- TRUTH?:
I thought Aamir and his team would show all aspects of every issue they set out to explore. Then why did he not discuss abuse by one's own parents in the Child sex abuse episode? That also happens! It's pretty much there and rampant too. Why ignore that? Why reluctance in touching a taboo topic? What about mothers sometimes killing their own child out of their own free will because they do not want a girl? There have been cases of females putting a bit of poison on their nipples before breastfeeding the baby girl, so that she dies as she suckles!! There are women also who try to abuse kids. Why only show men? Or evil in-laws?What about women who abuse and even favour female foeticide out of their own choice, without any pressure?
- Balance? - Shouldn't Aamir be exploring ALL sides to a particular issue? Why was misuse of anti-dowry laws by women to blackmail husbands, ignored in episode 3? Section 498A is much protested against for women misusing it to blackmail husbands. No word on that from Aamir's team at all! Agreed majority of dowry victims are women and their families mainly. But let's not ignore those who misuse dowry for their own selfish means and harass their in laws!
And why does Aamir mainly look at people who are victims? What about women's families that deliberately give dowry and consider it as status symbol and show of power? Not every parent is ''forced''! What about girls who themselves think they must go with loads of dowry to ensure they get powerful status and upper hand in their in-laws family?[Rich girls do favour it and brag about what they brought with them in marriage!]
The boys or their families are not interviewed at all. Not insight on their mindset and what makes them do such things like asking for dowry or torturing girl in case she does not meet their demands? What about boys who face ridicule if they marry a girl for ''free'' and don't beget dowry?Explore societal pressures on them too! At least touch upon such aspects!
Pakadwa vivah is also traumatic for a man, who is kidnapped, beaten up and forced to get married! Isn't it wrong that they showed it in a spirit of fun? It's trauma if a girl is kidnapped, beaten and forced to marry or locked up in a room with husband she was forced to marry. But it's all comedy when a man is made to go through the same?🤢
I totally criticise how the man's story was handled in episode 3 of SJ. Thumbs down!👎🏼
- Transitions?- I found the flow of episode 3 very haphazard. It started light-hearted, moved on to being tragic and almost gory, then became light hearted again! Shouldn't the flow be smooth? Shouldn't there have been more consistency in the graph of the show's treatment?
- Moving to just emotions and less of issue stuff, are we? - Episode 1 was brilliant. And so was its follow up. Chinks in armour started to show in episode 2 when they showed Sridevi, whose entire part was extremely unnecessary. Episode 3 had no proper discussions with lawyers, women's rights activists or sociologists. Just 3 stories of victims, 2-3 of changemakers and one song! I am glad he highlighted much neglected North East states and their positive culture. But overall 3rd episode was not at all as comprehensive as episode 1.
Are they under pressure to get viewership or something? Bending to market needs? I expected show to be even more comprehensive than what it was in episode 1. I thought the rona dhona would lessen. A more matter of fact and balanced humane approach would be seen. I didn't think they'd straight away jump to laughing!😕
- Monotony in issues? - Why are issues invariably related to women or in-laws in SJ? What about more universal issues that affect everyone? And what about issues that men also face? I am honestly sick of listening to victimised women and hearing about evil in laws! Can we have something which is not related to dada dadi, saas-sasur, pati-patni alone? I expect a better deal in coming weeks!
- Follow up - Sorry to say, but follow up in last two weeks was not as power packed and active as first week's episode. In first week, Asar program was shown almost whole week on Aaj Tak and other channels to discuss female foeticide issue further, with more experts and keep the debate running. Aamir not only met politicians but also participated with students in a rally against female foeticide apart from writing columns, talking on radio and online.
In second week, Aamir did not meet any NGO, politico or participate in any rally. Only wrote columns in papers and did radio shows. Asar program was also shown in once a week. Why? Why wasn't solid follow up done like it was done in first week? Why were those follow up actions reduced a bit?
- Aamir's own reactions - He's all good, unobtrusive, understated, warm and genuine otherwise. But I think he should do less of ''ohh'', ''tch'''or making all those sounds as he listens to victims' horrific accounts. He needs to be a little stoic as an anchor. I like him best when he's easy going. Sometimes when he exhorts people to take action he gets a bit fidgety, gesticulates with his hands too much as if giving speech on stage. It looks theatrical. I wish he were a bit more balanced as an anchor, instead of going overboard when he feels emotional or charged up to take some action!
- Tone of the show, not inspirational!! - I can't believe SJ has come from a man who gave us inspirational films like TZP, 3I, RDB, Lagaan etc.!! I think Satyamev Jayate mostly has a sombre tone to it. It makes you sad or emotional, but it does not inspire or fire enthusiasm to take some action the way, say, an RDB did! I think when SJ makes you emotional, it mostly makes you sad. It does not fill you with anger or a passion to rise up and take a stand! SJ should have focused on AWARENESS and INSPIRATION/EMPOWERMENT, more than making people shocked or teary-eyed. I dislike how so much time is devoted to victims, while positive models are wrapped up in last half an hour in a jiffy! SJ needs to have an energising format. A certain zing, which is missing.
Honestly speaking, Satyamev Jayate set out to be a great effort, showing issues on the show, then discussing it all week online and on news channels and also radio - with activists, common people and even politicians and of course, raising donations for NGOs, inciting people to take action, raise their voice etc. But 3rd episode and certain lack of energy in follow up, is undermining the vision with which they set out to make this show. They better take note, get back to normal. do what they initially promised, instead of taking fluffy approach they took in episode 3!