1/5 Dragon Club:The Climax of the Grt Bum Fiasco

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Phew, tensions are still running high from Gayatri's utter depravity. But on many levels I feel pity for her (not sympathy, mind you, pity...like you are pathetic you sociopath, pity) because she is a grown woman competing with a 4/5-year old child and taking sides in a battle where she should be making peace and building bridges. Idiot. The men are not going to be pleased with her behaviour. Yash, because he is a human being, and Papa S, because he just explained to her why PayPal and Ansh need to get along so Aarti will have more time to generate the inheritors of his illustrious bloodline. Geez, Gaya, do you ever listen? 😕

Anyway, first things first. I loved the first scene. Ansh was still insistent about the kissy and to such an extent that he confessed his crime with pride. He had marked and defended his territory, Aarti and he felt no remorse for that. This is where his bonding with his father is going to be necessary, not just a superhero-worship but an actual bond of trust and faith. Only then will the little man lower his crippling defenses.

Aarti may be indulgent of Ansh but when it comes down to actually hurting someone, she seems to be pretty strict. I also felt in her rant that she was deeply affected by Yash's pain and that also influenced her to blast Ansh the way she did. The fact that someone else's pain overrides Ansh's reluctance to say sorry in front of everyone for Aarti shows that she is becoming a part of this unit in spite of herself. For once she acts on behalf of someone other than Ansh, going against Ansh's wishes. That is progress people!

But I have to point out that I think this is what Yash was trying to spare her, and him when he didn't let her blurt out the truth of the pin in front of his family. Aarti lives in a world of ideals. She confesses her mistakes and asks for forgiveness. But Yash knows the real world better, from none other than his parents. Not everybody is so pure hearted to understand the genuine motives and he seems to know his parents aren't worthy of such honesty as they would not understand something that went against their own dogma. But because Aarti expects fairness and justice from everyone, she often bites the dust and this time the consequences were for Ansh more than her.

But what I loved most was that in this family environment, Aarti has the luxury of disciplining Ansh. I say this because if she is harsh with him, there are so many people to balance out her harshness and bring him back to a positive mood. When she was raising him alone, being a constant force was necessary and since it was hard for her to see him unhappy, she may have refrained from scolding him so harshly. But here, when she disciplined him, there was Yash, first of all to enforce the lesson of never doing something like this again, and Pankaj and Prateek to not let Ansh wallow in any sort of negative place. I think this scene would have heartened Aarti, allowed her to feel freer to discipline Ansh in the future.

And then came Gayatri. 😡 Even though her dialogue was horrible and way over the top, it sort of made me think of Prashant. He is certainly no criminal, but he did something terrible to someone for his own selfish reason and did not consider the consequences, and is even proud of his decision. Ansh displayed the same pattern here with the pin BUT I think Aarti dealt with it admirably as did Yash. Because Yash and the family's presence gives Aarti the space to be a little firmer with Ansh, I am sure she will deal with all of this in good time. Gaya should go to jail.

The second half of the episode was hard to watch but it also made a lot of things much clearer. The first instance was when Gayatri and PapaS were doing their ritual before bed. So finally we get another piece to the puzzle. They want Yash to have a son, one of his blood so that he will not be alone in his old age. So Aarti is pretty much nothing but a prospective vessel for the exhaulted Scindia seed. Whoopee. I couldn't help but think of Paridhi's parents when he was talking about PayPal being someone else's amanat because I am sure the Khannas would beg to differ and I hope they do. I felt awful for poor Pari today. She got married to Prateek but she is realising that for the majority of the day he leaves her in this regressive black hole, where her saas is a b*tch for what seems like no reason, her SIL is treated like crap for asserting her choices and where she feels utterly suffocated. But if I know anything of her character, she is not one to wallow for long so I am looking forward to her next move.

Aww! I loved the way Aarti spoke about Yash and Arpita. Is it just me or did she sound proud of his love for her? Well it was certainly admiring and that's a start. The name issue was again kept fresh by her asserting that she didn't want to take Arpita's place. Now Vidhi and more importantly Pari know. Pari has been observing many pieces to the Aarti puzzle and I hope she forms an alliance soon, without Vidhi as the go-between. And isn't it cute how Vidhi completely undermines serious marital problems? NO? I didn't think so either! 😡 She thinks Prateek can win Paridhi over with romance, when the course of the rest of Pari's ife hangs in the balance and he escapes to a convenient job all day? She proudly nods when her husband is cited as romantic without so much as a guilty look?

