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Ok! Thats it MT! I have nothing left to say! I loved reading your answers and those of all the other poster! You guys have some stellar answers and insights into the recent happening!
You especially MT, are able to really get under the skin of these characters...and also the actors' motivations. Brilliant analysis! Loved it!
Can't wait to see what the creatives come up with next.. and how the actors play it out!
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Originally posted by: mistletoe
Now for the questions of the week;
Most obvious and important one : Do you think that the route Jai took for getting Bani out of her hiding and running back to him was "Morally" and "Ethically" a correct one? Has Jai ended up distancing Bani from him more than ever before or has he done the best thing that he could do considering the circumstances?
The only problem I have with Jai's 'harkat' is that it could have had an adverse impact on Bani and their baby! Yes, it was wrong ethically, but sometimes when welfare and ethics stand opposite to eachother, its wise to choose welfare. I believe, he has done the best thing he could given the situation.
What do you make out of Bani's calm and plaid reaction when she came to hear that Jai is no more? Do you think that it was nothing more than a goof-up on the Creative's part while showing Bani's reaction, or do you think that Prachi was having a bad acting day, or do you think that Bani knew for sure that Jai was perfectly alright and came to see him despite knowing that he was alive or do you think that Bani has been so numbed and shocked by all that happened with her, that she simply doesn't care what happens to Jai or to anyone else now?
A goof up on the part of the creatives. Seems to me that they wanted to show a numb Bani, whose ability to react openly has been suppressed by the burden of the RAAZ, but they didnt execute it well. The result was a Bani, who didnt seem like the Bani we know.
My thoughts might as well be disregarded here since I havent seen the video yet! I might change my stance once I 'see' the scene.
Do you think that Pushkar was in this with Jai? Going by the way Pushkar reacts to the whole thing, do you feel that Pushkar might have told Jai about Bani's whereabout and then they would have gone ahead with this plan to get Bani back to him on her own? If this is the case, do you still emphathize with what Jai did?
Pushkars lukewarm reactions to the events have had me suspect him! I do feel that he was involved in this drama, even if not majorly. I will still remain in agreement with, rather in acceptance, of Jai's actions, but I would be disappointed in Pushkar, because he has not respected Bani's trust in him in case he actually has informed Jai.
How do you think Jai is going to convince Bani to come back to Walia Mansion with him? Or do you think that Bani herself will go back to Jai's house till the child is born? Do you think that Pushkar or Massi will play a role in persuading Bani to come back to Jai's house?
Pushkar will remain sane and stay outta this. He knows where to draw the line. He is the same guy who refused to attend his SIL's wedding because he knew his limits. I wouldnt expect him to cross them this time.
I think Masi will have a big hand in convincing Bani to return. Wonder what reasons she will present. Lets see....
But I will be overjoyed if Jai manages this...but that is not happening, even if he tries, Bani will turn a deaf ear to him!
Do you feel that Bani has lost respect and love for Jai after all that has happened and that she can never feel for him what she had once experienced for him?
Bani's love for Jai is very much intact. She does respect him as well, otherwise she would have disclosed the truth to everyone. But, Im not sure if she still holds Jai as high in regards as she used too...very understandable.
Do you genuinly think that Jai loves Bani for her sake and went to such extents to have her back in his life or do you think it is only the child which is making Jai work out of his character and going to such extent? If Bani was not pregnant with Jai's child, do you think that Jai would have still done what he did i.e go out looking for her all over Mumbai, risk his life and then fake his death?
Yes! Jai would have done everything he did, even if Bani hadnt been pregnant. Not for the purpose of bringing her home though...he would have done all that only so he could see Bani in front of him, only so he could be sure that she is safe...then he would let her decide what she wants to do...in the present situation, we are finding Jai still in control of the situation...had Bani not been pregnant, everything would have been the same except that Jai would not have tried to request/force her to stay back, he would leave everything up to Bani, and may not have made any effort on his part.
Do you think that Bani might end up forgiving Jai for accidentally killing his Mother, but she will never forgive him for playing this mean and underhanded trick on her? Or do you feel that given time and healing, Bani will get over all this and give in to Jai's love and stay on with him?
I think Bani will get over this trick pretty soon. I dont think Bani will be able to completely forgive Jai for what he has done (killing her mother)...as long as the real culprit isnt exposed. But, once the complete truth is out, there iis no question of forgiving Jai, because then he wouldnt have been the killer in the first place! And if we talk about her forgiving Jai for hiding the RAAZ from her, then once the truth will be out, these issues will blur out. They wont require any attention.
