Debate: Arrange Marriage Vs Love Mariage

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Nadia

@nandipandi15

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Posted: 19 years ago

#21

awesome topic...i feel both work for different people....just depends what u personally believe....there are people who want an arranged marriage and there are others who even get the concept of arranged...
i personally believe in love marriage....love that is strong and faithful....a dependable love that lasts

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Nandini

@nandinee

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Posted: 19 years ago

#22

well said Khizer! I agree with you completely..
more so... these days seeing the current trends... break up/divorces/separations are very common.. no party thinks twice b4 taking the step...
hence i think being in a love marriage the tendency to compromise to having a bettter married life is much more than in an arranged marriage.. where in... the couple starts blaming the parents for their marriage and the situation...

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Adorable_Ankita

@Adorable_Ankita

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Posted: 19 years ago

#23

Bery bery well said khizer aka buddhu 😆 haha u r learning a lot from me.. 😳 👏 👏 now its my turn to post my essay although i havent posted any paper for any classes but still m trying 😳 😆 😆

A marriage whether loved or arranged first thing we need is trust love n mutual understanding btw de couples.,wid dis dey can achieve anethng in world. 😃

In arranged marriage first everything is looked in details by parents n den dey r shown to de children and after de girl and boy speak wid each other n dey get to noe each other dey decide wether dat person is suitable for him/her or not n later on dey fall in lub. 😳 😳 but dis is a kind of gambling coz sometyms it takes years to understand other person . 😛 its rare dat we can understand a person in only few meetings.. 😉 😉

In arranged marriages both families com together to make a relationship.. in dis realtionship we find so many relations other dan de husband/wyf who r maaried 😊 ..but in love marriage it depends on de families who form a relation other dan boy or girl.. 😉

In arranged marriages support n security comes from de first day of de marriage if couple is going through difficulties but in love marriage it comes a bit late n in some cases even it take many years to get support of families

Dere r both negative n positive points in lov n arnaged marriages..there r failure n difficulties in maintaining de relationship in both type of mariages 😉 😛

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Mink''s Pink

@Mink''s Pink

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Posted: 19 years ago

#24

Very well said Khizer....

I prefer Love marriage...though I have done arrange marriage...

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shushma

@shushma

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Posted: 19 years ago

#25

very good topic. A marriage just doesn't work on it's own. You both have to make it work.

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Gracella

@TrustYourSelf

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Posted: 19 years ago

#26

i've always dreamt abt a Love marriage! someday my prince charming will enter my life and after a stormy romance we'll get married! 😳 my friends tell me that i'm too romantic! 😉 and these things never happen in real life! but i hope that my dreams will come true....

although i've seen arranged marriages which work very well too( sometimes even better than love marriages)
the point is to maintain a relationship we've to put all efforts!! vishwas, pyaar aur understanding zaroori hain!!! 😊

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dianaansari

@dianaansari

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Posted: 19 years ago

#27

Both arrange and love marriages can be good.

Arranged marriages can be good because the parents decide for you, then you decide. When you get married your love grows. I have seen where the love does not grow and the couple end up getting a divorce.

Love marriages are based on love and friendship from the beginning. If you do not have that strong enough bond, then it will break.

I have a love marriage. We are both from 2 different cultures, but we communicate very well. My mother always told me that the number 1 key to a successful marriage is communication. Your partner has to be your best friend.