The precap is worse than bad...it's funny

Other thing I'll add without making a fresh thread...

wow hiral ji...👏👏👏👏 weldone! u have covered almost everything going on in our mind.. nowadays i too started enjoying this funny show.. nothing 2 blame on suraj nd sandy..🤢 just enjoy the show with comic sense.😉. u said everything what was in my mind.. LIKE BEFORE- highlight comedy performance by SANDHYA SURAJ RATHI..🤣🤣🤣

😊U seem 2 know Sandy in & out. U'r absolutely right about her being totally indifferent about her marriage. But m nt sure if we put d entire blame on her.
In fact even Suraj didn't have much problem with such matter; he was atleast positive 4 d future until he discovered about d D paper, which brought his world crashing down. N 4 a simple person like Suraj it was 2 much 2 handle😭. So dats why his thinking has slowed down. Now he just wants her 2 leave d house believing dat it wud put an end 2 all her problems n misery.😕
He can't think further as where wud she go, how will she make her dreams come true etc etc...
Instead of safeguarding her n d marriage he's trying 2 destroy everything, including himself.
They both r at fault. Let say Sandy is 60% responsible 4 dis mess, while Suraj is 40% responsible.
Now I pray 2 God 2 grant some sense & sanity 2 Surya.

i feel extremely sad both for suraj and sandy. i hope this situations does not come up in real life, but as much as i hate this idiot box distorted version of life sadly i see these things happening in life too.
1.Sandy is way too young to got to have married and was as such not focused really on marriage. that is the reason i think ankur should get the villan of star plus award. that sob could have just put her in a hostel and left to live in amreeka to his heart's content. alas did not happen that way.
2. There is no one who are well wishers of sandy to tell her 'being married' is not just decking up and giving lectures on 'garbage disposal' or 'electric shock'. i think she never heard of marriage is 'dharma, artha, kama, moksha' fulfilling between partners. there is no holding back. as a wife you can show frustration, anger, hurt but at the same time you need to show love, affection, trust to your husband. there will be lot of wheeli'ndeali'n between wife and husband.
3. Simpleton like suraj will understand her better if she starts showing her affection openly (atleast in bedroom). even he understood that she cringes everytime he touches her and that is the reason he physically touches her so that she will back off immediately from what ever she is trying to discuss.
4. i hated her idiotic smile about chavi's marriage/sagai so till that thing is done WU for me. i really can't stand sandy making a dumb speech about chavi finishing college. i hope she knows delhi has lot of colleges and chavi can finish her studies there,
5. I would put blame 50% on ankur for being a selfish ba..., 25% on bhabo for being such an uneducated cold hearted shrew and rest 25% on suraj and sandy for being victims to themselves.

It is undeniable that Sandy was not ready for love or marriage. I think her bhabi did explain to her what her duties would be. She was not always an automaton like she is now. She fought for her values and against allegations about her character with passion. She was supportive to Suraj in times of adversity, like when Meena burned down the sarees. They had a sweet camaraderie. The music made it all magical for us.

I have to put the 'blame' on CVs for not knowing what to do with Sandy as a person. She doesn't seem to live in the real world. She lives in HER world. Her world only consists in dressing up and just existing. Whenever the focus is on her she freezes, body mind and soul. Whenever focus is on other Rathis she's positively glowing.

They've ruined things so much that if now, Sandy starts to discover she loves him and gets amorous...I'm gonna have fun. 🤣...oh it'll be just so funny...this forum will be in splits, with people posting wildly funny moments of Sandy's romance. So thank you CVs ...

On top of everything that you have written, another thing i have noticed about her is how come Sandhya is touching Sooraj's hand so freely nowadays. Before when he used to touch her she used to get utterly uncomfortable and scared. now whenever the needs arise for HER she has no problem touching him or pulling him at all. that is really selfish.
Seriously what is wrong with her? why is it that she only starts caring when her relationship with people starts deteriorating. be it with bhabho or Sooraj.

Originally posted by: Hiral_Madame

Sandy prays that she can make things between them okay LIKE BEFORE

WHAT????!!!!!! That is just such nonsense. She really thinks that she can carry on in this sham marriage? Carry on being beendni who stands around clueless and gets scolded by Bhabo. Carry on making a separate bed, sneeze and sniffle or ask for some alone time to change clothes in peace? Sandy seems to think this is married bliss.

And what was that serving him his food for the FIRST TIME?? What was that?? Meena has been serving him all these months?? I seriously question this relationship. There's NO RELATIONSHIP. None!

How did I ever think there was? It was that title track! It plays when she sneezes, it plays when she serves him food...so I thought it was some wonderful bond. Title track is the main lead in this show. I watch it for comic relief these days, because I do not care what happens. As a comedy, it works. Where can we find such a send up of self deluded wives that would knock some sense into self deluded wives. So it works.

Bhabasa is very chilled. He makes lists with Suraj and then cool as you like drops the news that he's off on a trip. He'll pack bags and sneak out before Bhabo finds out. I think the main torture for him is watching Sandy enjoy herself so much in this madhouse. All those ott smiles about Chavi's engagement...freaked me out.

The other 'shock' sbb segment showing Sandy being thrown out dressed to the nines, is also completely farcical. Some think it's a dream, it's that ridiculous. He's going to throw her out on the street and she's going to live in the shop? That would actually be a better arrangement. They can call each other on that phone and tell each other how much they enjoy being apart. I would enjoy it too, especially when Diya aur Baati plays a happy version during this.

No, Sandy doesn't look at all ready for married life. She doesn't know what it is.