What do you think is making Jai stop short of declaring his love for Bani? He tells her that he needs her and his child and he has proved in every way that he is extremely and genuinly concerned for her (even before he knew that she was pregnant), then what is stopping him for expressing the "Three special words".
First and foremost, Jai himself hasnt realized that this is love! We know that from his conversation with Masi. Now even if he knows that what he feels is love, then the situation will stop him! He is very much aware of Bani's attitude and state of mind right now. I believe, he knows that if he mentions those words now, then they will be lost in the confusion of the situation. And he knows expressing his feelings will repulse Bani even more! He's playing it safe by mentioning the child over and over again.
What do you think is going to be the relationship equation between Jai and Bani once she is back in his house? Will she be exceedingly bitter and scathing towards a quiet and subdued Jai or will she be cold and ignorant towards a loving and trying to please Jai? Or will Jai just leave her on her own but at the same time make sure that she is alright?
Cold and indifferent....ouch!...the worst of the two options! I think Jai wont associate with her too much, only for HER comfort, but will make sure everything is perfect for her and their baby, behind her back!
Does the fact that Bani has not spilled a word of the Park Road Secret to anyone and did not stay back at Walia House to revenge on Jai, lead us and Jai to believe that she still loves him more than anything else and doesn't want anyone thinking bad for him?
Yes.
Finally, did you like the way the twist about Jai's death happened or were you completely put off by it? Do you feel that KS is far too emotional and serious and at times, it should be more light-hearted and breezy?
What attracts me to KS is its intensity. The way KS is going right now iis perfect for me! We have other characters to fulfill our desires for light moments. And anyway, now we can expect more such moments between our lead couple! Apparently, Jai has decided not to brood anymore, and try all the tricks up his sleeve to win Bani back..that makes for anything light that we need!
Will be awaiting your answers...
Cheers,
MT
I loved your answers MT! So excited about tomorrow's epi! It better have Jai and Bani interecting with each other.
Jojo
Most obvious and important one : Do you think that the route Jai took for getting Bani out of her hiding and running back to him was "Morally" and "Ethically" a correct one? Has Jai ended up distancing Bani from him more than ever before or has he done the best thing that he could do considering the circumstances?
Well I guess what Jai did isn't morally or ethically correct! But it sure was sneaky and underhanded and not to mention brilliant! 😃 Sorry can't go back on my oath as an RK gopi! 😉 I don't think Jai distanced Bani from himself more so than he already has. I def think that Bani didn't leave much of a choice for him and to him it was the best way to get her out of her hiding......which is interesting coz that means that he KNOWS that Bani cares for him and wouldn't want to completely take him out of her life even though she says the opposite! His inkling of her feelings towards him were only further strengthened from this incident giving him renewed confidence to go on to woo her back into his life! 😃
What do you make out of Bani's calm and plaid reaction when she came to hear that Jai is no more? Do you think that it was nothing more than a goof-up on the Creative's part while showing Bani's reaction, or do you think that Prachi was having a bad acting day, or do you think that Bani knew for sure that Jai was perfectly alright and came to see him despite knowing that he was alive or do you think that Bani has been so numbed and shocked by all that happened with her, that she simply doesn't care what happens to Jai or to anyone else now?
I don't think it's either of the latter 2. I think that it was either a case of bad acting from Prachi or bad direction from the directors part! 😕 I doubt that Bani knew already that Jai was acting coz that would mean that there was another goof up with her reacting the way she did to Jai's cheekiness! 😛 And if it was that she really doesn't care then she didn't have to bother taking the effort to come and see him but she did....so that's not the issue either. I think it's more the fault of the creatives and the director for executing the scene as such!
Do you think that Pushkar was in this with Jai? Going by the way Pushkar reacts to the whole thing, do you feel that Pushkar might have told Jai about Bani's whereabout and then they would have gone ahead with this plan to get Bani back to him on her own? If this is the case, do you still emphathize with what Jai did?
I doubt if Pushky was with Jai. After everything that Jai and Pushky have been through together I doubt if they would put everything behind them and share a comaraderie similar to what happened and devise plans together! 😕 Jai forgave Pia and Pushky for what they did but it's a stretch to expect them to have the same relationship that they did earlier! So I don't think this was a combined plan!
How do you think Jai is going to convince Bani to come back to Walia Mansion with him? Or do you think that Bani herself will go back to Jai's house till the child is born? Do you think that Pushkar or Massi will play a role in persuading Bani to come back to Jai's house?
