was anita ever negative

to me she was fighting for her love, she never did anything negative she wanted kokila to accept her but she didnt she did not do anything cheap if you have forgotten it was kinjal n anitas brother umang who did everything anita was not involved.
Aham was the spineless man he was the one who dumped her, because his mom did not approve. He wanted anita he thought it was love but in reeailty it was lust she was modern educated sophisticated perfect for his business lifestyle but not family.
n somehow gopi was a pawn in this chess game that urmilla n rashi instigated.
Both gopi n anita are both very much the same, they both love the same man, both got hurt by him, both of them are going to get a shock, Gopi the shock of anita back in ahams life n anita that aham has moved on n is in love with his wife

i dnt think she was ever negative bt lets see wht she cmes up wid n wht she does cant wait... agree bth the ladyz will be shovked and poor ahem will be confused... n if Anita sees tht ahem has moved on then she might harm him n gopi she will be understandin tht her love has moved on n tht fact tht gopi is a nyce girl all we can do is wait n see...

Really... this is kind of true... Anita did however turn slightly against Kokila and even told Ahem that he will never be happy or something like that... She didn't want to get accepted by the family as long as she got Ahem. For the money or not is a different thing... but she only wanted Ahem, nothing to do with his family. Somewhere deep down Ahem knew it won't work... Thats why I feel he didn't push enough for his will... Cause seeing him now... he is quite upfront and adamant if he wants something... Maybe the creatives have chosen not to show this consistency in his character or something.

Yeah I don't remember anita doing anything negative. She wanted to be accepted by koki as she was.
So there is another possibility that CVs make all of us big fools and anita helps gopi to get close to ahem. Now that's what I call a twist😆

Yes anita just wanted aham in her life she begged both aham and kokila but they never accepted her in their life. I think she was good enough to be ahams wife. But kokila wanted naive innocent cultured bahu. She just use to wear modern dresses and had adopted modern lifestyle. But her love for aham was true .

She was not negative then and I agree Suk that she would have been heartbroken too...

Originally posted by: jandira

when a woman is hurt she can do a lot of things.

Originally posted by: Aish3003

Really... this is kind of true... Anita did however turn slightly against Kokila and even told Ahem that he will never be happy or something like that... She didn't want to get accepted by the family as long as she got Ahem. For the money or not is a different thing... but she only wanted Ahem, nothing to do with his family. Somewhere deep down Ahem knew it won't work... Thats why I feel he didn't push enough for his will... Cause seeing him now... he is quite upfront and adamant if he wants something... Maybe the creatives have chosen not to show this consistency in his character or something.

But yeah, she wasn't outright negative at the beginning.

she wanted kokila to accept her n then the family would have accepted her she knew from the beginning that aham was a package deal family included

Well she tried to kill her and Aham, until Aham intervened with the car.

Though he spoke to her the night she wanted to kill herself, she still shocked him on his engagement party, she could have spoken to him prior to the engagement she had time between the time their broke up and Gohem getting engaged, but we all know what she did, she came to the engagement to get him to break off the engagement, having failed and Kokila coming to her house and telling her exactly why she is not suitable for her family and her son.

Anita went to speak to Aham, after the engagement and made him promise to leave his family and be with her. She made Aham choose between his mother and her, and lost, he chose the mother and his family.

She carried on abusing him and on his wedding night she cursed him. Kinjal was telling him to quit the wedding when Sonal walked out, he refused by that time he had smiled at Gopi and was fully intending to lead a normal marriage with Gopi, but that phonecall the night before Suhag Raat by Anita, and the fact Gopi turned up to be illiterate caused lots of problems too.

So yes she faught for Aham, but marriage you don't marry only the man and similarly when you marry a women you don't only marry that person, you form relationships with the family too, and Anita had no relationship with the Modi's and when Kokila after the engagement fiasco approached her she should have called it quits but she didn't she tried twice more, the first time telling Kinjal to lie to go to the dentist/doctor and then later on when she begged Aham herself.