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Posted: 13 years ago
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Eveline your posts are always so thoughtful and really makes us see the other side of the story. Agree with everything you've said. Just brilliant 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chasing_Shadows

Great Post! Very well written! 👏

I understand what your trying to say. Yes, Khushi has suffered a lot and she has been dying inside all these days. But suicide? Is that the solution for all this? Has she really done everything to get her life back on track? No she hasn't. She can easily get out of this mess by talking to her family members. She could discuss this entire thing with her sister Payal ... tell her how Arnav is blackmailing her .. tell Buaji and her mom but she chose to remain quite. They could have spoken to Arnav's family. Not once has she been shown to think what will her parents do after her marriage ends. The kind of background she comes from I am sure her family will be traumatized. Shaym continues to lust for her.. he has even physically abused her a few times but she continues to ignore it. No normal girl of 23 would be able to ignore such a thing. Atleast the cvs could show a few scenes where she is thinking about what to do about him or be scared or anything that a normal girl would do. But looking at Khushi its impossible to sense any kind of sadness or fear. She is soo cheerful..dancing around with kids, eating jalebis ... its just not realistic. I understand she is a very positive girl but when a pyscho is lusting after you what girl can be cheerful yar?

The scene with her mom Garima was brilliant and it reminded me of the pain Khushi is going through ... that inspite of all her cheerful facade she is indeed broken inside. But the very next day she's back to being her happy and silly self. It just doesn't fit .. as a viewer I am left very confused ... Is she sad or not? I cannot identify with her anymore. I understand that being cheerful is just a facade to hide her pain but what about when she's alone? No matter how much a person acts in front of others when alone they have to contemplate ..cry or whatever but Khushi is always soo happy when she's alone too which leaves me utterly confused 🤪

About the suicide track... The earlier Khushi would NEVER have taken such a decision... she valued her life (construction site scene) and she knows her loved ones value her life. So this decision is completely out of character for her. I actually expected her to pretend to kill herself so that Arnavs tells her the truth... that would have been totally in character for her and would have worked brilliantly.. but she is obviously serious about ending her life which is shocking.

You have explained her feelings beautifully and had the cvs done the same I would have understood her decision to end her life but sadly the cvs have failed to bring out this level of intensity to her character that you brought out with ur post. They have made a mockery out of her feelings right from the start of this track. IMO Khushi is the character who has suffered the most in this show ... earlier I used to feel so much for her but lately its just not the same. Khushi/Sanaya are getting a raw deal by the cvs. She is capable of such amazing acting. She is one of the best actor on the show but sadly she has been forced to become a clown. 😭

Except for a few scenes the cvs haven't really focused much on Khushis feelings .. her heartbreak ... her sense of defeat ... her loneliness .. they haven't even showed her feelings for Arnav yet!!! Even this Kundai Khooni track could have been played out in a better way. They could have shown Khushi being heartbroken that the guy she loves is in love with someone else and wants to kill her... her pain ... heart break could have been shown in such an amazing way. Sanaya Irani would have been awesome to watch in such a scene!!! Had they shown something like this I am sure the entire forum would have been crying for her. But sadly the cvs made this into another joke... Khushi's feelings just dint come out ... It seemed like she has no value for her life and its no big deal to take ones life.. chalo jaake suicide kar lete hain!!!

I think its about time the cvs start focusing on Khushi's feelings. We all no how much Arnav loves her so lets not focus on him anymore. Its Khushi's time now ... her realization .. her heartbreak ... All I am hoping for is that once Aranav reveals the truth we get a strong Khushi who fights for her rights and ignores Arnav completely. No more back to 101 ways to irritate Arnav .. all that can be kept for later when they have reconciled. I want the intensity and the passion back. I want the Khushi I love back!! After watching this show loyally for almost a year I think all of us deserve it. 😭

First and foremost...i cannot do justice to your response...but i still appreciate you coming up with such a detailed analysis..thank you😊
Khushi is not out to committ suicide because she cannot stand the pain any longer or her spirit is broken...no..inspite of everything she has suffered or she might...she cannot even think of giving up her life...the only reason she is doing so is because she thinks arnav wants her out...the thought of his killing her...drives her off the edge...she gives up her life for him...afterall they both might not confess even to themselves...but his wish is her command...😉
And about her feelings not being shown clearly...lately we have had glimpses of her pain...even arnav if u look at it...does not have dialogues that show his feelings...he just has flash backs and related expressions...but i think the problem here is ..they have to show a reason for what he is doing and so repeatedly they show the reason behind his actions..while khushi here is more or less the victim...she has no clue...no reason and therefore no flashbacks...but now she has accumulated hurt...so the cvs have started giving her pain some attention too...also she is not a bitter person...giving her flashbacks for the all the wrongs she has suffered at his hands would absoulutely ruin her positive character...she has a big forgiving and forgetting heart...and maybe thats what the cvs want to show...she does not have any resentments or bitterness or anger or hate bottled up in her..unlike arnav...its just pure pain...and about that we all are aware of...maybe that explains the silence of the cvs on her part...if they stress too much on her pain...it has the danger of turning into another sob story..which they are determined to to be...the last thing they would and they should do to khushi is maker her a tragic figure...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: darshi28

Eveline your posts are always so thoughtful and really makes us see the other side of the story. Agree with everything you've said. Just brilliant 👏

😊thanks
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rana5

Eveline, just read your post. I do not know how I missed it. Khushi has reached her point of no return, she has had enough. I just wish the CV's had shown us some more of her inner turmoil and lead us up to this point. I want to sympathise with her plight more than I have been. It is only when I read posts like yours that I realise what Khushi is going through, otherwise it is easy for the layman to see her antics as OTT. Thanks for clarifying Khushi's inner turmoil and writing this sympathetic post on Khushi's behalf. I wish the CV's had put more thought into her character and what she is going through.

If they show her being very aware of her pain...revising and revisiting her old wounds everytime she gets new ones...can u imagine how khushi would be...all the positivity the laughter the fun...everything would be gone...if they show khushi focusing on her pain...the gist of her character is gone forever...like thinking about it again and again makes arnav angry and bitter...khushi would end up the same way...angry bitter sad and vindictive...do we really want the cvs to stress on khushi's pain is the million dollar question here...we have seen glimpses of it and are aware of it..do we want constant reminders or repetitions of it ??
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Punkin22

Eveline, your post clearly stated the devastation of Khushi's soul. Very powerful writing. A good writer engages the readers emotions and tangles them with story's. You have done that magnificently. This is one of the best I have ever read. Congratulations...👏👏👏

aww...thanks a ton for ur appreciation 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
#56
loved reading your pov but it's sad that CVs are dragging khushi down down and way down by showcasing how stupid and dumb a girl could get to even think of committing suicide just by going through assumptions thanks to a tv program

yes she's been through a tough time thanks to da devil raizada. yes she's a 19 year old but she's not 6 or 10 isn't she? she doesn't have to be a super girl with an amazing clever brain but wish CVs made her a normal yet lil weird as she used to be unlike nowadays

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