could gauri have predicted this ?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I sort of felt bad for gauri (not particularly the character but the situation she is in) to come home at 6 pm and find him asleep with the tv on and plates and plates of half eaten food.
Could gauri have predicted that Jagat will take this kind of turn when she 'married' him?
Is there any way we can predict these things from signs when we first meet them?
I mean was there any way to gauge his ambition etc.? Are there traits which indicate how to forecast this?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jagya was always short tempered. She lived with him for a year before she got married. He helped her in the kitchen etc. when he wanted to woo her.
right now he is just sulking or else he is a really good house hold husband LOL.

She does not know his dirty habits like Anandi does. But she should have guessed that if he can leave a girl who almost died for him , then naturally he is not a good person.

But if she had that much sense she would have never married him
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

Jagya was always short tempered. She lived with him for a year before she got married. He helped her in the kitchen etc. when he wanted to woo her.

right now he is just sulking or else he is a really good house hold husband LOL.

She does not know his dirty habits like Anandi does. But she should have guessed that if he can leave a girl who almost died for him , then naturally he is not a good person.

But if she had that much sense she would have never married him

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Posted: 13 years ago
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~Well Gauri still doesnt know jagya's certain traits. Remember when in school anandi got more marks than Jagya n he was sulking so much. He is a MCP 🐷

Now in the recent episodes I dont find any fault in gauri's behaviour with Jagya. She cooks in the morning for Jagya and then goes for her job. She tried to complete the household chores as much as she can.
Also in that scene when jagya was sleeping n gauri was waking him upn then jagya snapped at her. I didnt find Gauri doing anything worong. She was trying to make him understand that he should prepare for his Ms finals.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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No the issue is not whether her behaviour is right or wrong... what i am asking is whether she could have predicted that he will turn out like this.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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No indeed, tinoo, nobody can predict. I had a love marriage and my husband and I had a courtship period of 4 years - we were in different cities and he used to come over to meet me once or twice a year and we used to talk on phone. I did not know several things about my husband till I married him. I did not know that my mother-in-law does not have onion and garlic. I have been a hard-core non-vegetarian and my husband does eat non-veg but my in-laws don't even like onion and garlic. So I didn't know that when our mother-in-law comes to stay with us, it would be an unwritten rule that there can be no non-veg cooked and all dishes have to be without onion and garlic and no vegetables or dishes that they don't like / never have eaten can be cooked. I couldn't have predicted that.
In college and before marriage I used to share my room with other girls - lots of them were quite unclean in their personal habits - but obviously would be at their best in front of their fiances. I used to wonder, how would they keep this small charade up after marriage? And obviously their fiances cannot know much about their personal hygiene before they get married!
There are lots and lots of small things which really are small or at least look very small during courtship or before marriage but start mattering a lot when you marry and live your full life with a person.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It is difficult to say this. But on the flip side - could J have predicted that Gauri will cheat him and be as sneaky as she has been doing for so long?

I think all of us have lots of layers like onions 😉, and it is impossible to know how each of us may react in a very particular situation. A diamond has lots of facets but which one shines depends on the exposed angle.

The same Anandi has a long lecture and lots of boldness for any social wrong but the same girl - used to feel so helpless and unable to protest when J was being so cruel and a cheat. Coz then - she didn't want to believe that someone she loved and thought was loved back - cud have stopped loving her.

Same here - Jagya was infectiously happy and helpful and alays had a ready smile and kept dinner ready for her n collected her ;laundry and did hajaar things for her without even being asked coz he was content n happy. Now - he is feeling depressed and down and so there's neither that energy nor that helpfulness.

Different moods... ! I now want to see if Gauri is able to bring him back to being that happy n confident again. If she can - then - they truely are made for each other 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i always feel if a person dosen't respect or love their parents and family he can't love anyone because no one beside your parents will love you unconditionally... so when he left his family and anandi for his happinesss gauri should have thought about it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: change12

i always feel if a person dosen't respect or love their parents and family he can't love anyone because no one beside your parents will love you unconditionally... so when he left his family and anandi for his happinesss gauri should have thought about it.


I can't agree with you..coz sometimes (not in Jagya's case though) people come from broken families and/or very rigid families which just make a child feel that he/she has to conforn else s/he will not be loved. Then - a person wants to rebel and go out and do exactly the opposite of what their family wud accept.

I don't think Gauri shud have doubted him coz he left them for her - coz think about it - what a huge ego boost it is to think someone can love you more than ANYONE else in the world !! Specially considering she has been nursing an "unwanted bride" sore for this many years. She of course felt elated with his ditching his family for her and decided they had been most unreasonable and pushy in forcing him to accept their choice as a child bride for his entire life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jagya is nothing but a parasite.

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