Hi All,
A Lovely Morning to all the lovely sunshine's here !!
Without further ado,lets slip into the process of discussing the episode but before that let me add a prelude ...Y'day after watching the episode, I was seething, as I said to Doods, "I am ubbling like a Volcano '..She asked me "Why"..I told her " OTT and coo-ey voice gets me "..that brief chat did calm me and the voice in the back began to get louder, A voice shouting that there is something in the episode ...After due rest and with due credit to Shweths whose post in y'days Redux gave me the inkling, I did revise my opinion of the episode ...There is Something !!
When I first saw the opening scene of the episode..Arnav and Khushi together, standing side by side like a couple... when what do they see , a big,vast Rangoli laid out in front of them...Khushi happily traipses through the Rangoli , holding on to the Pot while Arnav is left stranded on the other side ... He stands there , his vision clearly looking at Khushi, his Goal and distanced from her by the Rangoli.. but is the Rangoli unyielding, keeping them apart, no, for strategically placed in the Rangoli are footholds for Arnav to cross over ..Arnav does, stumbling, unsure , his trust placed on Khushi.. He crosses this chasm and reaches her, for him to be pulled back into his refuge, safety by Khushi !!
Does this remind of something , Yes, You are right ...It reminded me of Ramayan !! ..Khushi/Sita is held captive by suspicion , mistrust, ..Arnav is on the other side , The ocean of Rangoli separates him from his Khushi , A bridge of boulders were built so that Ram could cross the ocean and go into enemy territory... here again there are spaces in Rangoli acting as the boulders..Arnav carefully places his legs on them and crosses into the enemy territory, The lanka of Shyam! he almost stumbles in his search of her, his belief shaken by the clever use of magic , witchcraft of the demon , but his trust in her goads him towards the truth , where awaiting him is his Vaidehi Pure , unsullied and radiant !!
Khushi has taken his pot, his world [as I mentioned in the other post] with her and it is in her safe keeping implying that Arnav's peace and happiness resides within her and she will be the keeper of his life, his future..She knows he will come and he does not disappoint her ..Arnav comes in search of Khushi, unsure, a tyro being guided by the expert and he trusts her enough to do as she directs and attains his goal..
Another ironical aspect which struck me during this scene was Khushi's remark,"I am happy that you do trust me so much" ..If only she knew !!
This is about journey, the journey of Arnav from a machine to Human, it is the journey where his heart and mind merges and he will become Arnav Singh Raizada and not ASR !! today he stood near the gates, by the fence, uncertain, hesitant to enter a alien world , His back turned towards his own empty life , HE begun to take the first baby steps towards connecting with life , guided by a girl who is awash in it ..He placed his fragile trust in her, walked as he was bidden , She did jockey him around but when it mattered, when he appeared to be stumbling at the final hurdle, she lend him her hand and pulled him safely into harbour, not letting him go.. Yes, Circumstances will impel Khushi to leave Arnav , Arnav will come in search of her , will try to make amends, will again build the bridge [all part of his redemption] ..Khushi who had been standing alone, aloof will be moved finally to accept him cux she will finally understand Arnav , she will get her answer to "Aap kya cheez ho ?" ..In a way this fulfills Lavany's prophecy of ,"Tum samajhdar ho , Khushi, tum samjhogi'..Yes After Arnav lets her go, the samajhdar Khushi will understand his compulsions, his foibles, accept him with his pluses and minuses and give him what he has always craved, Unconditional love !!
Arnav has made his voyage successfully and now stands by the door, which is the final barrier withholding him from knowing the truth !!..The door is opened by Buaji and her first words "NandKishore has come !! " Not Sankha Devi , Not Khushi not Arnav Bituwa but NandKishore , and subsequently continued ,"Nandkishore has come to our house for the first time after marriage"...
NandKishore aka Krishna Aka Rama.. It was Krishna who spearheaded the battle for justice, Krishna who is considered to be the God who rushes to set the balances rights , Nandkishore it was who always vanquished evil, NandKishore it was who played and teased the gopikas mercilessly, stealing their clothes while bathing and it was the same Krishna who covered Draupadi and prevented her modesty being outraged ...Y'day I had called Arnav a warrior and today it gets further support when Buaji utters, "NandKishore' not once but twice instead of the usual Babua or Arnav Bituwa.. HE has come !! HE has come to stand by them, the answer to their pryaer, HE has come to save them from the clutches of the evil one , HE has come as a shield , offering his protection ...It was Arnav who was instrumental in first stripping Khushi of her dignity, of staining her integrity of blotting her character and it will be Arnav who will remove that stain, who will cover her modesty and will give her the respect that she had lost !!
