I know Shyam is just fiction, BUT...

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grapegirl

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey my fellow IFians, serious topic!

I was just watching Samatev Jetav (I really don't know how to spell that, sorry) and it was just heartbreaking. It was on child sexual abuse, and how the sexual attacks come from the inner family circle, from 'trustworthy' inner family members.

Now I hope don't cause any offence, but I think what the CVs are portraying with Shyam is really important. It should really make people alert, that these kind of disgusting leeches exist in our world.

Shyam is cunning, predatory and has no conscience, and he unfortunately has focused his attack on our Khushi. He's so sly and evil and has no limits. Day after day, he's getting more and more abusive towards Khushi, and after every attack on Khushi, I don't understand why people on IF attack Khushi on her lack of action. And how some people even have the audacity to say she likes Shyam's advances🤢

This really makes me depressed. She is a victim of his predatory advances, and she is so helpless, because he has the trust every single family member. And I don't understand why our society always seems to blame the victim, whether it's Arnav on some little level, or us. There's always a tendency to blame the victim, and it's just wrong!

So please people let's not bash Khushi anymore, I can't handle it.😔

P.S. I mean no offence to anyone.

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sree07

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Posted: 13 years ago

Khushi needs to put on her defensive shields. it is not blaming her. Khushi we saw in IPK is a fighter and a righteous one. So we expect the defense mechanisms from her character on shyam's advances. It is not a generalized victim blaming case. As per her character she is supposed to react, which is not happening.

Shyam - khushi equation is no so straight. It thrives on hidden truths.

But with shyam, she needs to account lot of factors... like Anjali, family!!

Khushi needs to make sure that everyone stays away from the truth!

Her one word or yell or shout may ruin the RM peace forever! Isn't it? She is well aware of the fact. So she is playing it down.

Khushi is a smart cookie guys. She retaliates in her own way. Don't be angry on her for not retaliating today. She was confined by many external factors. Give her some time. She will come out and be the Tigress we always want her to be, when the occasion is right! Hope it comes soon⭐️

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grapegirl

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sree07
Khushi needs to put on her defensive shields. it is not blaming her. Khushi we saw in IPK is a fighter and a righteous one. So we expect the defense mechanisms from her character on shyam's advances. It is not a generalized victim blaming case. As per her character she is supposed to react, which is not happening.

Shyam - khushi equation is no so straight. It thrives on hidden truths.
But with shyam, she needs to account lot of factors... like Anjali, family!!
Khushi needs to make sure that everyone stays away from the truth!
Her one word or yell or shout may ruin the RM peace forever! Isn't it? She is well aware of the fact. So she is playing it down.

Khushi is a smart cookie guys. She retaliates in her own way. Don't be angry on her for not retaliating today. She was confined by many external factors. Give her some time. She will come out and be the Tigress we always want her to be, when the occasion is right! Hope it comes soon⭐️

I don't think I wrote my post clearly. I'm trying to say I'm disappointed by what people are saying that Khushi doesn't do anything.

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sree07

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: grapegirl

I don't think I wrote my post clearly. I'm trying to say I'm disappointed by what people are saying that Khushi doesn't do anything.

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Don't get disappointed by what people are saying..

If CVs show khushi hitting shyam hard between the legs, I am sure there will be atleast one post on how khushi's character should not be doing that! So don't go by posts. 😆

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Emerald-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thank you. What a great post man hugs

He just knows her weakness and Arnav isn't there to protect her so his taking an advantage of the situation. :) People fail to understand that, sitting here i can say she should have done that blah blah (which i did yesterday) but tbh you can't always.

It amazing when Arnav was there, Shyam never tried to do anything like that but look at him now.

She needs to clear this misunderstanding first and then sort him out when Arnav is there. Get Arnav on her side ... its about his sister's life fgs.

Edited by zeeba60 - 13 years ago