Was it Really that Bad? - Page 2

I think the show has clearly brought out different prespectives of same situation from diff relationship and age point of view . Each individual is right in their own respect. now lets' see how thye come to one common solution.

Loved ur post ...completely agree with character arti or arpita is ...though i do get annoy little bit with ansh behaviour but again he is always there for her mother .

Great post! I completely agree everyone has flaws and no one can adjust perfectly to a new environment within a day. This show is depicting just that. Aarti's overprotectiveness towards Ansh is understandable because she is all he has in the house right now. These were the same people who at one point wanted permanently separate Aarti and Ansh. It has been shown that they will not accept Ansh so easily. Aarti doesn't think that anyone else cares for him in the household therefore she is being extra caring towards Ansh.

And by the way the Schindias are not perfect parents either that was shown the by the way Payal keeps sticking her tongue out at Aarti or the Payal and Palak are always fighting. Ansh is pampered but definitely a more caring and understanding kid. Also Yash is show to make the complete opposite mistake of Aarti being too neglectful. They will learn to from each other and together make the perfect team. The whole idea of twin soul mates will be depicted here.

Yes even I have a fear that there might be some friction to develop between Arya this week due to Yash's OCD and their children. They really need to start effectively communicating with each other especially when it comes to their kids. Also I don't like the way everyone blames Aarti for not doing everything perfectly on her first day in the Schindia household. While Yash goes about his daily routine completely ignorant to the fact he has new family members and new responsibilities that come with that. We are being as regressive as the Schindias blaming the bahu for everything.

I agree with this post!!

Yes! Ansh is spoilt, but at the end of the day he is 4. You just changed his world and you expect him not to act up?? Really?? He was looking forward to a Naye Papa, who honestly, right now is not understanding that Ansh needs a father,just like his daughters need a mother.

I find it very interesting that Yash got so annoyed to see his room so messy. I feel like when you have a four year around its quite common that they mess, you clean up after them :) Aarti will has soon as the rituals are over! Just because he is use to servants just cleaning, that does not mean everyone is. Aarti would have, if he had given her some time too.

I also liked that while Aarti is pampering Ansh,she did think of making Puris for Payal and Palak as well. But lovely gayarati came there and ruined a potenial bonding between mother and daughters. From a psychology perspective you completely understand why Ansh is so spoilt by Aarti. Aarti has no parents, and her husband abandoned her. While she has good in laws, Ansh is the only thing that is truly hers, and sort of her life line.

I love Parindhi!!! She has come to that house I think to break tradition, not all but the ones that have no place in today's society. I see her standing up fro both VIdhi and Aarti in the future and am loving it! I really don't want to see these Bahu's fighting like they often show.

I dont like Mr. Sindhia, there is something not right about him. I know Gayarati is old-fashioned, but she is so up front, but Mr. Sindia, I dont know, something about him is not right.

Cant agree more... Todays episode was fab..

Great discussion. I am glad that there are a greater number of people than I thought who understand how typical this situation is rather than merely blaming, Ansh, Yash, and Aarti in alternate turns. In my opinion, Gayatri has more hang-ups and less understanding of people than the 4-year old.