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i m a firm believer tht every human being does mistakes, sometime big, sometime small. i m also firm believer tht whn we discuss a serial character, we sd discuss on the basis of wht hs been shown and not wht sd be shown. so all my point in this thread will be only on the base of SERIAL STORY AND NOT REAL STORYđđ
now lets see, Jogia was the main culprit from the start. he cheated Anandi, he cheated GouriđĄ he was a big manipulator who always justify his act by manipulating the situation, like he justified his adultery, portraying himself as child marriage victim. he betrayed his family, he betrayed every relation. but since he married to Gouri and Gouri KNOWINGLY entered in this mess, we cant blame him anymore for cheating atleast to Gouri. he left his family for her and he was firm in his decision. its Only Gouri pushed him towards his family with her Ashirwaad mission and after tht everytime bringing his family between their relationship and blaming thm for everything. Now if Jogia is feeling for his family (which is quite natural for any person, who hs a sense of responsibility towards his family, which Jogia hd lost earlier but now realising), thn its only due to Gouri.
Jogia is getting wht he deserve. for cheating Anandi, he lost his family. for adultery, he got Gawari madam type illegal wife, wo hs made his life hellđđ he hs lost his child, he is in receiving end for the fualt, which is not besically his. he is suffering from self guilty. he is trying hard to correct his mistakes in both front. he is doing everything for his family, even bearing all humiliation and not demanding anything from thm, but just doing prayashchit. he saved Anandi, but didnt demand and expect anything for this. he came to jetsar staking his career for the sake of BM. he did everything but never showed tht he is doing any ahsan for thm. just silently and patiently waiting (the rit way to patch up with angry family). with Gouri too, he hs not cheated her after marriage. if there hs been shown some emotion for Anandi, thn may be again just his guilt feeling for her and feeling tht he is responsible for her all trouble. he never tried to seduce her. (some eyelock scenes may be just overdose to make people interested, by CVs). if he was calling Anandi secretly, becoz he knew tht Gawari madam is not the person who can understand anything. so just to avoid more tention in their already tensed life. still i m not saying tht he hs become a perfect person and he sd be forgiven for everything. but atleast now he is not adding any other mistakes. he realised his fualt for everything. his dialogue was very touchy tht he cd not make happy anyone. I always appreciate people who realise their fualt and try to do prayashchit. as till now wht hs been shown, he is doing same (i dont know wht will be shown later). i m not saying tht everyone sd just go gaga for him and Gale lagaofying. but atleast he is not giving any more reason to hate him further. atleast we can adopt a neutral stance for him, neither praise nor denounce.
On the other hand Gouri, who even after doing so much mistakes and making her and others life hell, still continuing blaming others. she hs still not realised her own mistakes, even after suffering so much. if a person dosnt realise, he can never improve. to improve urself, u must know ur mistakes. but Gouri madam feel tht she is the perfect person and whole world is full of fualts. thn we cant even expect from her any improvement. if tomorrow it will be shown tht after her miscarriage, she realised her mistakes and trying to correct it, i will praise her too and stop my de danadan for her.to accept ur mistakes, a person sd hv guts, and till now Gouri dosnt hv it. i know she will start blaming everyone, but herself and this is the things, which make me hate her.
I hate people who never realise their fualts and only play blame game. only on this basis i feel Jogia deserve forgiveness but Gouri still hv to work for it. i know some Faminst will start turning the topics to other direction, but i want to clarify my point tht, its only based on the recent developments. i dont minimizing Jogia fualt nor justifying him. i just want to say tht he cd be forgiven as he is going in rit direction. i m also dead against tht he sd go back to Anandi and all Family sd go gaga for him. i believe tht the mistake, which he hs done, he sd live with it. If Singh family cant accept him thn atleast they sd be neutral for him. But yes for Gouri i cant say the same as, i think she will continue doing mistake and if Jogia will loose his patience, thn she will be responsible herself.
one last thing, Jogia was and will be never my favourite character. i just judging him absolutely as neutral person, who dosnt matter for me.
Anupamaa