Even though the second part of the episode was a heart breaker, I am glad they showed it because it gave much needed insight into Payal and Palak. I think it is perfectly acceptable and understandable for them not to trust Aarti enough to go out alone with her yet. It wasn't rude but just honest. And I don't think Aarti minded. She got a reality check that she has a long way to go. I loved the way Ansh talked about PayPal with so much apnapan, saying that if Palak didn't come, Payal wouldn't either and then told them to get bored, sitting at home. 😆 He is really a well-adjusted little boy, only he knows too much for his own good.

Aahh that smile of trust that Aarti gave Gayatri when she said that she considered Ansh their own just broke my heart to smithereens. 🥺 What kind of a woman, what kind of a mother is Gayatri, playing with another mother's emotions that way, only to get her way? Ansh is a very logical and righteous kid. He does only what he is convinced is right, and most of the time it takes a lot of convincing. The very fact that Gaya does not tell him the time and goes on to teach PayPal without him proves that she has no intention of including him. And she capitalises on the vulnerability of those weaker than her to feel strong. That is the textbook definition of a bully.

Now I realise what PayPal's problem is. It isn't discipline but rather the insecurities that Gaya, as their primary caregiver, along with Yash, is passing onto them. These are the insecurities that will make them perfect image conscious, kitchen-gossiping, putting down others, bahus of the future. Women who will seek to have petty means of power over those weaker than them and thereby trap themselves more firmly in the patriarchal system. This is another reason they need Aarti, to learn that you don't have to feel good by putting down others. This is why they are anti-social. They use superiority as a defense mechanism to hide their own insecurities, just like their Dadi whom they seem to idolise. The saddest thing and the irony really, is that Gayatri is giving them these lessons while teaching them the words, "matra devo bhava" which is a valuable lesson when its meaning is properly conveyed.

Don't even get me started on how wrong it is to punish a kid after the chapter is closed. You are not even supposed to do that with dogs! 😡 And locking a kid in a room where he is crying his eyes out is abusive and dangerous. I hope something minor happens to Ansh in there so that Gayatri can feel the pain I did today when his cheerful, obedient self was beat into such an unfair situation. Ansh may be a "good boy" but he will not stand for bullies. Good for him!

Oh man Yash's poor Bum been thru alot even speed bumps! 😆 I call is a bouncing bum 😆😆😆

OK im really sick of this G3, the woman needs to be slapped now, how can she do that to Ansh, hopefully Panku and all intervene on this matter! Yash will give it to her directly and girls will feel jealous even more! Cant stand this torture on Ansh 😡

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Today's episode was a big question mark for me. When a child makes a mistake as Ansh did, in putting that hairpin on the sofa and hurting Yash, is it right to take the episode lightly or seriously?

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Okay, I haven't even seen the episode yet, but from Jyo's update, this idea popped into my mind. So, Cassanova wants Yash to have a male heir. While that is a sexist attitude, it is pretty typical and not entirely unexpected. What my thinking is, he must know that even if Aarti and Yash have a child/children together, there is no guarantee that it/they will be boys. What then is he going to do to ensure that it is a boy, hmmm? Is he going to suggest sex-selective abortion? That they should go to a fertility clinic and do dna testing to ensure that they only implant male embryos? Keep encouraging them to have children until they have a boy, no matter how many girls they have?

This train of questions then led me to wonder if perhaps after having PayPal, Arpita was advised not to have any more children, but because of pressure for a boy from her sasur, she then got pregnant and died. If this is the scenario, then it would make sense why Casanova would have some guilt over her death, and also why Yash might not be to happy with his father anymore.

I don't really feel like doing any more analysis etc on this episode specifically, so I'll just stick to emoticons.

Gayatri-😲😡🤢

Casanova-

Yash-❤️

Arti-🤗 (she needs one after the emotional ringer she's been going through)

PayPal-😒 (naughty. Now they're up to their school mate tactics with Ansh)

Ansh-💔Gayatri you are a 😡


I'm hoping that like always the precap is a bit misleading and that there was another person who also saw his stupid mother's stupid reasoning, our hero Yash of course. I want him to ask his mother two questions. 1) If he opens the door is she still going to do her stupid blackmailing? 2) Would she ever consider using this kind of punishment with PayPal?

I want Yash to make it abundantly clear to Gayatri that he expects that Ansh will be treated the same as his daughters, and also that she is not allowed to do anything with any of the children alone anymore, as she is clearly not trustworthy to care for them.

So far a good episode 😳

I knew that Scindiyas are Sexist