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Posted: 13 years ago
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we are all taking so much abt the fact tht anushka is villaneous but a thot came 2 my mind

tht wht abt the film industry ..aamir khan , kabir bedi,boney kapoor ,dharmendra ,

etc etc so many have second marriages n wht not ..i mean then they shuld all be criticised but

v all look upto them ..i think if 2 people r not getting along its better to seperate that

to just make each living day hell for each other as well as kids.

in the precap its shown tht pradeep is crying for anushka ..i think in tht scene
his true feelings for anushka r coming out ..after all as they say no one can 4get their 1st love
maybe thts comiing out




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Posted: 13 years ago
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I won't say it is a sin to find love again and remarry. I also believe it's better to part ways if one is not able despite one's best efforts to find happiness in marriage.

But things are not so simple on the ground. Duty is almost as important as love. Perhaps Pradeep, deep down, really did not love Mona as much as he had thought. But what about his children? What about his sense of responsibility towards his wife? If he had fairly and squarely told Mona the truth they might have come to a cordial understanding and parted ways amicably. Instead, he is romancing Anushka on the sly, covering up HIS guilt by accusing Mona of being a bad wife, and neglecting his kids by giving them expensive gifts instead of his time.

Then, we also have to consider Anushka's behaviour. If she truly loves Pradeep, why doesn't she have faith in the sheer power of her love to bring him back? Why does she have to resort to luring him by her money and resorting to petty machinations to make Mona look bad? By their behaviour, Pradeep and Anushka have lost the moral side of the battle already. In the future, they may be together (as seems very likely once Mona finds out) but how happy their selfishness will let them be, is the question.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanna_montana

we are all taking so much abt the fact tht anushka is villaneous but a thot came 2 my mind

tht wht abt the film industry ..aamir khan , kabir bedi,boney kapoor ,dharmendra ,

etc etc so many have second marriages n wht not ..i mean then they shuld all be criticised but

v all look upto them ..i think if 2 people r not getting along its better to seperate that

to just make each living day hell for each other as well as kids.

in the precap its shown tht pradeep is crying for anushka ..i think in tht scene
his true feelings for anushka r coming out ..after all as they say no one can 4get their 1st love
maybe thts comiing out






actually...Aamir isnt a part of that group. He didn't cheat on his wife, like those other shameless men did. Aamir got divorced a long time ago and got remarried a few years ago :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I've a question here.. IF Pradeep really loved Anushka that much why did he ever get married to some one else whouldn'y he have waited ????
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@mumoos thts i think becos anushka dint want to marry n settle dwn at tht point of time ..n wanted to make a career ..n pradeep did nt wait for her...if pradeep truly loved her ..he shuld have waited for anushka..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@blyton yeah ur right ...if anushka truly loves pradeep she shuld have faith in her love ..pray to god n wait for him to return..thts wht love is abt.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes both r just mutually attracted to each other after all these yrs.i dont think their love ll last long.pradeep ll be haunted with his family & anushka ll be haunted with his attitude.he ll definitely return to his family.
but mona should nt accept him at any cost.she should find a way to upbring her children alone.
ekta gave her only 2 kids at a time.before her son was missing,now her 2nd daughter is missing.anyway it s a relief in disguise.she has to take care only 2 at a time
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think its the case of always wanting what we dont have and thinking the 'grass is always greener on the other side' Anushaka wanted a career for which she sacrificedgetting married now she wants what she doesnt have and Pradeep sacrificed his career for getting married and now he wants that side.
Both are going to realise that life is not as easy and rosy as what it seems from far.
Anushaka doesnt realise that being a wife is not as simple as just sleeping with the man and Pradeep will realise that success and money doesnt always give you happiness.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think the problem is not Pradeep wanting Anushka over Mona, its the fact that he could not man up and say it. He wants Anushka as a lover, and Mona as a wife...thats a PROBLEM. CHEATING IS A PROBLEM. The thing is also that he started cheating on Mona, when they weren't having problem, and he insulted her for no reason.
Anushka is wrong too because she started by being the other women, and not wants rights. She should have asked him to get a divorce BEFORE starting an affair. Anushka and Pradeep are wrong.

I really want Mona too stand up for herself - show that she can be a good mother, and successful. And show Pradeep, that all these years she did not do that because of Pradeep, her love for him.

I don't want her to just accept him back, when he is ready.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jannat786

I think its the case of always wanting what we dont have and thinking the 'grass is always greener on the other side' Anushaka wanted a career for which she sacrificedgetting married now she wants what she doesnt have and Pradeep sacrificed his career for getting married and now he wants that side.

Both are going to realise that life is not as easy and rosy as what it seems from far.
Anushaka doesnt realise that being a wife is not as simple as just sleeping with the man and Pradeep will realise that success and money doesnt always give you happiness.


Perfectly put. This is the basic problem with both of them, which prevents the viewers from feeling even a tad bit sympathetic for them. It seems their affair is based more on selfish frustrated desires than on true, deep love.

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