Why r Vishnu and Brahma blamed 4 everything?

I don't understand one thing.Shiv blamed Brahma and Vishnu 4 everything.Today Adishakti also blamed dem.I really don't understand why?bcoz dey wanted shiv 2 marry a 'human'sati?was shiv and sati marraige happened b4 da right time?Den what was da right time?Shiv always rejected sati's love saying dat she is a human.Why didn't he tell her dat u hv 2 be a poorna roop se adishakti(like he used 2 say after marriage)den only i can marry u?Sati would hv definitely done tapasya.she cld hv definitely become poorna roop se adishakti.nobody told her dat she has 2 be a complete adishakti 2 marry shiv,neither brahma nor vishnu.

Me to have the same question, the blaming is true or not ? Its ridiculous to watch these issues between gods

not blaming dear , adi shakthi is telling na they made hurry while she was ayogya at that time vishnu and brahma by der leelas they force shivji to get engage wid sati ,b,coz devi shakthi cant marry wid any oder person accept adi purush ,shivji derfore finally shivji has to marry ...