Does Sandhya Deserve all this ? NOT Liking this !

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Im shocked ! this is why i sometimes hate indian Shows 😡 who make me hate a character 😡 !! im not liking how they showing Suraj !! THIS IS NOT suraj !! Suraj Was NEVER so immature !!
Does he know Sandhya ? ! Im shocked ! a gurl like Sandhya who sacrificed EVERYTHING is Gettin this !? !SHE tried to Ask him why he is doing all this cuz her heart is not ready to accept tht Suraj could be like this !!

Im NOT liking ALL this ! they better Change Suraj ASAP ! or else Good bye to this show ! as Sandhya is 1 character I have full sympathy with n She CLEARLY do not Deserve wat she is getting now !!
its just pissing the Hell outta me !

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Posted: 13 years ago
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May be he is trying to take Worst husband award from shyaam 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bud2012

May be he is trying to take Worst husband award from shyaam 😕

Im clearly not liking this Suraj !! thanks to him i stopped watchin the show !! 1st sandhya did annouye me ! but not she is gettin punished for SOMETHING SHE doesnt deserve !!

1st of all i wanna kill sandhya for taking Test over test !!
she needs to open her mouth now n LEAVE suraj !! this will bring him to his sense !

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sandhya absolutely does not deserve this. She lost her parents in a bomb blast, got betrayed by her selfish brother, got forcibly married to an unknown boy in a strange family, her best friend got married and left the town, she bore all the taunts and humiliation of her MIL and in-laws, for what? We need to pause here and ask ourselves, why? Because she is falling in love with the man who stood as a pillar of support behind her when everyone deserted her.

I know several of the members on this Forum find Sandhya not being warming up to Suraj, but this is an arranged, and forced marriage, with huge disparity in status. Can we expect otherwise? To fall in love with a man overnight who is not even in the same wavelength as her? Just because he is a nice and understanding person, and he is good looking? In real life, this marriage would not last. But in this story, the poor girl is trying, and if you think of it, falling for Suraj slowly. there are so many people feeling sorry for Suraj that he is not getting husband's due share, but I wonder why they do not feel for Sandhya? Is she getting a wife's due respect and love? No, not at all. Suraj's love for her is hidden inside his heart which is overshadowed by love and respect for his mother.

I personally know girls whose strengths are not cooking and doing household chores, but they are tremendously talented in science and other creative things. Sandhya's greatest wealth is her good values and her love for knowledge, for which there is no appreciation at all in the Rathi household. So what is keeping her there? surely, her love for Suraj, of which she is unaware.

Yes, I am hurt and pained to see her like this, and no offence meant to any member, I can not side with Suraj and his family, however nice and good he is. He was being nice to her, but when the time for real testing came, he miserably failed. He showed his true colors that being raised by a narrow-minded mother, he cannot see beyond physical and menial gains in a relationship.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am truly disappointed in him. The CVs have made him into someone that we are all starting to hate. Isn't this suppose to be the show where the husband stand by his wife and supports her? Here he is beating her down like everyone else.

Just sad to see this show take this turn.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why should she take Test Again and Again , is there meaning laid in giving her Tests ,Why is suraj not taking any tests , I think every time , when Wife , Mother face eachother , Surajs position is like a Man getting tested , And He failed in every test as Husband .

Suraj is the Main person , with whom she got pathetic place. He has to be bold.

If he goes to torture her like Bhabo , the show has no Meaning keeping the Title of Supportive Husband .

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sucheta2012

Sandhya absolutely does not deserve this. She lost her parents in a bomb blast, got betrayed by her selfish brother, got forcibly married to an unknown boy in a strange family, her best friend got married and left the town, she bore all the taunts and humiliation of her MIL and in-laws, for what? We need to pause here and ask ourselves, why? Because she is falling in love with the man who stood as a pillar of support behind her when everyone deserted her.

I know several of the members on this Forum find Sandhya not being warming up to Suraj, but this is an arranged, and forced marriage, with huge disparity in status. Can we expect otherwise? To fall in love with a man overnight who is not even in the same wavelength as her? Just because he is a nice and understanding person, and he is good looking? In real life, this marriage would not last. But in this story, the poor girl is trying, and if you think of it, falling for Suraj slowly. there are so many people feeling sorry for Suraj that he is not getting husband's due share, but I wonder why they do not feel for Sandhya? Is she getting a wife's due respect and love? No, not at all. Suraj's love for her is hidden inside his heart which is overshadowed by love and respect for his mother.

I personally know girls whose strengths are not cooking and doing household chores, but they are tremendously talented in science and other creative things. Sandhya's greatest wealth is her good values and her love for knowledge, for which there is no appreciation at all in the Rathi household. So what is keeping her there? surely, her love for Suraj, of which she is unaware.

Yes, I am hurt and pained to see her like this, and no offence meant to any member, I can not side with Suraj and his family, however nice and good he is. He was being nice to her, but when the time for real testing came, he miserably failed. He showed his true colors that being raised by a narrow-minded mother, he cannot see beyond physical and menial gains in a relationship.

I totally agree with you
all man is like that no values for wife reel life or real life all man love only one women mother...inforent of mother no value for wife...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kahkashansakina

I totally agree with you
all man is like that no values for wife reel life or real life all man love only one women mother...inforent of mother no value for wife...


Many men are like that, not all. There are lot of smart men who can make decision independent of their moms, but our Surajsa is not that type. afsos!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ananth12

Why should she take Test Again and Again , is there meaning laid in giving her Tests ,Why is suraj not taking any tests , I think every time , when Wife , Mother face eachother , Surajs position is like a Man getting tested , And He failed in every test as Husband .

Suraj is the Main person , with whom she got pathetic place. He has to be bold.

If he goes to torture her like Bhabo , the show has no Meaning keeping the Title of Supportive Husband .


I agree. How is he different from other men though? And why is he assuming that Sandhya brought that divorce paper? Meena may have brought it to harass Sandhya. he himself knows Meena is a great liar and thief. he should at least check with Sandhya. Sandhya tried to find out but he shut her up with his garbage talk.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree too and still can't believe was this the same suraj who asked sandhya if she has any problems and tried to know her feelings before 😲 and now deliberately hurting her even with out asking what exactly has happened... it would have been better if he vent out his anger when asking sandhya directly abt divorse papers instead of assuming things by himself and pretending this way 😕...when they planned for this track atleast thought misunderstanding would be for sometime but its seriously continuing day by day and don't understand what made cv's drag it more 😡 ...hope this track ends and we get to see old suraj back and clear out their differences soon ...
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