concerned about child ..is natural and not confessng his love to bani for time being is also natural ....if we look at this from real life ...it is being seen that husband and wife .always talk and think about the bacha..that is goona come into their life.....
i think ..jai misses bani too!!!but thinking about his child future is so natural ...that we cannot ignore this and blame jai ...

well....all in all i am in jai defense team .. gals .....😳
cheers

Originally posted by: heyitsrupy

I am glad too that he's not going to be the proverbial cave-man with Bani to get her back...Is he going to emotionally blackmail her into coming???....If he had had any sense, he would have used the accident opportunity by now by fainting away in pain in front of her and then murmuring her name brokenly in order to melt her heart...What a waste

love

Rupy

Amen....You hit the nail right on Rupy..... With this duffer couple it is death bring us together... Bani will be crawling back to Jai once her mother's real killer is identified and hopefuly soon....

Btw happened to see July 21st video and Jai did say to Bani at the hospital that he needed her...