What Makes a Couple Made For Each Other

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hola Ppl,

Been a long time since i tapkofied on IF forget about DABH 😆

Anyways, Lets see , what makes a couple perfect for each other or Ideal for each other ?

Lets see what every one has to say

Love

J

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I read this quote on internet:- The secret of any successful relationship is: Request, Appreciation, Gratitude and Patience.(a package of selfless LOVE); Instead of Demand, Criticism, Expectations and Resentment...!
Apart from that "Communication n Let Go Attitude" are also the LIFELINE of any couple's relationship.

Although, In reality it's difficult to imply them after all we're human-being and we tend to feel all the notions but we can put efforts to imply them for sure.👏👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think understanding each other is very important.communication too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: breezy

Hola Ppl,


Been a long time since i tapkofied on IF forget about DABH 😆

Anyways, Lets see , what makes a couple perfect for each other or Ideal for each other ?

Lets see what every one has to say

Love

J

i think the ideal husband is who can understand his wife's need to keep a certain distance from his parents/family in extreme cases of harrasments like sandhya's. i wish suraj has the nerve to step out of the big house and give sandy a comfy life smwhere else in a bhabho free environment. althoh in mera bharat mahaan what im saying is a crime ... only harrassing a DIL to death isnt!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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thanks for answers, well i would say mine later , but i sort of disagree with vasu.avantika, wats with seperation and all , why is seperation the only solution ? cant it be handled without that
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well Understanding is First , It makes Many things Work out . If he really Loves her , He will try to give her Privacy From a Harrasing MIL LIke Bhaboos .

Life to Sandhya Kind Gal is Highly Miserable with Bhabo , Life to a husband Like Suraj is only Staarring Eye-Locks if he continues being Like this .


I Agree to Vasu.avantika s POV also ...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think that there are lots of things that are needed to know whether the couple are perfect well I can say that there's no such thing as perfect 😆 In a marriage I think you need to have a good level of communication and understanding between each other and by understanding your partner's needs and feelings before they express it to you. Also making sure that your partner is always comfertable and giving them that sense of comfort when they are uncertain about something! 😃 You need to make sure that your partner and you share their happiness and sorrows together as this helps couples to understand each other more and also strengthen their bond of love 😳 You need to learn how to accept each other for who you are as no one is perfect and everyone has faults somewhere down the line and that links to compromise you have to be able to let go otherwise your marriage or relationship will never work! Respect and trust is also another key to a succesful couple and this is once of the main ones, if you dont respect your partner then you cant really expect to get anything else love, understanding etc. also having trust is also important because trust is the foundation of a relationship and if that breaks the whole tower will fall. Finally, love you have to be able to express your love to your partner otherwise there will be that uncertainity between you and you wont be close in your heart only in your mind and a perfect couple are in love right? That was long well I hope that makes sense 😆😆 Ive not been in a relationship or fallen in love i just think its meant to be like this 😆 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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thanks for answers, well i would say mine later , but i sort of disagree with vasu.avantika, wats with seperation and all , why is seperation the only solution ? cant it be handled without that [/Qi am not idealistic and i am entitled to my views.by merely me saying it , it will not happen in the real world where 99% betas wd stick to their moms n even ditch their wife. lifes not a be dof roses ... i can write a book on how betas are always blind towards what their moms do. i was a part of an online forum dedicated only to DILs harrassed by inalws and u wudnt even imagien how dark their lives were. not just taunts and tannas by MIL but mothers wud use their powers over their sons to make hm hurt his wife, both verbally and physically. and then sex which was forced never out of love or will and gor forbid if the woman wants to enjoy it! it wil lhappen only to give the mahaan mata her pota! and house chores liek maid becuase the day they get DIL they dont want to spend on maids. and it is commoner than this generation thinks! and none fo the betas had left their moms!!!!!!!!!!!!! they wroshipped her even if they had reduced theri wife to a living dead body!so what im saying is basically wishful thinking in 99% cases. but think about it ... if true love entails sacrifice and why shud only women keep sacrificing by putting up with bhabhos. in real world bhabhos dont change. it takes so much joy away from a woman's life f people r constantly at her back. and even she lives only once ... why is she not entitled to any pleasure/peace/joy?
first of all i dont agree to everybody staying together in the first place. i dont agree to joint family system . a husband who is ready to sacrifice is ideal, i did not say idol for society, if they were joint family system wud have perished long ago but it is flourishing all at the expense of DIL ... and well sacrifice can be of any kind. when u say u love a woman, u shoudl be able to sacrifice something precious to ur heart to give her a chance to live peacefully and with dignity. again i reiterate this is how it should be ... not how it happens.
it is basically making ur significant other a little happy and i see no reason why elders cannot be taken care of from a little distance. also i feel elders who want to keep their children under same roof even after they r married and adults are selfish.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Trust,Love,Patience 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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❤️UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER... IN SPITE OF THE TIME THEY SPENT TOGETHER.
❤️PATIENCE👍🏼.. THE ONE WHO HEARS(BEARS) MORE WILL UNDERSTAND ALSO MORE⭐️
AND
❤️"TRUST"... THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THAT MAKES THEM FEEL SECURED IN ALL WAYS.😍..
AND IF THESE TREE ARE THERE BETWEEN TWO, THEN AUTOMATICALLY LOVE WII BE CONNECTING THEM...

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