You know you all have explained it really well!!! I dont think I would be able to write any thing better but still like to share my thought which I believe and follow religously that is that god has given destiny in our hands in the form of lines Iand is only an indication of what can happen but it is on us how we mould thes lines whether in our favour or against.
Here I will quote the lines that " haath ki lakeeron ko,todta marodta hai ye hausla" and the line we chose god always support us like in the case of gopi "she chose to work on her marriage and was always supported by her kanhaji either in the form of her Maaji, Devarjii ,kakijii and not to forget naani and baa"
When it comes to rashi she chose the path of kalakaries and she was also supported but only in the form of her mother but to her supporter there was also god trying to show her correct path in the form of koki and was always guided by the god in one or the other way but she always took the short and easy path and koki giving her correct but bitter medicine made her to look only at the taste of the medicine but not that how much that medicine is benifial and effective for her own self
Woh kehte hai na there are always many paths it you who decide which to follow!!!!! god and destiny can only guide us to the path it depends on us whether we use it to reach our destination or to a dead end