DOTW: 21st May 2012 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Chani123

hmmm.. let me restart with a calm mind...

First of all, great job with the analysis.. very apt... And 2 pretty good questions.. will make an attempt to answer them..

1. Does pride always go before destruction?

Let me begin by asking.. Do people like Shyam have any real pride? Do they have any dignity? Do they even know what those words mean?? All they have is a misconception and feelings they name pride and dignity... but what is he proud of? Cheating on his wife? Harassing an innocent girl? Plotting to gain wealth by unlawful means? Being a snake? How can any one be proud of such things? All he has is a feeling of being superior to those around him because he can fool them.. Lil does he realise that he can only fool them cos they have true love, respect and care for each other.. The only thing that is preventing him from destruction is ANJALI! To yahaan par bhi shyam ko Anjali ki zaroorat pad hi gayi.. He had a golden goose, if he had played his cards right he could have the nest with the eggs, but because he was Shyam with no morals and False confidence that he could fool anyone.. he slipped up and fell in LUST with a girl..

There is another way to look at it... If he had not slipped over Khushi, everyone would have probably been unaware of this side of him always.. But greed and lust are close relatives, and u can not pretend to love someone forever... So he slipped.. And the result is EXPOSURE..

These feelings which he has named Pride, is actually false pride and all he has false dignity. He was indignant when he found out that Arnav has stopped depositing money in his account? WHY? Did he have any right on that money? He thinks Raizada's wealth should be his: Why? Has he earned it? In his mind he has.. He married a handicapped woman for this wealth, and has put real hard work in pretending.. So it is his..

He also showed us that all he actually cares about is money... His other wants, namely Khushi also takes a second seat when it comes to greed.. As he told Khushi in Arnav's office.. Back off, and don't spoil my plans, else u know what I'm capable of..

My mom always tells me... Confidence is good.. But overconfidence always lets u down.. His overconfidence is going to be the reason for his destruction.. and he ll be left with nothing.. He ll lose that false pride and realise that he never amounted to anything.. but cos the pride and dignity is false and delusional.. He will blame others for his failure.. He can never accept or realise the fact that his misfortune was his doing... Had he jus curbed his desires, he would still have been in RM.. had he limited himself only to the wealth.. he would atleast have something.. But his greed is his downfall..

You can't really lose something, which was never there in the first place, can you?

will answer the second one soon...

Originally posted by: Chani123

Coming to the second question..

2. After MU clears should Khushi put ASR through acid test?

My answer is NO...

Why should she put ASR thru misery again?? Hasn't he suffered enough? Haven't they suffered enough?

I agree that time and again he has hurt Khushi with his bitter words, but he also has comforted her whenever he could.. Khushi can understand why he did, what he did... She knows the reason.. She is angry that he didn't trust her.. but she knows when it comes to Di, he can't think straight.. Di is everything to him... Di was the reason she didn't tell ASR in the first place.. Cos the happiness of her sister mattered to her the most...

Look what they both did for their elder sisters respectively... Its funny that both Payal and Anjali have a similar past, namely a broken relationship...

Khushi has known deep down that ASR loves her, but hasn't shown it.. She knows that this frustration of loving her but not not being able to express it has led to this mixture/ raita of hurting each other..

And cos she loves him so much... Anything she ll put him through, she ll suffer a hundred times more.. People in love can't see that ppl whom they love are hurting cos of them... She ll realise that everytime ASR hurt her, he was hurting himself more than he hurt her...

She will know the difference between immature and mature love... So in truth she can't hurt him any more than she can hurt herself...

Originally posted by: NIDIZ

Well, I believe if not an acid test atleast they should show a Repent Track..(for a shorter period atleast)

Yes they both did it for their respective sister (with same kinda past)

but, now it's all done they both Saved them(though,Arnav has partly saved Anjali)

But in the process Arnav did Hurt Khushi a lot.. Though after knowing the truth of Arnav's side I kinda feel that Khushi has already forgive him..

But, we know how Arnav is .. he won't forgive himself..

So i need this Track not for Khushi but, for Arnav to forgive his deeds..

'Sometime's in Life the Biggest Fight Run's within our own Self. The Enemy is within..'