Nidhi's integrity

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What would you do in Nidhi's place?

aa07

@aa07

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Posted: 13 years ago

Today, Nidhi's position fascinated me. She was at an unique crossroad. Anjie's advice while practical seems to be at odds with Nidhi being a wife now. She is married to Dr A now. Should she really follow Anjies advice and lie to the husband, or put faith in his integrity and love for her which he has demonstrated more than needs be (Kerala, airport , during separation by refusing Mallu's proposal etc...) and follow his request to locate Mallu as she is his good friend at least in Dr A's opinion, or should she first have a frank discussion with Ashu about her fears regarding M's re-entry in their life and then set out to search for her?

We all know she will find her and bring her to Kotnis but thought this was an interesting poll question. What would you do in Nidhi's place?

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MONY

@MonyP

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am not happy with Ashu's concern for Mallu but that my personal feelings

About Nidhi...I think, her reaction is natural after what mallu has done to her. its just a start, Nidhi dosn't know why Ashu is so worried about Mallu, she will realize once she meets Mallu. I am sure Nidhi will talk to Ashu if his over concern for Mallu is creating problems in their marriage.

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kaks0211

@kaks0211

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Posted: 13 years ago

I feel Nidhi should talk frankly to Ashu - but then is this the right time..Total dilemma for her - bechari

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karajekar

@karajekar

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Posted: 13 years ago

i think nidhi should share her fear with ashu ,becoz it is totally valid reason for nidhi about her fear becoz mallu has done such type of things with her

but for ashu mallu is his friend he will never think bad about her becoz they have share their lonliness together but i dont think so ashu will help nidhi in her fear and he will think that nidhi is over reacting about her fear

now only we can wait for mallu recovery after that drama begin

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tanu

@Armu4eva

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+ 14

Posted: 13 years ago

Have a frank talk with Dr A about your fears of M's re-entry

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Niks_uae

@Niks_uae

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Posted: 13 years ago

have a frank talk with hubby..

BUT not before mallika is somewhat normal... coz if mallika has really lost her plot as shown yesterday..then it would be tad insensitive to think that a person who is ill can do harm... and even ashu will not understand her point... so she has no choice but to wait...

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Mehek25

@Mehek25

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+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

I of course voted for #3...

But this is a situation that could put anyone in a quandary...

For any wife it would be a bit too much to understand and also accept her husband's over-concerned attitude towards his friend...Agreed it is in good faith..but this could be misunderstood by many...But since Nidhi has always been aware of Ashu's concern for Mallu and his point blank refusal to marry Mallu, Nidhi should try and understand his concern and yes she definitely needs to talk to Ashu about it...Ashu should also remember that his concern for his friend should not hurt his wife in any way and also should not reduce his care and concern for his wife...In fact he should make it clear to Nidhi that he is concerned fro Mallu only as one friend would be for another...And for this both need to talk and voice their fears to each other...