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Rashi doesn't deserve Jigar! He is way too good for her!!!

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great post . really don't understand what the cvs are playing at . for gopi to win ahem over it took her 1.5 yr and for rashi 1.5 month. rashi really does not deserve jigar but the way he is behaving , he is definately going to be heartbroken again.

Originally posted by: ridakhankibua

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Originally posted by: aris22l

You know Abbay, for the past several days, I have been doing some soul searching about why I don't like Jigar loving Rashi. I like Jigar. He is a gentleman; has a gentle soul and a clear heart; he is not conniving and manipulative like Rashi. If it was a choice between having Jigar or Rashi in my life, I will take Jigar over Rashi any day. So why can't I be happy in what Jigar is doing for his wife. I tried to watch the kitchen scene; it just didn't do it for me. Love is supposed to be blind and unchangeable. Gopi loved Ahemji (I know there is no comparison between Ahem and Rashi) despite his rude behavior, so why can't I accept Jigarji's unwavering love for Rashi? I should admire him for that, right?

The thing is Jigarji's behavior bothers me is because I don't think he loves Rashi. He is a gentleman and he was brought up with good values, so he treats Rashi as he should do with any woman. I feel it was sweet of him to help Rashi in the Kitchen scene, but he would have done the same for Kinjal too if she was in Rashi's place. When he is concerned about Rashi, his concern doesn't come across of a person deeply in love. It is a concern for a friend or a fellow human being. He has to do something big for Rashi - may be defy his family for her, shield her from a bullet or support her in some other way to convince me he is in love with her. This seems more like an infatuation to me the way he is always trying to get physically close to her. I believe if he was married to any other woman, he will be the same way with her too. He needs to show that he can not imagine being with any other woman except Rashi and make the viewers believe that as we do in the case of Gohem. Until CV's do that for me, I am afraid I can't enjoy Jigarji's attention toward Rashi or the Raji romantic scenes. It all looks too fake and I almost feel sorry for Rashi for not having a true saathiya whose love could make her want to move mountains.

Cool op abbay! But aris i just have to say your post was one of the best posts on jigar that i have ever read! You have the man down to a t! And to be honest i really don't think this post should remain hidden here. It needs a thread of Its own. Please do start one!