Thendral Friday's Update - 27/04/2012 - Page 3

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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey friends is it supposed to take turns for writing writen updates for thendral or oly a person is supposed to post the written update ...
thank you tanu for the written update 👏 which was so wonderful
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sue Chechi, Your quote: 'Lav said that she would report them for harassing her and her mum for dowry. GP is well off and it looks rather silly if the authority were to believe that GP is demanding for dowry from a lower middle class family and that too when he has not taken any action against them for pinching a large amount from his account.'It is true the complaint really looks silly because GP is from a well-off family. But then that again is the Indian law of dowry harassment. The burden of the proof that laav is not harassed is on GP and his family members. And the first thing done is GP, his wife and Nit will be taken to prison just believing what Laav said. This was the case till very recently. The supreme court has recently declared 98% of dowry harassment cases and domestic violence cases made by women are false and so the way this law is handled is modified. The police have to have evidence before arresting. Of course police could arrest them only if Bhuvana bribed them.
Even with whatever is said in the law, even if Laav makes false cases they won't work. Because Laav can only claim to stay in the house owned by Nit and claim compensation from Nit's earning.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks tanu dear for ur wondrerful update...🤗

Again anand part in separate track...😕If they continue like this,,,,then it will be boring too much...😭...first time i liked MM...👍🏼 i hope he will continue...😍

I hate this lav completely...😡😡I want to see her suffering...😍pls show it soon...😍
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vjayam

Sue, Per law only ancestral property coming down thru generations get passed on to the grand children...but wealth earned by someone does not get passed on automatically and it is upto the person who earned the wealth to decide the benefeciary...

so in this case we know that GP (told earlier) wealth is earned by him and so need not pass automatically to anyone..it is upto gp to decide who to give..



Thanks Vjayam for your explanation. So both mother and daughter are talking thru their noses without proper investigations. And that Nits was blinking and walked away with their threat at the back of his mind. Doesn't he know anything at all?😡 That Lav can easily twist him around her little finger!!...This fellow if he is not careful then after his parents death whatever his dad has earned will go down the drain and he will be left penniless on the streets. People will easily swindle him too.😕
Edited by Sue Nair - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maha2us

Sue Chechi, Your quote: 'Lav said that she would report them for harassing her and her mum for dowry. GP is well off and it looks rather silly if the authority were to believe that GP is demanding for dowry from a lower middle class family and that too when he has not taken any action against them for pinching a large amount from his account.'It is true the complaint really looks silly because GP is from a well-off family. But then that again is the Indian law of dowry harassment. The burden of the proof that laav is not harassed is on GP and his family members. And the first thing done is GP, his wife and Nit will be taken to prison just believing what Laav said. This was the case till very recently. The supreme court has recently declared 98% of dowry harassment cases and domestic violence cases made by women are false and so the way this law is handled is modified. The police have to have evidence before arresting. Of course police could arrest them only if Bhuvana bribed them.

Even with whatever is said in the law, even if Laav makes false cases they won't work. Because Laav can only claim to stay in the house owned by Nit and claim compensation from Nit's earning.



Thanks Mahas - definitely anything and everything should have solid evidence and authorities should not blindly listen to one party alone. Again Lav/GW are saying this without much investigation that GP and family will be sent behind bars if she were to make a complain to the police about dowry harassment. Let's hope Bhu has her own problems dealing with TPS and gang moving into her home that she has no time to entertain Lav and her problems.😆

I was watching another serial
Azhagi and in that mother of the bride was forced to get enough cash so that the bride,groom, his mum & sister are able to rent a house on their own. She is either to beg,borrow or steal but that is not the in-laws problem. How come they are able to demand like this? After a couple of episodes there was a misunderstanding and the bride was told to go back to her mum when in fact they are staying in a rented house financed by the bride's
mum. I don't understand this at all esp. now ppl are more educated and are able to see things much more clearly than before esp. when the bride is educated but sadly the bride here is so hard-up for her hubby and her priority is to be in his/mother's good books without giving any due consideration for her poor mum.😲


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sue Chechi, what happens in the serial 'Azhagi' is really absurd. The bride has genuine reason to get police help. She could definitely lodge complaint based on dowry harassment act or domestic violence act. Even Thulasi had every right to do that based on the way her MIL behaved. But these persons won't go for complaint based on these acts. People like Laav make these false cases just to keep the husband and in-laws scared.

