Originally posted by: apkavishwa
he is badly hurt to hurt her... he said to babasa that he himself dont know how will he live after she move away from him... now humiliation thing is bad, his action is bad but his thinking is... she is here bcoz of him, taking all burdens bcoz of him, thinking she should have married a wealthy person like Doctor, engineer etc were she will be... his thinking is if he behave like this she will hate him and will never remember him and can get married to some one else and will be happy in her life... no matter what will happen to his life...he thinks about others... may be i was thinking like if the home environment was good she would have already fallen to sooraj...
I wouldnt say had the home environment a better place she would have fallen for him , love and liking for a person has to come for what he is rather than where he is and with whom he is surrounded with 😊 all they do is give u a push in lovely dovely manner (like we see in other shows , ppl pushing two lovers together and all thats it ) but there are things more than that ,
Had I wont blame suraj thinking of blaming himself for her condition , yes he is not wrong in thinking he had ruined her life , may be in a manner he did , she is adjusting to things and to life and at same time she has lost her real self, though not dead yet her protests and her thinking keeps her alive now and then, so far we had seen the gal blaming herself for some ones destruction and not the man when he in a manner and way is , may be sandhya would have walked out of this marriage way long before had she not decided to give in and adjust and see , even when she broke in front of him saying she adjusts yet she isnt given the deserved respect there is no hint of walking out of the house or from the relation , she is hurt that when she is planning to be part of his life and his family, she has fallen for him the self realization is yet to come or rather on its way may be ... but i would hate to see a make and kiss up relation with out realization from sandhya and would be heart broken if they show her take it as compromise