I don't think Jai would be enough to convince Bani to get back. As staunch a supporter of Jai I might be this time he's not getting away with it so easily! Bani's mad and she has no qualms admitting it! She will not give in to JW so easily and hence some amount of coaxing from the in house cupids and the jeeju might be needed!
Do you feel that Bani has lost respect and love for Jai after all that has happened and that she can never feel for him what she had once experienced for him?
Nope I don't think that at all! If she didn't have the love she wouldn't have come to see him after she found out about his "death"! She def still loves JW as far as respect is concerned that she prolly doesn't so much right now! To her JW has lied and inappropriately married her so the respect that she once had for JW probably isn't still at the same level but love she can't deny!
Do you genuinly think that Jai loves Bani for her sake and went to such extents to have her back in his life or do you think it is only the child which is making Jai work out of his character and going to such extent? If Bani was not pregnant with Jai's child, do you think that Jai would have still done what he did i.e go out looking for her all over Mumbai, risk his life and then fake his death?
I've said this time and again and I'll just sound like a broken record but yes I do think that Jai loves Bani for her and not for the child! I think he did what he did for Bani and to get her back into his life rather than for their unborn child! So obviously I think whether Bani was pregnany or not the fate of events would've been the same! I think Bani being pregnant hasn't changed too much for Jai except for given him the happiness of being a father....hasn't changed too much in the sense that his love for Bani has been the same and his concern for her feelings has been the same!
Do you think that Bani might end up forgiving Jai for accidentally killing his Mother, but she will never forgive him for playing this mean and underhanded trick on her? Or do you feel that given time and healing, Bani will get over all this and give in to Jai's love and stay on with him?
I think the trick is the lesser of her concerns right now! Right now she's more worried about the fact that Jai killed her mother (not even going to say accidentally coz Bani surely doesn't seem like she's acknowledging that slightly very important detail!). Eventually she will get over it and realise his love for her but that'll take some time as of now. 😕
What do you think is making Jai stop short of declaring his love for Bani? He tells her that he needs her and his child and he has proved in every way that he is extremely and genuinly concerned for her (even before he knew that she was pregnant), then what is stopping him for expressing the "Three special words".
The fact that Bani hasn't reciprocated any of the same feelings! Bani has created a virtual wall around her and that isn't really sending Jai the right signals as far as telling Bani the 3 special words! Jai's concern for his wife's feelings is what is stopping him. He doesn't want to hurt her anymore than he already has and since he's not sure of what is in her mind he thinks that he could prolly hurt her more by expressing his true feelings to her and so can't get himself to say it yet!
What do you think is going to be the relationship equation between Jai and Bani once she is back in his house? Will she be exceedingly bitter and scathing towards a quiet and subdued Jai or will she be cold and ignorant towards a loving and trying to please Jai? Or will Jai just leave her on her own but at the same time make sure that she is alright?
I think Jai will try to woo her but she will ignore all of his attempts. There is also the possibility that he will just give up trying eventually and just stick to seeing to it that his wife and child are safe! I hope that Kekta mai doesn't reduce Jai to mere crying faced furniture! But after Fri's epi I have a strong feeling that he will try to do everything at hand to try and win Bani back! 😃
Does the fact that Bani has not spilled a word of the Park Road Secret to anyone and did not stay back at Walia House to revenge on Jai, lead us and Jai to believe that she still loves him more than anything else and doesn't want anyone thinking bad for him?
Jai def knows that she cares for him or he couldn't have so confidently executed such a plan! I don't think he translates that into her love for him yet.....and Bani hasn't really given him any reason to either! Bani keeping mum might bring her up a few notches in Jai's view but for Jai he knows that Bani's extremely hurt and upset and a mere show of concern doesn't translate into love for him! Bani's showing up also clearly gave Jai the green signal to attempt further serious pursuits to woo Bani back but again didn't translate to love for him. Right now he's under the impression that Bani despises him for his acts and that he needs to prove himself worthy of her love!
Finally, did you like the way the twist about Jai's death happened or were you completely put off by it? Do you feel that KS is far too emotional and serious and at times, it should be more light-hearted and breezy?
I LOVED IT! I thought it was brilliant by JW and loved how cheeky and sneaky he was! It brings a really good humane side to his character! Humour is part of life and although using it in such serious situations isn't always taken in good taste it does indicate his underlying concern for his wife! He didn't know how else to get her to come out of her hiding and this was what seemed best to him at the time! I thought it was underhanded and sneaky and very real! I do think that KS can get emotional and serious at times and some humour or romance could lighten up the mood but this scene was prolly one of the most pleasant surprises Kekta has thought of! 😃 Kudos to her and her team for coming up with it! 👏👏
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