In fact, there are many sad tales in India in which because of the complaints by women like laav, the old parents-in-law and their unmarried daughter(s) had gone behind the bars for ten to fifteen days. They are forced to take anticipatory bails also. The complaints are made by people like Laav by bribing the police with the help of Bhuvana like persons. One husband was dragged in a police jeep from Delhi to Haridwar because of a false complaint by his wife.
As you say hopefully Bhuvana has her own problems dealing with TPS, T etc. Definitely Bhu is going to be in trouble because she is only going to be supported by CP. While TPS, T, TA, Lax and Prabha - Nobody is going to support Bhuvana.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bhuvana told MM yesterday, 'Thulasi and her dad are after the wealth she has.' Did she ever think how absurd this statement is? Is Prabhakar also after her wealth? Like T, he is also 'paasathukku engaran.' and is not behind Bhu's wealth. Let P and T share love with each other as siblings. Who is behind money? Despite having crores or money (as Bhu claims), she is greedy for more wealth. So she is romancing with a girl Shruthi who is more wealthy than Bhu. Why is Bhu so blind of her own facts?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maha2us

Bhuvana told MM yesterday, 'Thulasi and her dad are after the wealth she has.' Did she ever think how absurd this statement is? Is Prabhakar also after her wealth? Like T, he is also 'paasathukku engaran.' and is not behind Bhu's wealth. Let P and T share love with each other as siblings. Who is behind money? Despite having crores or money (as Bhu claims), she is greedy for more wealth. So she is romancing with a girl Shruthi who is more wealthy than Bhu. Why is Bhu so blind of her own facts?



Bhu is not blind about her own shortcomings - its just that she just brushed it off coz of her pana thimiru...but on the other hand she finds faults with others by repeating like a parrot that they are after her money. Wasn't she after TPS money when she went after Lax? Everything earned by Lax at that point of time belongs to TPS too.😡

She wouldn't say that Prabha is after her money bcoz she only thinks of him as her only child born thru Lax who is of a higher status compared to MM - thus Thuls is considered as a bad garbage from the slums bcoz MM fathered her. Bhu wants to erase the fact that she bore T in her womb...so she keeps repeating it over a hundred times so that it would stick to her head that T is not her child. When you keep on repeating a lie as truth then over a period of time the lie would begin to sound like a truth. Anyway she is cheating herself for nuts..!!😡

Whatever it maybe...a person like Bhu shd not be forgiven esp. by T bcoz nothing is going to change if T accepts her as her mum by forgiving her. The sad childhood that she went thru without the love and care of a mum can never be replaced. She not only went thru sufferings under the evil eyes of her step mum but MM had a share in it too.😕

I am actually waiting for Bhu to go thru sufferings to the maximum - she should get attacks from leprosy that even Lax will have second thoughts to go near her. Ppl who had respect for her initially should now ridicule her and openly condemn her as an untouchable. They should not serve her food but throw it at her...then only she would realize how heartless she has been to the poor and those whom she considered below her dignity. She must also realize that everything is in God's hand that if He decides the ones who are riding sky high can be dropped like hot bricks too.!😡

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maha2us

Sue Chechi, what happens in the serial 'Azhagi' is really absurd. The bride has genuine reason to get police help. She could definitely lodge complaint based on dowry harassment act or domestic violence act. Even Thulasi had every right to do that based on the way her MIL behaved. But these persons won't go for complaint based on these acts. People like Laav make these false cases just to keep the husband and in-laws scared.

In fact, there are many sad tales in India in which because of the complaints by women like laav, the old parents-in-law and their unmarried daughter(s) had gone behind the bars for ten to fifteen days. They are forced to take anticipatory bails also. The complaints are made by people like Laav by bribing the police with the help of Bhuvana like persons. One husband was dragged in a police jeep from Delhi to Haridwar because of a false complaint by his wife.
As you say hopefully Bhuvana has her own problems dealing with TPS, T etc. Definitely Bhu is going to be in trouble because she is only going to be supported by CP. While TPS, T, TA, Lax and Prabha - Nobody is going to support Bhuvana.



Ya...its when we are ignorant that ppl would start taking advantage of it. Lav is either cunningly threatening Nits knowing very well that he is not aware of it or she herself is not well versed in the system but just shooting blindly thinking that she is at a gain by being the mother of Nits child.😉

This woman needs to be taught a lesson that she would never ever forget for the rest of her life.
.😡

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