Why do we come to India-Forums?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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This question has haunting me ever since I stepped onto this virtual world. This was the first time ever I have come to know of a forum or joined it. I loved the show hence when I saw the platform where we all could share and exchange ideas I jumped into it without thinking twice.

I ended up writing weird, funny, illogical, senseless, serious and maybe a little meaningful posts every now and then. And now even if I try, I cannot refrain from being here and end up writing and making another post after a gap of a day or two. So what is it that hooks me or everyone else here? Is it SNS or more than that?

Talking about the show and your favorite characters gives immense pleasure and a sort of kick which keeps us high for the rest of the day. We talk and share things which we probably could not talk otherwise with anyone. Imagine we spending hours and hours chatting with someone in real life...is it really possible?šŸ˜†My answer is no and I have never done it before. But writing and discussing it here has become a must for me.

Is it we have got emotionally attached with people on the forum here and their opinions and viewpoints matter to us?

Is it because it is a sort of a medium for expressing ourselves? Our opinions, beliefs, values, judgement, vision of things get a platform to be shared here. This forum represents a private space in my life, a beautiful solitude and I love to write my heart out in the moments before I go to sleep.

Some of the questions which I come across and maybe many here on the forum as well get me into real thinking.
  • As I look back on the day, what were the most significant events?

  • In what ways was this day unique, different from other days?

  • Did I have any particularly meaningful conversations?

  • Did I do any reading? What were my reactions to it?

  • How did I feel during the day? What were the emotional highs and lows? Why did I feel as I did? Is God or my spirit trying to tell me anything about these feelings?

  • Did I find myself worrying about anything today?

  • What were the chief joys of the day? What did I accomplish?

  • Did I fail at anything? What can I learn from this?

  • What did I learn today? When did I feel most alive?
For being on India-Forums and spending a chunk of my time here, I want it to be worthwhile. As much pleasure I get in reading and writing which has been my favorite hobby due to which I am here, I want to take the positive from here and get back in a high into my real life.

Was this rant or useless talk, I don't know, but I have been thinking why I am here since quite sometime and what is it that is keeping me hooked? I think it has nothing to do with addiction. One does what one loves to do.

PS. These nine questions are from Ron Klug (2002: 54) who has come up with a helpful set of starter questions for an 'end of the day'.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well for me india forums has become part of my life. whenever i am sad or gloomy there is always post that would cheer me up. 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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šŸ‘ šŸ‘ šŸ‘

OK shruti I am speechless!

You seem to do this to me often! Perhaps it is time I just got used to it.

But I can forward an excuse. Easter weekend is coming up and it feels like my brain is on holiday already!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashy924

well for me india forums has become part of my life. whenever i am sad or gloomy there is always post that would cheer me up. 😃


Yeah very true Ashy. There are various kinds of posts which we like or dislike but we accept what attracts us the most and take it into us.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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guys,
i come to IF becoz i don't hav friends at school who watch sns to discuss abtgohem ...so i come to IF to share my feeling without keeping it in brain and becoming mad... to update new news and of course to read ur funny comments and predictions ...
I LOVE IF AND GOHEM ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shruts. As far as I am concerned this was neither a rant or useless talk. This is the first forum that I have joined too and it is definitely one of the better things I have done. Here I have read a lot of meaningful and thought provoking posts. I have read funny posts and even dabbled at a few funny posts myself. I adore SNS from evil Urshi to our very own gohem and really feel that I have embarked on their journey with them. I love the points of view that are posted and the discussion threads are most entertaining. I will scream, alongside you all, laugh, cry and say W*F every now and again. But most of all I am drawn to the forum members. They have been there to give me encouragement for my attempts at writing ff's and writing in general which my own family does not understand nor encourage. They have been there to support me, indirectly through pms and for that I am ever grateful. We may not choose our family but I am glad that I chose this one. šŸ˜† Now see. You made me rant.šŸ˜›
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am crazy about Gohem so I like to visit this forum and discuss about them. Can see things from other's perspective. FF and OS are an added attraction😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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IF is part of my life jus like cuming on here n on the sns form im very attacted to if jus love it... i feel happy cuming n interaction with all of u guyz love each every one of you you all are part of my family...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

šŸ‘ šŸ‘ šŸ‘

OK shruti I am speechless!

You seem to do this to me often! Perhaps it is time I just got used to it.

But I can forward an excuse. Easter weekend is coming up and it feels like my brain is on holiday already!



What should I say?

Hmmn, don't be speechless.

Okai tell me why do you come to India Forums?šŸ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vaasanthi

guys,

i come to IF becoz i don't hav friends at school who watch sns to discuss abtgohem ...so i come to IF to share my feeling without keeping it in brain and becoming mad... to update new news and of course to read ur funny comments and predictions ...
I LOVE IF AND GOHEM ...


Yeah that is really good and mostly people doesn't discuss about the show in that detail what we do here on the forum.😊

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