The arathi comes and he is anointed as the 'Chosen One' but here comes the most interesting angle...Arnav is stopped from eating the sweet.. Arnav does not get the prasad of DM and is stopped from recieving it by DM's child Khushi ...Why would DM give her blessing to the man who refuses to believe her existence,,He was the man who stood outside the temple and rejected the prasad , claiming that he does not believe in DM ..and today the same Prasad was witheld to him coz he still does not believe.. His share of happiness has been put on hold while Khushi gets her portion which she promptly eats ...Does this mean , That Arnav is headed for perpetual unhappiness, loneliness and sorrow ...NO!! ..remember Khushi's stricture outside the temple when she tells Arnav that "There will come a day when u will realize that you are powerless and will believe in DM, will believe that she is the destiny maker and u the follower of it..That will be the day u will understand DM but I'll not be there" Yes, Arnav will get his share of blessings from the Goddess when he accepts his frailty, when his ego crumbles ..and that will happen when Khushi walks out, when his ego will take tumbling as he realizes how wrong he was , when he realizes that he has no power to stop Khushi, it will be the day when the humbled Arnav accepts his MOTHER !! Then he will get his share of Prasad , his share of happiness..Khushi has set him on this path of discovery, of humility of redemption today by persistently asking him to call Garima "Amma" or Mother !!..ANd what is "Mother" ..The Universal name for Devi Mayya ...Arnav is resisting it ..but he will have to bend before the force of love and affection ... The man who used to run away from mother is now staying with Mother, soon there will be acceptance...
The 3 deviyaans stand there each holding bowls in their hand..All come and place it, uncovering ti simultaneously ..He is given food low on salt,masalas unflavored, inedible & Arnav accepts it, eats it quietly without creating much fuss !!
How I loved this sequence ..Each one of them have a secret to share, a secret connected to him, his family .. if Garima has the sword of deciding to hide Shyam's truth, Buaji has the sword of Shyam stalking Khushi while Khushi has the issue of explaining the broken engagement, his advances ... All three advance towards him and out their truth in its original form, without any garnish , without any Masala ...The truth is outed in its original form, unpalatable, repugnant nevertheless THE TRUTH !! Arnav does not demur much, he accepts it, looks briefly at Khushi and begins to process ...easily my most fav scene
Next comes the ' If water does not come to the horse , then the horse must be lead to the source of water " ...Y'day I had mentioned that Arnav is driving towards the source , in pursuit of truth, in pursuit of happiness ..Today this scene further affirmed that notion when Buaji informs to the sundry that if air is not coming nearby Arnav , then Arnav has to come towards the source of fresh breeze ..And Arnav does come ..Also notice the positioning of the character at this juncture..All the Gupta's at one side , Arnav facing them , walking towards them in pursuit of truth !!..
Arnav has finished consuming the unpalatable facts, refusing any sweetener ..He walks out to cleanse and to think ...There he stands in front of the fragmented mirror , wondering at his predicament, when khushi comes and offers him a towel..
So Arnav has been presented a fragmented picture of Shyam, each fragments with jagged edges , wounding if not handles with care ..it is here that Khushi brings the towel, the one texture that can blunt the sharpness of the mirror , makes the edges incapable of hurting anyone ..Arnav accepts it but decides that this is inadequate and calls in reinforcement..
When I saw the fragmented glasses, Another thought came in which recalled Ramayan to mind again.. Ravan , as we know was a many headed man, destined never to die ..and this broken pieces reminded me of the many heads.. how will Arnav cut thru all these heads , alone ..but Arnav being a trenchant warrior , is preparing himself and arming himself well
Buaji is searching for her glasses which is perched right on top of her head , There is a knock on the door, A woman enters , requesting for Milk ..Khushi volunteers to get it and gives the milk..Then comes another knock, handing a bowl of Sugar to Garima, In the interim, Buaji has found her glass ..
In the Hindu Mythology, Cows Milk has been equated to life.. when Khushi hands over the bowl of milk to that lady , Khushi is handing over her life voluntarily , this is happening right under the nose of Buaji who is hampered by her blurred vision, who is unable to realize that her niece has signed away her life ...Khushi hands back her vision and Buaji begins to see things clearly when second knock comes ..bringing in sugar, heralding sweetness, happiness into their family again but Garima who holds the key is clueless and it takes the wise Buaji to set Khushi on her path of realization.. on her journey ...Today we saw the commencement of Arnav's journey and the seed of Khushi's future journey !!
Having equated Shyam with Ravan makes it easier to understand Anjali now, she is Mandodari , The Pativrat Naari who lived for her husband , who stood by and watched her husband sacrificing her children to feed his lust !! ... Shyam now has the imprint of the key .. he si under the impression that this is his nectar , the nectar that will make him immortal, make him all powerful , will get him to prevail over Arnav..but he forgets one thing , His Amrit was checkmated by Brahmasthra, the all powerful one ..Yes Rama did flounder initially as he did not know where to target, which head to behead ..but he was given the clue to aim at the navel of Ravan , the source of the Nectar, eliminate the nectar , eliminate Ravan ..IMO..Bubli will be the provider of the clue since she has been told to look through and it will be easier to see the sides..she will be the one to figure out [either knowingly or unknowingly] , help Arnav in his mission and succeed in destroying the source of evil ...Will this begin Shyam's redemption..we have to wait and see !!